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myLot reputation of 91/100. djmarion (3171)   ranked 361 out of 16,744 in relationships4 months ago

What to Do on the First Date

Everyone went through the tremor of first dates; no romance could bloom without it. Whether you're a teeny-bopper or plain first timers in dating issues here are sure ways to fire up this scary first.Dress your best true beauty might be in the eye of the beholder but physical appearance really counts especially during your first date. Ask him for a hint on where the two of you will be going so as to plan your outfit ahead of time. For a cozy-informal dinner, try wearing your best Sunday dress, skirts and blouse would do also; avoid plunging necklines or see-through gowns unless you have plans of giving him seduction ideas right the first time. Jeans is not applicable to wear for the first date unless it's a sporty date.Act accordingly showing your true self counts the most but be careful in baring your soul right on your first meeting. Don't talk about yourself too much; blurting out your weaknesses, insecurities and personal problems straight on your first date will make you scare him away. Show your good sides and speak of your nice personalities in a subtle manner. Talk about your common interest like current events, nature of work or hobbies; this can give you idea on what kind of person he really is.Learn to listen nobody wants to be with someone who fire speeches endlessly. A date is compose of two individual willing to get to know each other well, give each other an ample time to talk. Listen to what your date is saying; this could be the best time to get to know the real score between the two of you. Usually a man slips off when he's at ease talking; listening to his stories can give you a glimpse of what his past relationships look like and how they ended.Be observant you'll notice his real intention by mere observation. When your date seldom talk and ask nothing about your personality then it's a sign you lost his interest in you. If you ask about him and receive minimal or a single response then a sign or boredom hangs in the air; check your conversation and try to throw cool remarks to rekindle his interest.Always remember that a date is not the end of the story, indeed it's the start. A successful first meeting usually follows with a second invitation; do your best and play your cards well; it might be you once-in-a life time happiness at stake.

Source: From my own blog

http://djmarion.blogspot.com/2008/03/what-to-do-on-first-date.html


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1. myLot reputation of 37/100. kacq007 (114)   ranked 4,952 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

First Date is the easiest thing ever . Just all you have to do is be yourself and don't pretend somebody,who you are not . Generally,when you have similar subjects to talk, all the conversation make you and your partner fun is the best sign,that all your relationship can work! Another things later are know better each other, own features, advantages and disadvantages .After a few weeks you have to answer yourself,whether this connection of you and him is worth sacrifice and share with him yours life.


myLot reputation of 91/100. djmarion (3171)   ranked 361 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

sometimes its how to act on the first date is the hardest part, you can say its easy since you're old enough but if teenagers and first times will be ask, first date is one of their most scary yet most wonderful experience.


myLot reputation of 37/100. kacq007 (114)   ranked 4,952 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

omg what a SCARY THING!:P
just u re going there and its simple when conversations is fun to both side its cool, and its good for their further relationship . On the other hand when conversation is boring and just dont fit to the peoples it means that the are NOT similar . And can stay in friendly relationship;]

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. YoungInLove (599)   ranked 229 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

first dates can be nervwracking for sure, I always get really shy/nervous and end up babbling or giggling to much for my own good. But the key to a good first date is finding a good setting. Somewhere where you can talk, but yet somewhere where there is possible distractions so you dont feel as if your in the hotseat and are pressured to cosntantly come up with convo. Movies, not so good, you cant really get to know eachother.. And being along the whole night sitting at a table across from eachother may make you feel as if you have to come up with new and exciting things to say. My "First Date" with my current boyfriend was actually at a hockey game. We could talk if we wanted to but also the game and our friends around us made it possible for us to have a distraction when we got nervous and didnt know what else to say.

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3. myLot reputation of 76/100. johndur (759)   ranked 10,724 out of 16,744 in relationships   4 months ago

first impressions lasts,so its better to show off some good points on a first date...to leave a good impact on your date...avoid showing your bad moods or you will never hear from your date again.be a gentleman,stay sharp and focused on your date,maintain a good relationship all throughout your date.and enjoy each other. happy


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