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Why are people often very sensitive? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 82/100. friendship (1233)   ranked 131 out of 26,796 in people1 year ago

Please tell me what things make you upset or turn you down?

 
 
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tags:  people, sensitivity, sensitive, feeling, upset
 
1. myLot reputation of 94/100. wendy805 (146)   ranked 3,497 out of 26,796 in people   1 year ago

my relationship with my boyfriend makes me upset. if we go on smoothly,i am happy; if not, i am upset. i really think he is a very important person in my life, and my mood is mostly closely related to how we are doing.

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2. myLot reputation of 49/100. cloud_kicker_32 (3430)   ranked 4,906 out of 26,796 in people   1 year ago

Ohh so many things make me sensitive and sad..Like homeless people..children that have been abused in anyway...same as for adults..Friends that can just throw a frienship away over stupid things,global warming,War,animal abuse,people that are arrogant,mean spirited,and rude,And lastly/..REALLY BAD DRIVERS..they just tear me up..lol

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (14556)   ranked 1,050 out of 26,796 in people   1 year ago

I think people are oversensitive because of a lack of self confidence, and low self esteem. For as long as I can remember my family members have told me not to take things personally. Once I stopped taking things so personally, I felt a hell of a lot better about EVERYTHING!

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. Aussies2007 (2555)   ranked 1,105 out of 26,796 in people   1 year ago

Sensitivity is a genetic characteristic which you have very little control over. You can learn to control it as you get more mature and older... but it never goes totally away.

Sensitive people have a lot of pride.
They do worry about their looks and are very self conscious about it. Any criticism about their looks will offend them.
They take their work seriously and are often perfectionist. Any criticism about their work will offend them.

Sensitive people believes in "Don't do to another what you would not want done to yourself".
Sensitive people will not hurt someone on purpose unless that someone hurt them first.

If you are not sensitive... chances are that you are either a slob or a bully. Most people are sensitive to various degrees. Sometimes their sensitivity prevents them to become smart and wise... which in turn prevents them to learn to control their sensitivity.


myLot reputation of 82/100. friendship (1233)   ranked 131 out of 26,796 in people  1 year ago

What I mean about sensivite people is people who are easy to be mad or people who are always "carrying" on grudge to someone who may speak something non-intentionally. I think you know what I mean.... To deal with over sensitive people, it is a time consuming. REALLY. Because we have to speak and act VERY carefully. Otherwise, they're going to be mad a lot.

I do agree that we should be more sensitive toward others but we shouldn't take EVERYTHING PERSONALLY and you know what I mean... I have encountered a such person. It is very tired of maintaining a relationship with a such person. Because you have to be vigilant every time. As a human being, we can't always maintain a perfect mood where we are hoped to please him every time, aren't we?


myLot reputation of 54/100. plooker (130)   ranked 4,918 out of 26,796 in people  1 year ago

From reading your post I gather, that you consider yourself a sensitive person, because I don't think you want to call yourself a slob or a bully (lol). But when sensitivity, according to you, prevents you from being smart and wise, must we then draw the conclusion, that you are dumb and thick, but getting better as you get older?


myLot reputation of 82/100. friendship (1233)   ranked 131 out of 26,796 in people  1 year ago

plooker,

I don't care what Aussies2007 is telling me. But I want to express my opinion here. Is it something wrong? Aussies2007's definition is different from mine regarding sensitive people.


myLot reputation of 54/100. plooker (130)   ranked 4,918 out of 26,796 in people  1 year ago

Hey Friendship,

My reply was to the Aussies2007 posting. Not yours!
By the way, you SHOULD care about what Aussies2007 is posting! After all he is replying to your post. Without the likes of Aussies2007 or myself, myLot would not exist.
So to answer your question: no there is nothing wrong with giving your opinion.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Aussies2007 (2555)   ranked 1,105 out of 26,796 in people  1 year ago

Friendship... the friend you describe might be more on the stupid side than the sensitive side. You must not confuse the two. People are only sensitive when you attack them personally.

If your friend gets mad at you while debating the pros and cons of the climate change... it has nothing to do with sensitivity. However... if you call your friend an idiot for not agreeing with you... you are hurting its sensitivity... wether it is an idiot or not.

As for you Plooker... I said "SOMETIMES" their sensitivity prevents them to become smart and wise...
But it is true that you learn to control it as you get older.

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5. myLot reputation of 81/100. tuffy999 (731)   ranked 2,949 out of 26,796 in people   1 year ago

what upsets me the most is when politicians claim that they are there to serve the people but the truth of the matter is they are there for power and money. anywhere in the world corruption is rampant and who suffers not the few politicians but the ordinary citizens.


myLot reputation of 82/100. friendship (1233)   ranked 131 out of 26,796 in people  1 year ago

I agree 100% with your comment.

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