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myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes7 months ago

Sometimes life throws us a curveball when we least expect it.

Some of these changes can be life altering, for good or for harm.

But out of the bad things that happen, there is always a meaning.

Right now, I am experiencing a major change coming soon and I want to say it is affecting and sometimes limiting a lot of my activity here in myLot.

Hopefully, my activity will get back to normal as soon as things settle down.

My question to everyone is, in your life changes, have you lost friends that didn't understand?

I would never want to lose any of my friends here.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

HD, I hope you are not ill.
You will never lose the friends you have here.
We look forward to seeing you everyday.
If you happen to lose one or two,
You will know they were not true friends afterall.
A true friend stays with you, through thick and thin.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello Goodie Dear
Oh I know this, I guess I just wanted to hear if anyone else has lost a friend because of you know like moving and whatever, divorces, and all sorts of things that can happen to us..
Well, I know I have friends here for life Goodie and you being my caravan partner..you are with me all the time hahhahahhxoxooxlol
Hey thanks dudette! xoxo


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

No worries Dudette.
You know where I am if ever you need me. xxxxx


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

I do indeed the Goodie, right beside me in the caravan hahahah xoxoxolol


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

I cannot wait to be a carefree Gypsy. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

I think we already are Goodie hahahah xoxox wink


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

You know the best part of being a Carefree Gypsy HD.
NO HOUSEWORK. lol


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

That is one big part I am looking foreward to, for I know when it is just me, it will be far tidier hahaha xoxoxo no stinky socks etc... happy


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Eeewww, that is one big plus.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dfn12968 (5580)   ranked 35 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

I agree, Goodie, the real friends stick by through thick and thin...never judge and don't leave. I stand by my friends always and hope they will always stand by me.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

I will always be here for my friends D.
Especially you.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dfn12968 (5580)   ranked 35 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

ditto, goodie! wink


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

happyhappy


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  6 months ago

Look Goodie!
Willya look? We have an elve, a lovely little elve beside us on our journety and she's green too, my fav colour! ahhahahalol


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7211)   ranked 2 out of 72 in major life changes  6 months ago

Ahh No HD, we canna take the wee elf she eats too many chocolates.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. book1962 (9827)   ranked 4 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

hi my friend, you know even when times are so tough for you that you cant get to mylot for real I am only a pm away from you. When you need to vent about the lemons life hands to you feel free to do so and I will do my best to be of help for you.
Yes I have lost friends who could not understand what I was doing and deciding at certain stages in my life. But thts life somehow. Compared to how life was seen when my mom was as old as I am now there are huge differences. In the generation of my mom friendships were something for life, for the good times and the not so good times as well.
I have to say that I have only experienced some real long term friendships and these friends were more than 40 years older than myself, that means they still saw friendships in the nicely old fashioned ways I just described.
Most of the friends I have are fair weather friends they are there as long as you agree with their opinions and do as they think is right and when you make your own decisions they say I cant understand you and the friendship is broken sooner than you can say hi.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Yes, book, you make a very good point here, sometimes the old fashioned way of things reflects that friendships are for life indeed..I know what you are speaking of.
I want to express my deep appreciation book for your kind offer to me at this time, and right now, I would do the same for any of my friends here..any of them..
I guess I worry a bit that others may think I am ignoring them, this is not the case, I will be back to normal, but it may be a while.
xoxooxoxhappy


myLot reputation of 97/100. book1962 (9827)   ranked 4 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

just hope its a good big change in your life that causes you to have less time for mylotting. I am a bit worried with what I have read in some of your discussions now and hope you will manage and everything simply works out well.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Why thank you so much book and do not worry dear friend..I will be triumphant and victorious in the long run and yes a good change, if not heartbreaking. xooxoxhappy

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. cupid74 (3621)   ranked 3 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

hi Dear

u r right

life is full of ups and down
lot of people u meet
and lot of people u left dyring this process

but true friends stick with u in all phases of life

This Virtual world is more volatile though, and in most of cases here if u r in touch is friend and if u r away u r no way, it may sound hard, but its reality. Sure u might have few sincere friend in this Virtual world too

So all i can say that dont worry about it

and wish u all the best in upcoming activities of Lifehappy

Take care


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello Cupid Dear
You always sprinkle your magic dust to me hhhahha my dear friend...thanks and I deeply regard you as a treasured friend xoxo happy
You too, I wish the very best for you in your life always...


myLot reputation of 94/100. cupid74 (3621)   ranked 3 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello dear

thanks a lot for such warm reply

well i will try my best to meet ur expectations. (which seems very high)
I will try to keep in touch

Take care


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello Cupid
Of course Dear and me too for you xoxoxoox I appreciate you greatly my dear friend. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. cupid74 (3621)   ranked 3 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

blushhappy


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

blushhappy

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. gabs8513 (17558)   ranked 14 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

Not here I haven't but over at the other Site I did I was sick and I had done a blog to say I was and because I did not visit her Page every Day she wrote me a Message to say I am not being a Friend as I am not there every Day and cancelled me as a Friend
I was upset at first about it but my other Friends said she was no loss all she wanted was Page views which I did realize in the end


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Isn't that horrible gabs? I got that on Yuwie once over there, this one started telling me what to do, and I was like, you can go to**ll and back now for all I care..who do these people think they are? LOL xooxoxolol

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. sukumar794 (2030)   ranked 11 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

All of us live to witness welcome changes in our life.We would only be happy and joyful when things suddenly turn for the better.Times of peril paving way for blessedness is awaited.As for me I would not forget my friends as well as foes when I am given a new lease of life.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello sukumar
These are very wise words from you my friend..I like the part that you would not forget your foes also..neither will I hahahha xoxoxolol

