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myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships4 months ago

Do long distance relationships really worth the shot??
Do they work out??Is loving the person enough or it requires extra effort to make it move on??Does trust and understanding make up alone for the missing physical proximity??Do you miss a shoulder to lean on?
Innumerable problems and many solutions...let us allow our hearts to reveal their innermost feelings,anguish and teh pain of long distance relationship or even better the ways to work it out and strengthen it!!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 65/100. subha12 (10850)   ranked 1,430 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

i think the fate depends how you carry it out.
i have seen many long distance relationship to last longer. some ends even before taking off properly.
the main thing is trust and the way to carry it.


myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

That could be true.I understand the destiny part..that things are destined to happen in ytour life but what about the role of your karma!!
What can you do to make it work and pros and cons attached to it??Should you delve into one without proper thought and insights in your real self??

I agree that trust is the real factor to carry it on a long basis note and make it a successful one to cherish for life!!!

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. nengs10 (2178)   ranked 620 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

I have tried long distance affairs and it is really very difficult. It can work for a couple but it takes a lot of sacrifice, understanding and patience for the two parties. It takes much efforts to be true and realized. Have faith.


myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

i know thats exactly what i'm talking about too.that it takes a lot of hard work on both end to keep it going.but in teh ned does it worth the chance taht you give it?
do they end on a happy note???

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3. myLot reputation of 77/100. rastamangp (586)   4 months ago

when you are keen to meet long distance friends,it will amazing.i am willing to make long distance friends.this is like a when you are at work,to fulfill you desire to becam reality,you are hard working everymoment,finally it become true.at this moment,one of the greates moment of your life.believe in hard work.relationship is very important.we will have a great support.it's like a win win situation.sometime you have to contribute,sometime you will get what you want.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. migenKC (345)   ranked 81 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

:D i do believe the relationship will still work..

i have been separated with my boyfriend for 10months already. but were stil tough enough to keep on believing on what we call LOVE. loving someone is something that requires in return...in reality nothing is unconditional love..unless its GOD or you MOTHER loving you..but even GOD has standards and conditions to have the blessings he gives to the poeple he loves. so on a long distance relationships it actually requires exchange of actions and deeds to let the person show his/her importance..and because physical touches are missing it is really difficult to express what is inside...either anger,lonliness,happiness,or anything.. and thats the challenge! thats the test that the both of them should pass trough

on my experience of being away to my man...trust and understanding is nothing but everything..

it is really painful to be on this kind of relationship since the partner has also the responsibility to comfort the other. it feels like theres a missing piece on my everyday living...it feels so different from those moments that we see each other everyday but its still him who's with me holding my hand, no matter how many miles it is in between.


myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

I understand what it must be like!!Me too have been away from my boyfriend for about 8 months and its too tough to stay without him.But both of us make a point to call each other a couple times a day and let us know what's going on in each other's lives and i feel extremely fortunate to be with a guy like him.

here's me wishing you a great life together!!!


myLot reputation of 95/100. migenKC (345)   ranked 81 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

oh i see..

you too..i wish you all the happiness...

atleast he understands you always and you to him as well..


myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

Oh thank you so much for teh wishes!!Yes we make a constant effort to understand each other and be there for each other.Touch wood!!

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4840)   ranked 350 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

I am not clear what your intention is - regarding 'long distance relationship', do you mean on-line relationships or real life relationship with someone, who was in your area with you and then shifted to another city. In both the cases answer would differ. Please let me know which relationship are you discussing about.
Deepak
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myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

Hi dpk262006 what we mean by long distance relationship is distance between two lovers which could be different city or a different country.So can long distance relationship will work if you can't see your partner everyday and have to wait for months or maybe years to go on a single date??


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4840)   ranked 350 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

I think it becomes difficult to maintain a long term relationship, when both the parters are apart. It is alright for less period of time say few months, but if the time gap is more, then relationship gets effected. It will also depend upon the closeness and intimacy, how intimate and close were two lovers, before they separated. If they were very close and committed to each others, then it may work and they may wait for say 2-3 years for them to re-unite.
Deepak

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6. myLot reputation of 50/100. jason_co (703)   ranked 4,433 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

For me a long distance relationship really needs a lot of communication to survive. You have to sacrifice a lot of things for it to survive.


myLot reputation of 84/100. wittyakanksha (388)   ranked 1,372 out of 16,744 in relationships  4 months ago

yes i completely agree without communication it sure will be bound to doom.thanks for sharing your response!

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