Is it hard for you NOT to be open and honest?

Glad I'm not the only one.

*giggles* So you're good at keeping things under you hat? Or, mask, as it were? (Sorry, I couldn't resist.)

Actually, I think my family members are the only people I'm not very open with, and that's because I seriously detest most of them. I'm very open with my friends, but even strangers can usually get more information out of me than I'd like. Good thing I'm not a spy or anything.

Hahaha:D

It's true that it can often be a lot easier talking about one's issues and life and such with friends or strangers than with close relatives.

Hehehe glad you think I'm funny.=P

It is really easy with strangers online I've noticed. I'm much less likely to talk to people about certain things offline than online, but online it can be really easy to find yourself sharing more than you would like. Actually I particularly have that problem when I'm tired... I just lose all my inhibitions. Not that there are many to start out with.*giggles*

Hi!

Eh, I guess I'm just weird. I have a hard time not answering questions. I don't know why. Maybe I just like the attention.=P

You have a great day too! You are such a sweetie!=)*hugs*

Well if your weird then it's weird in a good way*giggles* Have a great weekend!
Love & Hugzz, Your Friend, PurpleTeddyBear xx

Thanks for sharing!=)

I think it made sense! I agree with you about lying, I've never been big on it. However, you sound like you are much better at just "keeping your mouth shut" than I am.=p

Thanks for sharing, Sharon!=)

You have a good point about people not always being genuine. I should pay more attention to such things really... sometimes I put too much of myself out there before I'm sure of people!

Well you will not learn it all at once but I beleive you will. Being honest is indeed good but it only counts when people genuinely and truly are your friends.

You can also tell them that they are getting too personal and you dont feel comfortable disclosing that information.

*nods* I don't think there's any reason people should feel they have to answer any question, but I'm just like that.

Thanks for your kind words! It's good to know you don't think I'm too open on that topic! I know a lot of people seem to think so.=p

There are too many people in the closet that there isn't any room. Like my mom used to say, there is more room out than in, she wasn't talking about sexuality but if the saying fits...

Yup, that saying could definitely apply.

I think the reason I'm so determined to be "out" is because I know so many people struggle so much with their sexuality, and if no one is out then they don't have anyone to talk to about it. I've managed to help a few people who really hated themselves over this issue, just by being myself and being out there, and saying "It's not ALL you are, you're still YOU."

That is why I say you should stay as open and honest as you are.You help people see that you can be out and live your life and be happy.You are a heroine.Don't change.

*blushes* Thank you, really. You always make me feel good about myself, and I appreciate it.

I can't help it. You are good people.

Haha, yup, we seem to be very much alike!

I do that too, when I'm trying to save something for myself like that, I eventually wind up feeling like I'm going to pop and just having to tell someone!=P

Yup, you and me and our similarities. I think it's awesome actually, because I'm not used to knowing very many people I have so much in common with, so I love seeing you around and thinking "She's like me."

I'm so happy that you feel the same way as I do on this one as well.=)

"so I love seeing you around and thinking "She's like me." "

awww if I was a white woman my face would be red LOL;-) Seriously though, I know what you mean...I really enjoy the fact that we are so alike and for me its very rare to meet someone like that...I love it..If we lived closer we could go for coffee damn it:-D

*laughs* Ah, that's something we don't have in common, because I can turn into a tomato fairly easily.=p

Ah, that would be so awesome! If we could actually have coffee and hang out and stuff!

*nods* I have family members that lie all the time, and it just made me hate it so much. And yes, sooner or later it is found out.

I think everyone has a few secrets about themselves. Even I have a couple, though a really really close friend would know most of the things I don't tell just anyone.

Yes, yes, "I am me, what else can I say?"*giggles*

I have to start counting how many times you use that one on me, Transdisc. Clever bear that you are.

I'm glad that you share, you are an excellent person, the people you share with are very lucky.=P

Yes, especially when he's sharing his cookie exploits and such.:)

Oh, yes, I love reading about those! Who can make sweets that are already delicious sound scandalously so better than Transdisc???*giggles*