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 What will you do if you're in this situation?
Your parents have caused you to come back home to them just because they discovered that you have a boyfriend who's not their type; which, also caused you to resign from your job.
Any insights?
Thanks
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 glitzypurple (711) | 1 year ago | Thanks for the response.
We are still having this long distance relationship but we haven't seen each other since I went back home to our province. Well that main reason is that, like you, they won't allow me to have a boyfriend yet, I think. And because I am chinese, they want me to have a chinese boyfriend too.
My situation is so hard. I love my boyfriend so much but we're still working it out. My parents just dont know. I pray that everything will be fine soon. I'm glad my boyfriend understands my situation.
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| migenKC (348) | 1 year ago |  ohh i see...;) hmp... i think you dont have to be with someone that your parents did choose for you.. instead you must let your heart fight for whoever makes you happy.
i support you!! ahihihi...;) i am also on the same situation as yours... the diffirence is just we cant be let people know about our relationship because of religion.. but we also working it out..:) hopefully we can fix this as time goes by..
i pray that someday your parents will understand you. Godbless and more power
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| glitzypurple (711) | 1 year ago | Thanks a lot. Wish you luck on your relationship too:) | |
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| 2. nikko84111 (149) | 1 year ago |  i think it is tough~
and you have to make a decision~
if you feel that you can live without him
you can have a communication with your parents
tell them you can't live without him
i think if you insist they will let you have your own life~
wish you luck
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| glitzypurple (711) | 1 year ago | I already did try that - talk to them about him but I guess I still can't stand on my own yet since I don't earn that much money to live by my own. Just hope things will be better very soon.:) thanks for the reply | |
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| 3. azeus2 (9) | 1 year ago |  Communication is the life and blood of any relationship, it is as vital as the water we drink, and air we breath. Silence is the poison that can slowly creep into a relationship and destroy it. Time and distance can be the most conclusive test to any relationship and many long distance affair dont last simply bec. people failed 2 hold on to the love they promise to keep and lose the enthusiasm to keep their communication line open. Everytime this happen they lost interest and slowly drift away. It is fragile to those who truly believe in this relationship and those who sincerly work hard to keep the immerse or thier love glowing, survive and live long, hold on for as long as you want to but dont let our absence deprive us with our happiness, go enjoy life. If our relationship are really meant to last then we dont really need to worry coz our love will find its way to keep it together...
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| glitzypurple (711) | 1 year ago | We call each other every now and then, he sends me SMS early in the morning. We have been used to talking over the phone in the morning, over the mobile phone when I was at work and before we retire in the night. Communication is really the key to mke a relationship work and I'm glad that we're still close to each other even if we're not with each other physically. | |
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| azeus2 (9) | 1 year ago | I think you know me... i also have a partner who i really love most... We started out as friends... and we ended up loving each other, She is the most beautiful thing that ever happen to me...
Unfortunately her parents dont want us to be "us" so she decided to follow them. She was forced to go to the place where she hated most, a place where no voice can be heard but them. I cant blame her... Many questions maybe keep on bugging her, am i worth the sacrifice? am i worth fighting for?... but is it worth the wait?... One thing i know is im inlove with her... i just wish she could hold on | |
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4.  Debs_place (5660) | 6 months ago |  If you are old enough to live on your own and support yourself. Your parents should have no way in your boyfriend or your job.
It is time to stand up on your own 2 feet and tell them you are a self-supporting adult and will live life the way you see fit.
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5.  digerati (259) | 4 months ago |  hello glitz,
if i am in that situation, i will be brave enought to fix all the things. first, i will talk to my parents deeply and sincerely, next is talk to myself about the cause of my resignation and lastly, talk to my girlfriend bout the situation.
and lastly, if possible, we will talk bout this big issue together in one sitting...
life challenges,
digerati
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| 6. sudiptacallingu (3146) | 4 months ago |  Oh well this is a tricky situation but if you are sure of yourself and your bf, then you will have to stand firm on your beliefs, no matter what your parents say. First and foremost is economic independence for both of you. people start respecting you only when they see that you are capable enough to take care of yourself. It’s the same for your bf…if your parents are convinced that he can take care of you and your children, they will somewhat relent. But if religion or something else like nationality is a problem, then that’s a different cup altogether. But whatever you do, don’t have any excuses or regrets. It should not be that 10yrs from now on, if you are unhappily married with somebody else, you accuse your parents of spoiling your life.
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