..i think i'm bi-sexual..

i wouldn't say that you are bi because of that, some women have crushes on other women like i know women who have cruhes on female celebrities, well they like them because they think that they are very pretty and they would like to look like them

So youre confused right now. Dont be confused. Do what you want to do, but not to the extent of affecting you, your family and loved ones. It seems you are trying to dispel what you feel about you. If you can do it, but if you cant just be yourself, ask your guidance counsellor, your priest, or your parents and sisters (if you can)and they will give you advice. If you can be one just be secretive on it so other people will not look down on you, look for people who can understand you more.

I don't think that makes you bisexual. It is just about how you concentrate on it. It is just an admiration towards your friend but if you keep it as a crush inside yourself then that would be a crush soon.

Just don't hurry about your emotions. You will feel the right emotions for the right person sometime.:)

You can't choose how you feel or who you're interested in. Your choices lie in whether you act on how you feel, and whether you're honest with yourself about it. If the worry about acceptance in your culture is enough to make you want to hide your sexuality, or deny yourself love just because it might happen to be with the "wrong" gender, then that's up to you.

Bisexuality can work in a lot of different ways. Some bisexuals find they like one gender far more than the other, while others feel it's roughly equal. Some people (like me) realize they're bisexual when they're very young, and others don't realize it until later.

If you already like a guy right now, then there isn't really a reason to worry about it for the moment. Sure, you have crushes on girls, but you're actively interested in and trying to get involved with a guy. You can choose to only act on those emotions toward guys if you choose, and just let the crushes come and go as they will. Of course, it's possible that you will someday meet a girl worth taking risks for, and choose to love her no matter what society says, but that's for the future to bring, not to worry about now.

I've spent a lot of my life being ostracized because of my bisexuality, but I've also met some women worth that.:P

sexuality is fluid... it doesnt matter who you like (male,female) as long as you are attracted to that person...just go out with the one you like..

Maybe you're still searching for your real identity. We sometimes have instances in our life that we get all mixed-up and confused of our being. Biologically you are of one gender, but it comes into a different light when your biological and psychological self differs. In your childhood maybe you identified yourself to be like your father that's why you act a bit like manly.
You just can't say that you're bisexual unless you have engaged yourself into a relationship or have this huge urge or liking towards a person of the two biologically stated genders. Maybe what you felt for them was a simple admiration because they mirror the characteristics that you are looking for a friend or yourself.
Do not just arrive into fancy conclusions unless you are really sure of what you feel. Why don't you go and try to find yourself first, not really going into some kind of retreat or anything like that but you could try thinking and maybe do a bit of talking to yourself and assess what you really feel. It's only then that you can conclude.

I really don't know that your bi sexual I think amybe you just have crushes on women(which is weird I know because it does make you think that you are bi sexual but I have heard of women that think that other woemn are really pretty and hot but I can tell you that they werent bi sexual they just thought that they were pretty)if you were bi sexual no one else would have to know if you didn't want them to unless you just didn't care anymore and started dating a woman or something...I think that you should just be who you are!

First, you can be completely honest with yourself. Obviously you don't wanna be Bi, but your innerself is telling you that you are. How can you fight against your trueself,(which is your innerself!)There is Nothing Wrong with being Bisexual. God created all people Perfect, (and that includes you) My advise is to stay calm and enjoy all the female company that you can. One of these times you will find a Lover among your friends. Bisexual women are very common the world over. Learn to leave signals with your friends that will help them to realise that you are Bi, but will not give away your secret. In North America bisexuals are accepted in society. Hopefully they will soon be accepted in your society also.

Hello, I think you need to be true to yourself. There is nothing wrong with admitting that your confused about your feelings. If your attracted to someone, you might try to start a casual conversation about the subject and see how they feel about it. If being with a guy doesn't feel right then your just hurting him as much as yourself and thats not fair to either one of you.
If you have feelings in that direction, they should be explored, trust me on this, you will regret it for a long time if you don't.
All my best, Terry

There's a difference between admiring someone platonically and admiring someone sexually. Girls, more so than guys, seem to (sometime deliberately) blur the two. I suggest that if you can't tell the difference, then you are not ready for such relationships and that you should give yourself more time to work out how you see things in the world. There really is no rush.