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myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com11 months ago

If I find interesting discussions by one person then I will go through all their discussions and respond to them, but what suddenly struck me yesterday was what if they think I am stalking them? What if they become uncomfortable because they fear the only reason why I am responding to them and becoming obsessive with their discussions is because I am interested in them more than a friend?

That is the last thing I'd want to do, but when I see interesting discussions I just want to answer them and when a person has got about six or more discussions and I start replying to them, do they feel that I am chasing them or making a nuisance of myself?

What do you think? If someone started responding to really old discussions of yours which are a month old do you start to wonder why they are doing it?

Are you flattered, or are you interested why they are doing it, what motive do they have?

Are you wary they may be stalking you in some way, after all why dig up discussions which are older than a month? And not just one but lots of them!

Am I being paranoid or worrying too much? I don't want anyone on Mylot thinking that I taking an over interest in them or being a pest

 
 
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foxyfire33 (5748) response was accepted on 3/14/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 63/100. LoudnProud (5366)   ranked 5,147 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

A person repsonding to lots of discussions is not the stalker Wolfie,it is the ones who read,never reply then reports ya.Well it is true everyone bases it all on the fact that it is about people who reply,NO.
Ok back to the proper subject,if someone thinks you are stalking them,then either you are haha or i would guess that no one notices,tho they may wonder about old discussions,if they ask which i doubt it,just say exactly what you said here,you find their discussions interesting,way too many discussions going on to notice one person.I wouldnt worry Wolfie anyone who knows you knows your not like that & those that dont well they will soon will:)


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

I think I responded to about six or seven of a newbies discussions yesterday and that got me thinking, hope I haven't frightened them off LOL! Thanks my friend x

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. CurlyRed (3507)   ranked 5,073 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

I think sometimes, someone just finds a discussion by someone and thinks, hmm, i wonder what else they have, this was good!

I have been guilty of dredging up old discussions of my friends.

And i do stalk my friends. Follow them around to join in.

I wouldn't worry, and i am one to worry about being a pest too.


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Sometimes someone can be on the same wave pattern as you, their thinking is the same, it was a friend who added me and I started checking out their discussions and I thought wow! Yes some great discussions I can really respond too, I think I did about 8 of them in the end that got me thinking.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dfn12968 (5563)   ranked 454 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

ahhh...one of my stalking victims.;)


myLot reputation of 91/100. AICIRT81 (565)   ranked 4,290 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

I do that too. I don't think its stalking. If it is then I am a stalker and I must in good company.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. LauraElrod (354)   ranked 3,213 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

hi my friend u can come to my page as much as u like i like reading things u post even though i don't alway have a comment i enjoy your friendship. don't worried is there a block key here if someone feels strange about u, have a great day


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Thank you my friend, yes if someone doesn't like me they have the freedom to delete my friendship!

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (8451)   ranked 1,048 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

I can not see anyone thinking you would be stalking them Wolfie. I also see a huge difference between stalking friends which sometimes includes bringing up their old discussions because you feel like replying and those who follow others around for no good.

I have and will continue to look over my friends old discussions and if I see one I like, no matter how old, I will reply. I actually did this a few times this week.


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

I am on Mylot a lot of the time anyhow so I am always seeking out discussions that interest me and sometimes friends have a list of them that I could spend all day on but hold back just in case!


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (8451)   ranked 1,048 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Wolfie, stop holding back. No meed to stifle yourself. Say what you have to say and respond to whatever discussions you want. Don't worry so much about others perceptions.

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. kbourgerie (1728)   ranked 1,487 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

Oh Wolfie, you are a big galoot and that is meant in the kindest of ways. I am flattered when someone takes enough interest in me to reply to my posts. I only would consider someone somewhat a problem if they left remarks that were too challenging or unkind. You certainly do not fill that bill. Maybe I'm naive, but I don't think I'd know a stalker if they came up and said, "Hello, I'm a stalker, do you mind if I stalk you?", but I do know that if you said that, I'd probably just laugh.


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Do I get a medal for being a big galoot? Love that word. Hello my friend I am a stalker, go on laugh, I feel better today after my Black Sunday, I've got mum's 65th to look forward to tomorrow so that has put a smile on my stalking face;0) (thanks again for caring x)


myLot reputation of 85/100. kbourgerie (1728)   ranked 1,487 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

I'm really glad to hear you are feeling better. I can hear you smiling, you are awful loud with it. LOL. Well, but then maybe thats what stalkers do. Have fun with your Mum's birthday and when you finished come over and stalk me some more.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6657)   ranked 19 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

stop worrying sweetheart, If it were me I would be flattered, I would never for a minute think you or anyone else was stalking me, When I see more than one response I think "well they must like the way I write about my family or the fun things we get up too " take care pal xx


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Hi nan, what are we like eh, we both worry too much, love you lots xxx

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. howard96h (5451)   ranked 4,554 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

Oh no wolfie, don't think that. The whole purpose is to try and comment on all the discussions out there and when you find some good ones even if it's the same person go right ahead and answer them. The points are made and both benefit. Ah come on, who can blame good ol' wolfie for stalking? hahaha

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. dumblnddzzy (8822)   ranked 139 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

wolfie your not the type to stalk someone. I would never think that of you. I've had a few new people responding to some old posts, but then they are getting deleted also, so I can't follow anyone around to see WHO is stalking me. Your not the type..So don't worry about it sweetie..love you lori


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Mr Worry me thanks Lori love you xx

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11511)   ranked 613 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

Oh you silly wolf!LOL No I wouldnt think like that at all. If I find someones discussions interesting I do the same thing. When someone responds to alot of discussions I think they are trying to be my friend thats all. So I think your being alittle paranoid my friend. And your not a pest.LOL xxxx


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Thank you Terry, yes I am being paranoid part of my BPD I guess, hugs x

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5748)   ranked 916 out of 26,959 in mylot.com   11 months ago

Sounds to me like you are the kind of mylotter most of us appreciate. I'm assuming you leave quality responses so that is definitely not stalking or being a nuissance!

If you were going around leaving multiple negative responses and rude comments on a person's discussion or reporting that one person no matter what they did, then it would be a big problem. You don't seem to be the type to do that though.

I have had a few 'chasers' since being here and I never thought they were interested as more than a friend...at least not seriously, maybe in a fun. flirty way but that's different. What I really assumed when they answered multiple discussions was that they were truly interested in my life and what I had to say about issues. To me that is comforting and flattering!


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (12569)   ranked 4 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Thank you for your kind words and I love your avatar!


myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5748)   ranked 916 out of 26,959 in mylot.com  11 months ago

Aww...thanks!

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