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myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life2 years ago

I, myself, is a very shy person. It's been a part of my personality ever since I was a kid.

I think it's natural!
I know a lot of us also feel the same way when someone stares at us especially when they stare from head to toe.

It's very inevitable to think that maybe they are thinking something bad about you or maybe they don't like what you wear or stuff like that. Heehee.

Anyways, do you also feel shy or are you confident enough to face them?
Give us some tips on how to overcome shyness.
:)


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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. austere (1576)   ranked 539 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

well, when somebody stares at me, i feel awkward about it. nd yes, i feel shy about it too.. i dont know it's like as if that person is trying to scrutinize me by merely looking at me... and as if that person is belittling me..hehehe i really dont enjoy that experiences.. and i sont mid them to.. why should i care?! why should i feel bad?! i dont give them the satisfaction by ruining my day!:) and i dont do it to people too.. i just look at people when am curious..:) or when we are introduced, but if not..i usually enjoy my own self..i'm not fond of minding other people's lives and businesses..hehehe why?! because i do not want them to do the same to me..:)


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

That's the right attitude!
Don't do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you!
Very nice response!
:)


myLot reputation of 94/100. austere (1576)   ranked 539 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

hehehehe thanks!
well, i just think that's the right thing to do!


myLot reputation of 98/100. trinidadvelasco (7673)   ranked 202 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

no one will feel comfortable if stared at. it is different when somebody is simply taking a look at you. that will be just okay. so i agree with you that it will never be desirable to have anyone stare at me, either. it is a good attitude for you to have not to let them who do it ruin your day.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

That's true!
:)


myLot reputation of 80/100. staywithpin (107)   ranked 4,210 out of 28,991 in life  1 year ago

I don't like the people who stared at me and especially from head to toes. If I am in that situation, I will go away and disppear from his eyes because I don't feel comfortable. But I will not shy as I can't find any reason to be shy.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. sreevasu (1350)   ranked 332 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

When I was in my teenage I had felt some sort of inferiority when I see plus sized persons. But through years of experience in life I have overcome all those complexes and now I am comfortable as what I am now. thanks for asking.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

Welcome. I'm glad you already overcome your shyness.
Good for you.
:)


myLot reputation of 69/100. sann007m2 (455)   ranked 15,215 out of 28,991 in life  1 year ago

I have an idea.At first you have to find out what is your -ve point for which you are feeling shy.Write down those point in a paper and think about it how can it turn as your +ve point.Now in next time you approach specially with this advantage and you will get more n more confidence.So my friend enjoy it.

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3. myLot reputation of 71/100. mwalidji (174)   ranked 5,053 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

i dont like someone staring at me... i dont think its appropriate to stare at people... there was a time when i saw someone was staring at me... so what i did is i just walk as though i didnt see it


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

Funny but a right thing to do sometimes.
:)


myLot reputation of 66/100. moudas (260)   ranked 7,494 out of 28,991 in life  1 year ago

yes. I alwayes get shy when someone stared at me.

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4. myLot reputation of 73/100. xfallenxlostx (1785)   ranked 4,987 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

i get INCREDIBLY shy when people stare...but i also get angry. i don't like to be looked at by ayone...particularly strangers. i don't like to make eye contact with people i don't know. It REALLY make sme uncomfortable.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

I've read from somewhere that human eye cannot stare continuously into one particular thing. It must stare to different kinds of direction with different color. I don't know why though! Heehee.
:)

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. Jellytang (322)   ranked 1,840 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

I will not feel shy.Contrarily,I prefer to stare at that person instead.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

COOL!
I wish I'm like you but I can't!
I really can't. Heehee!
:)

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. joyce423 (953)   ranked 5,932 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

I do agree. I think everybody is born to shy. For me, yes I'm really embarrased if someone stare at me. I feel like I'm melting. But I usually gather myself and ignore it just to hide my embarrasment. If someone look at me, I turn my back so that I couldn't see him/ her look at me.:))


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

For me, not everybody. There's also some people who prefer to be stared at by people especially those celebrities who wanted the attention of paparazzi.
:)


qingyang (1)  5 months ago

heehee,a good method, but we should try all our best to face it, then we will grow up.

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (1620)   ranked 4,755 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

when someone stares at me like a stranger or even someone i know, i feel uncomfortable and shy at the same time. Because i dont know why they are staring at me, sometimes i am thibnking that maybe they i look funny to them, or something is wrong with my attire at etc. And if someones stares at me i just look the other way, i dont know, it just that i dont like it. I myself want to overcome this shyness, i am still looking for some techniques or ways to do it.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

We're in the same boat for now. Heehee!
:)

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8. emmalee (22)   ranked 8,054 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

I think it's definitely human to get awkward when your stared and AND to assume the worst. I used to be painfully shy but I'm starting to get much more confident (it just comes from life experience really) so people staring doesn't really bother me so much anymore.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

Good for you!
:)

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9. myLot reputation of 73/100. moira20 (148)   ranked 5,210 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

It depends on how they stare at me. If it's kinda malicious or irritating, I would stare back at them! But if it's just a non-commital stare or just so happened that they glance your way offhandedly, then it's no problem to me.=) I am not that confident, In fact I was kinda shy when I was young. But as time goes by, I've learned a lot. I made ammends with myself and others, the fact that I can't please evrybody but still there are those YOU CAN. Just try to relax sometimes and count your blessings! Have a little faith in what you can do and how to do it and never mind those who put you down. It will only dampen your spirits and won't make you a better person. We all have some things to hide, have secrets and all, but whatever that is, if we do value ourselves and love ourselves, we can face ANYBODY with a smile.=)


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

Nice tips.
I'll try to do that.
Thanks!
:)


myLot reputation of 74/100. ricky_gmb06 (516)   ranked 2,978 out of 28,991 in life  1 year ago

i like your respon,..i will try to do this too...thanks my friend
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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. Calais (6576)   ranked 816 out of 28,991 in life   2 years ago

Definantly, thats exactly how I feel. I dont really have any tips, I just usually try to ignore it or turn the other way...lol.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ronreyes (605)   ranked 1,048 out of 28,991 in life  2 years ago

Aheehee! Same here.
:)

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