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rabejuela (15)1 year ago

With my other exes...Yes! But there's this one certain person that up to now even if I'm already committed to someone, I still have this feelings for that person. I can't get that person out of my mind. And I keep on asking..."If I fought for our love, maybe we're still together."...."If I've showed to that person how much that person mean to me then maybe we didn't part ways."..."If I only did my part by making an effort to make our long distance relationship worked, maybe he's still here....But I can't go back or turn back time that's why I'm trying to move on and taking one step at a time, hoping that someday I'll be completely over that person. Besides, I know that person is already happy now. But I"m proud to say that I"m happy where I am now with my life because although I'm still not over that person, but I am NOT hurting inside.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. diannebcrs (784)   1 year ago

Wow, really? I've been told never to dwell on the past events since I can never bring them back. And dwelling on the what-ifs will only make me feel depressed. Well - there are times when hurtful events appear in my mind, but I try my best not to entertain such questions like "what if I did this... what if I never did that..." because it'll only make me want to keep on pondering about the what-could've-beens... It's downright nasty...

God bless!


rabejuela (15)  1 year ago

but you know what dee...sometimes its good to look at the past sometimes because it will motivate you to do good and strive to get what you always wanted in life


myLot reputation of 88/100. diannebcrs (784)  1 year ago

I guess you have a point..

But in my case, I can't really move on until I forget about the past. Looking back on past events and experiences are difficult for me - more difficult if I dwell on them. All I can really do now is divert my attention elsewhere so I won't remember a stinking thing about the events and experiences which hurt me most..

I believe that our journey in life should travel forward - and I guess that means leaving the past experiences behind and taking the lessons you learned from them with you on your travels. I need not have to look back.

Although, I'm not sure if it's really called moving on or... escaping.

What do I know? Haha... A matter of opinion..

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