Do you think that just because a person failed at something they tried ..

I don't think that failure equals being bad or even failing. I once failed at something that was dear to me. It was something I worked at for years, and it didn't work out. I considered myself a failure despite my best efforts. After some years I realized that what I considered a great failure was my greatest accomplishment.

I don't think I was at fault. I think I was doing exactly what God wanted me to do.

If I looked back, most plans I made were not working out. It wasn't God, it was people who did not want me to be happy and be successful. But I kept going and then my time came. I left them and since then my life is a lot better.
They said everything blossoms in time. I still don't think failures are God's work, unless these failures will save your life or something. Sometimes we are just not prepared and so we failed.
Bad person fails like everyone else, but failure doesn't make a good person bad. We just have to try again.

No one has failed until they give up. They have simply learned another way not to do something. Look at Edison.

We learn more from our mistakes than from anything else.

Anyone who tries to make another peron feel bad about failing is a small person indeed. I think that sometimes people who don't think well of themselves, look for opportunities to make others feel small.

Perhaps pitying them would help.. Pitying a monster makes the monster seem like a very pathetic creature.

I have made plans and failed with them more times than you can count it. Like I dreamed of being an interpreter or translator when I was a kid and what do I do for a living now..... workers compensation.......

Or when I had finished studying I planned to go back to my mother and live there for no more than a year. I wanted to find a secure job and then have my own apartment as the generation gap was too big and she quarreled with me about the tiniest smallest things in daily life.

Guess what it took me 9 full years then till I was so secure financially and could rightly so assume I will keep the job I have, that I could move out with 30, yippieh.

I dont really think its peoples fault when these plans dont materialize and I dont think its Gods plan either. Its simply circumstances or the feeling that the thing you try to accomplish is too big for you now or it has lost the zeal or is not fascinating you any more and so you think you wont do it.