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. dragonfly242 (855)   ranked 13 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

Hi H.D. I hope whatever your transition is,you come out smelling like roses. You dont have to worry about losing any friends here.Thankfully through all my life changes i have friends that stuck by me,as i'm sure you have.You just take care of what you have too, and i hope whatever it is it works out.Can't wait to see you on mylot because it wont be the same without you.Good luck darling.((((hugs)))


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello the Dear Dragonfly
Thank you so very much for your wonderful cheering words to me..I value the friendships I have formed here, yes, and wanted to know if others have lost friends due to a temporary change or setback.
I know that myLot friends here, such as yourself, are a very understanding and caring, forgiving, compassionate bunch, the like I have never know..I realise it is a virtual world, but in that world, it cannot be compared.
You too Dragonfly, I am always so very happy to see you! xolol

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. MariaD (1742)   ranked 21 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

From my previous work, when I left, I was not worried that I would lose the friends I have made. After all these years, my real friends from there --- we are still in touch. We would get together once in a while. It is true that things can keep us preoccupied and we would tend to lose track, but our friendship has pulled us through. We have taken different paths, but we have kept our lines open. What is important is our friendship bond.

I guess it also depends on what situation you are in. From my other associations, I have lost touch with them. For others, I have remained friends. For some, it was like a seasonal thing wherein you move on.

No matter what, whether geographical distance or time separation or other obligations and duties, etc --- it is the friendships treasured that will endure:-)


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello Dear Maria
This is so very true what you say for a friend will be with you through all the life changes, even if you have not seen them for quite some time. happyxoxoxoo

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8. myLot reputation of 66/100. subha12 (12659)   ranked 22 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

yes its true. there are many transitions in life that almost change the course. it happens to all. we just can't have a life so smooth sailing and straight.i thing the bad things hurt us and leave a lasting mark, whatever changes may come your way, hope its good one.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello subha
Yes, life is good and bad and all mixed together dear friend..we shall survive with good spirit..thank you for your kind regards of me xoxooxohappy

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (1245)   ranked 5 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

I don't know that I lost these friends as much as LOST CONTACT. As baby boomers (THATS ME LOL) we have different responsibilities. I have a job that has me there from late morning til 9:30 pm. Its too early for friends to do something at 6am and too late at 10:00 pm. I also 3 days have a second job 11:30 pm to 3a.m. On my day off I take my mom on her errands and we go out to lunch. Mom is 87 years old now and still going like the energizer bunny but her eyes are not good for driving anymore. My brother recently took ill and he is going to be 61 so I might have to go art time at Sallys to help him but I don't mind. The Sallys I work at is a one person store and I go home very tired....somedays even sick. I haved friends still yes...I can only think of one that I no longer see. Its her not me. She to TOO BUSY for me. She loves money more than people and even though she has money most people could only accumulate if they won the lottery she refused to take a day off. I know I know...sound like me. lol..BUT mine is by need not greed.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Oh I know the type you are speaking of muscles, some others have a very high regard for attaining money and just piling it up..well, good luck to them, but I value people more than things and money..perhaps the reason why I am not rich hahaha xoxox Fine by me..I value your friendship here greatly and I hope you can get some you time soon, sounds like you have your hands full and I know you dont mind and that is an excellent attitude, but you need time to enjoy what your life is too. xoxoox You are great to care so much for your dear mother and brother...sorry ot hear he is ill and I hope sincerly that he improves. xohappy


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (1245)   ranked 5 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Thanks, He is still in the hospital. He had an oeration for colon cancer and that operation went fine but then he started having DT's because of..well i don't know why. He is very private and never shares anything with us because he doesn't want our mom to worry.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Aww, he is brave isn't he muscles? xosad


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (1245)   ranked 5 out of 72 in major life changes  6 months ago

I found out today it is stage 3 which isn't as bad as stage 6 which is common. It did get to some of the lymph nodes so they will need to do radiation. I am thinking of taking a couple of weeks FEMLA and just living off my savsings and that won't be a problem. If need be I could do it 4 months or more.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  6 months ago

So sorry he has to have the radiation, well I hope it doesnt make him sick, I mean too nauseous..well, see there is a good lesson for all of us muscles, to always have money put by for emergencies..you are a grand one for that..Yes you should take your leave if you want to..make use of it. Good you have it now..will be praying for him muscles..xoxooxhappy


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (1245)   ranked 5 out of 72 in major life changes  6 months ago

thanks you for the positive response. If my employee gives me any trouble at all about this I am contacting Federal Wage and Labor board. I am going to stay positive though and not expect the worse. Maybe if I tell them I will work Saturday and Sundays that will help them not be so snotty.


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  6 months ago

thats right muscles..you can do it.xoxox

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. LexaNightShadows (953)   ranked 18 out of 72 in major life changes   7 months ago

When we moved from Ontario to Alberta I lost several good friends - one in particular I am having a hard time accepting, because even though I have called her many times and left messages she will not return my calls. It makes me sad, because she was a sister to my soul, if not my family. We were very, very close.

Lexa


myLot reputation of 94/100. TheHairDresser (3389)   ranked 1 out of 72 in major life changes  7 months ago

Hello Lexa
I am so very sorry to hear this.
I suppose some others feel that if you are not near them in physical geography, then it is hard to have a friendship..I do not feel this is so.
Perhaps this is the reason, but all the same it does not stop the sadness. I understand you.
I hope that you may find a good replacement soon. happyxoxooxox

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