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Which would you choose, Money or your Principles in life? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life6 months ago

There were times were we are caught in a dilemma where we need to think about the principles we stand for and believe.

Most of the time, we are caught to choose between principles and money. In my last job, I was tested with this situation but still as always, it was my principles that I end up fighting. I felt my boss humiliated me and not even recieving a sorry, I resigned even though I badly needed the work and money as Im a single mom.

I always thought that my reputation is more important as nobody can trumple on the principles I stand for when I know Im right and money can be found and earned elsewhere but your principles and dignity is hard to regain.

So if you were caught in the situation, what will you choose, Money or Principles? Thank for responding. happy

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1. ButterflyQueen (42)   ranked 8,818 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

As a single mother i agree with you on the principles, if we take money over principles then what are we teaching our kids? that we live in a greedy world and we should teach every boy and girl to earn as much as they possibly can so they can spend it foolishly. We need to teach our kids that their values are most important in life.


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

Hi ButterflyQueen. I agree with you that what we live by is the same things that we are teaching our kids and we need to live by good examples. Teaching good values are very important in raising kids and principles comes with that.

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2. loveart (53)   ranked 15,047 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

I would say my principles in life. After something like that i would feel like such a "tool" if i did'nt.


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

Thanks Loveart. Being just used is relaly not nice afterwards and sometimes we have to deal with it for a long time.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. shizuoka (159)   ranked 2,087 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

Living by your principles is much more important. Money is good, but if you betray your principles to get it, you will never really be happy.

If, for example, you talked an elderly couple into buying something inferior in order to make a large sum of money, you would always feel guilty about it.

If you broke the law while making money, You would know you were wrong.

I don't know what your boss did to humiliate you, but it is very difficult to continue in a situation where you lack dignity and respect.

Hold your head high and get right back out there in the job market. I'm sure you'll find something even better.


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

Thanks so much for the encouragement. I agree that its difficult to live by the guilt when we betray the principles we have. Its really difficult to get back in a situation wherein your dignity is trampled upon without no such valid reason.

Thanks a lot and I am back in the job market and will show my boss that its his loss for letting me go and doing that!lol

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. 4mymak (785)   ranked 2,812 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

although i would choose Principles over Money - i know that it is indeed "much easier said than done".
therefore - i salute you for being able to standing up for your principles and left a much needed job.. thumbup

true.. money can be found and earned elsewhere, but we are all living in 'difficult times' (globally), and i really hope i would be able to do what you did - if i am ever required to...


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

Yes its so difficult at that time and I'm glad my mother supported me with it. It was difficult for me to say it to her as I know she would also get upset but I have learned through the years to stand up and not to be stepped on again. It maybe hard, i know as its very difficult now but as I say, time will pass..

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. winterose (12504)   ranked 4,688 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

I am a principal person myself, maybe if I had gone with money I would not be sitting here now living well below the poverty line but oh well. I made my choices, I don't regret them.


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

Hi Winterose. I know what you mean and I agree that we may have regrets more if we have received money than fighting for our principles. I know you will get by. take care.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. zed_k4 (1057)   ranked 1,066 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago


I love questions like this, because it is a good facet of life to be answering oneself this question. There were times when I was working as a bellboy and stuff like that last time to earn my part-time keep, and I would come across some gorgeous ladies in my line of work. To be honest, some of them were downright direct and asked me for "services" to be given to them, in return for a great tip. The money was really a lot, and I've nothing to lose, right?

But I declined profusely knowing that I was there to earn my keep the honest way and I couldn't possibly use my "looks" to obtain more money. Now, I have a stable job and I'm more than happy to be earning money the hard way. At the end of the day, I'm truly happy and that's what matters most.

I respect you for upholding your dignity for you can always look for money elsewhere, but you simply can't obtain your dignity back once you lose it. Hold your head high, take care Gab....


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

you should be given a commendation for doing what you did as for others, they might have taken advantage of that in using their looks to live life better. Its really rewarding to earn by what you have worked so hard and may you last in your work. You are as I can see a kind person and keep it up Zed!thumbup

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myLot reputation of 93/100. zed_k4 (1057)   ranked 1,066 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

Thanks, Gab. It's good to see you comment. By the way, I see that your ratings have been up to a 9. That's awesome... thumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. bagumbayan (1388)   ranked 834 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

Good decision. I am also faced with same situation, but I did not resign. I was made a chairman of a purchasing committee, and being one I want everything in order. I studied it and want to work on it. But there are things I just can take, a lowest bidder you will take in, no way. For me, if they have their own supplier, that will be fine, as long as it is best in quality, least in cost no problem with that. But choosing one which is not the best no way. So I was replaced, no hard feelings. And where are they now, they were replaced, I am still here. Maybe not on the top but one among the top. I live by my own means, who dont want money, but I want it from my own hardwork.


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

I commend you for what you did living by your principles and now being rewarded for still staying in the job. Its hard isnt it? Its really better to work for hard earned money than cheat and step on others.

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. wnbwnbwnb (338)   ranked 2,306 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

Well,defanitely my principle!
Actually,one can always face such situation in the real life,and different people could have different choice! For me,I will choose my principle,since money is nothing compared to my heart!


myLot reputation of 89/100. gabrielle47 (612)   ranked 1,560 out of 27,506 in life  6 months ago

True on that! Principle is in the heart of a person. Thanks for the response!

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9. rickysltan (48)   ranked 11,456 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

For this time round between Money and Principles in Life, I would say that I choose principles In Life. I did response to a discussion yesterday that I choose Money over Friends. But for these 2 options, I would choose Principles In Life instead. I feel that it's more valuable than money.


junandi (1)  6 months ago

you better more opting of friend than money because good Joe difficult to look for.money only trickery which can blind just us become correct choice is to choose friend than money


junandi (1)  6 months ago

you better more opting of friend than money because good Joe difficult to look for.money only trickery which can blind just us become correct choice is to choose friend than money

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. OreoCookie3 (13782)   ranked 520 out of 27,506 in life   6 months ago

I don't think I have ever been in that position to choose between my principals and money. I earned my money legitimately, so there is no question. If it ever came that I could earn more by sacrificing my values I would have to turn it down, because at the end of the day I have to live with myself. I would be bothered by guilt if I were to sacrifice my integrity for money.. or even for a relationship or anything. I can't do it.


junandi (1)  6 months ago

ad for you choose something worthwhile of money because money is not anything


junandi (1)  6 months ago

ad for you choose something worthwhile of money because money is not anything


junandi (1)  6 months ago

ad for you choose something worthwhile of money because money is not anything

 
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