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What is the best thing to do if someone betrays you? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends7 months ago

For me -- it's best to deny their existence. From that they cannot hurt you, and you can also make that person feel that you cannot hurt me no more and I do not care for you anymore.

Being mad at that person and stabbing him at his back somehow shows that u still care for him. But completely denying that she has ever existed is another story.

 
 
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frontier2002 (494) response was accepted on 7/20/2008.
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tags:  forgiveness, betrayal, betrayals, relationship, life
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. cream97 (4496)   ranked 603 out of 952 in friends   7 months ago

The relationship between us will change, drastically. The way we talk and spend time together will be totally different than before. My time with this person will be limited. I will still love them, but I won't be around them as much.


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  7 months ago

Yes. I have done that before. Relationship will be really totally different.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. rockvixen (834)   7 months ago

I've never forgotten those that have hurt me in this way. Many have thankfully been out of my life and unfortunatly because of what they did to me, we lost all friendship. I have no sadness, because I have denied their existence myself. It's better that way.
Revnge may be a dish best served cold and this one is the best. Deny them and leave them be.


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  7 months ago

Yes! I really super agree.

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3. myLot reputation of 82/100. augustine87 (121)   ranked 755 out of 952 in friends   7 months ago

Avoid the person as much as possible until I am ready to forgive. It is painful to be betrayed but it's even more painful to give a second chance and be betrayed again. I don't think the saying forgive and forget is effective. I have a hard time forgetting...


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  7 months ago

I too, have a very hard time forgetting..

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4. myLot reputation of 68/100. enterpriseLEE2010 (703)   ranked 140 out of 952 in friends   7 months ago

Yes, and I believe the same goes for family members as well--denying their existence. I've been mad at my female first cousin for a while now that I have totally stopped contacting her by phone and e-mail. Hence, denying her existence. From that, I was able to move on with my life. I have other cousins, and denying one is not going to keep me from living my life and handling my responsibilities.


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  7 months ago

being hurt by your own family, or closest relatives is the most painful.

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5. myLot reputation of 69/100. megaplaza (631)   ranked 914 out of 952 in friends   7 months ago

it think the best thing to do is to avoid such person and move on with your life, i know at such time it is always hard to do, but doing it pays. when ever someone betrays you, you shouldn't give them the opportunity to do that again.


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  7 months ago

True indeed! Never let them do it again.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. ElicBxn (8256)   ranked 2 out of 952 in friends   7 months ago

I never trust them again, but I'm still nice to them. Nothing makes a nasty person crazier than being nice to them.

I had this woman I worked with that hated me and I actually heard her say that it was hard to be mean to me when I was so nice.

Didn't help me much, but it made her CRAZY!


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  3 months ago

Thanks much for the response. Rated this postive!

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7. myLot reputation of 80/100. micaella (207)   ranked 919 out of 952 in friends   7 months ago

Actually I still dont know it.
My husband lied and betrayed me, before i do really not care abou that but when I found and I got my proof now, all I know is - its hard to forgive and forget everything...


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  3 months ago

Thanks much. I understand. Btw, just rated this positive.:)

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8. myLot reputation of 80/100. lenkajyoti (196)   ranked 490 out of 952 in friends   6 months ago


Hi,

It is better to keep distance with them. But do such things they must know his/her mistake.


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  3 months ago

Rated this positive, Thanks and I understand your point.:)

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. frontier2002 (494)   6 months ago

Betrayal is the last thing i want in life. But if someone i care or a very close friend, (excludes family members) betrays me, I'd would never forgive them but i would like to listen to his/her honest explanation face to face. From there, i'll consider whether to forgive him/her. IF he/she tells me honestly, i'll forgive. If i still feel like he/she is telling not telling the truth, i'll make sure i plan something for him/her that would make him/her learn a lesson. Which i think the best thing to do is to stay away from him/her as far as you could and to ignore even to the extend to treat him/her not as a friend anymore. But of course, in life, when we make important decisions like this, where it has to do with someone we care, we must make a wise decision. Weighing the good vs bad after effect of any decision made in life.:)

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. patzel88 (1041)   ranked 913 out of 952 in friends   3 months ago

to deny is the best to do and not giving an importance to you for that they wont easy get your attention and get you harm again.


myLot reputation of 97/100. tonijane016 (379)   ranked 26 out of 952 in friends  3 months ago

I understand and agree to you. Thanks much.

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