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myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com8 months ago

Dear friends, do you mind your language while posting your replies or just do not bother about the standard of your language? In one of my recent discussions, I found that some of the members wrote utterly repulsive, derogatory, insulting, intimidated, threatening and highly objectionable language. I felt very bad after going through their responses. My discussion was a simple one and it had no controversial element. My point is that if any of the members does not like to respond to my discussion, it is his/her sweet will, but posting a reply in an insulting language, really hurts.
I myself do not use any kind of offensive or derogatory language under any circumstances in my posts, comments or counter-comments and expects the same from others.
Do you also receive responses which are bad in taste or wherein offending words and/or bad language is used? If at all, somebody writes insulting language to you while replying to your posts, how do you react?
Please share your experiences and views. Thanks in advance. happy

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. homegrowntexasgirl (466)   ranked 1,741 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

I have not had any such experiences yet. I'm sure given enough time it will happen. A lot of these people get online to agitate others to get a rise out of them. I have seen it on so many other forums that it is sad realy. The best thing to do is ignore them. They have nothing better to do and you should not waste your time with a reply.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. I agree with your suggestions.I am really pleased to see your positive response. thumbup






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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. Rozie37 (6458)   ranked 2,842 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

I give them a minus and report them. This is the best way of fighting back. I am sorry that this has happen to you. People say that words don't hurt, but that is a lie. I have seen on some discussions where they have actually deleted a response. Hopefully they will do this for you, so your discussion will not be messed up by someone else's rudeness.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. I agree with your suggestions and act accordingly. I am really relieved to read your response.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2791)   ranked 1,842 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

Yes, I've also received some of those on the odd occasion.. I usually just ignore them and do not give them the "argument" they're seeking. Only sometimes I find myself not being able to ignore the unasked for insults I get, but explaining to those people and responding to them never works out..it just gets more insulting..so try hard to just ignore it..


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. thumbup I agree with your suggestions and will act accordingly. I am really relieved to read your response.







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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. BUSSY1979 (631)   ranked 2,743 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

i've not had no repulsive responses like that before. but, i know that someday i will in time probably. i hate it when they do that, and wish that they would leave this site if they are going to cause so much trouble here on mylot. i also would report them to the Mylot staff and to let them know who is doing the bad deeds on the site. it's sad that people cannot
behave without getting themselves into trouble by cursing, or being mean to other people. they should not be allowed on the site here to earn the money. for that matter, they don't even deserve the money.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. thumbup I fully agree that these kind of person should not come on the site. I am really relieved to read your response.








myLot reputation of 95/100. BUSSY1979 (631)   ranked 2,743 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

hello dpk,
i know. people like that, and with that kind of personality don't deserve to earn money here. they need to loose everything good that comes into their lives!


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Yes, I quite agree with you, that those people would lose many things in their real life too.
Deepak

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5. myLot reputation of 81/100. season0907 (1697)   ranked 1,836 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

Hi dkp262006,
Please take note that there will be always few people everywhere who use insulting language and mylot is not exception to that. What we have to do is to simply ignore those type of responses. If you find somebody like that in your friends list, you can remove them.But don't get upset with responses with insulting language, because if you upset, you may not be able to work energitically.Keep your self unperturbed by those type of responses and keep going.
Good Luck.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. thumbup I agree with your suggestions and will act accordingly. I am really pleased to read your response. happy
Deepak




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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. cupid74 (3955)   ranked 5,041 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

Hi Dear Deepak

really sorry hear to know all this, but dont feel bad, all kind of people are every where, just ignore them

Well i try to use lanuage properly and try not to hurt any ones feeling ( i am not sure about grammer or spelling as i type fast what i have in mind and post it and for that my teachers at mylot point it out and some times scold me too, bit ----)

It rarely happen to me but if it did i politely try to close it, i dont want to rude as other person

Take care

Wish u all the best


and hey, keep smiling, dont take tensions of such person

byee


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. thumbup I agree with your suggestions and will act accordingly. I am really pleased to read your response. happy








myLot reputation of 95/100. cupid74 (3955)   ranked 5,041 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

u r welcome

just relax

and enjoy

take care

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7. myLot reputation of 68/100. subha12 (14194)   ranked 3,169 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

i think i atleast try to take care of the language. i am never very rude however bad i feel about the post. but also i have seen that many responses are so rude that you wuill feel like funming.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks for sharing Subha! I know you are very polite and nice.

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. s2a2n2 (1076)   ranked 1,253 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

sometimes I do mind it and post with utmost care. but most of the times, I do it normally. Sometimes it even goes worse. But, the ultimate thing is to present the ideas to others and keep posting here. cheers and wish you best of luck. have a nice day!


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks for sharing, I know you use decent language.


myLot reputation of 89/100. s2a2n2 (1076)   ranked 1,253 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. lynboobsy11 (2841)   ranked 230 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

Yes I do deepak....

As much as possible rephrase my word into a nice and better meaning instead of expressing ti vulgarly. I know it is public forum and some repulsive and offensive words are not proper to post here. I can express my feelings in another way readers can understood me by not posting such as not offensive one. happy


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. thumbup I know that you are really very polite and kind. I am really pleased to read your response.



myLot reputation of 96/100. lynboobsy11 (2841)   ranked 230 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

thanks friend.....
have a nice day.... happy

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10. myLot reputation of 100/100. faith210 (6839)   ranked 3,345 out of 26,062 in mylot.com   8 months ago

Hi deepak! I am really sorry to know that you have received those kind of remarks. I, too have experience and receive some. I just try to ignore it and not react to it anymore to avoid a possible argument. Just like you, I think about my responses/comments because I don't want people to feel that I am insulting/criticizing/offending them in any way. I want my discussions to be free from derogatory remarks. i treat others with respect and I am hoping i will also be accorded the same. Just my thoughts dear friend! Take care and have a nice day!happy


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5850)   ranked 829 out of 26,062 in mylot.com  8 months ago

Thanks dear for your quick advice and response. thumbup I agree with your suggestions and will act accordingly. I know that you are very polite and nice. I am really pleased to read your response.


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