My boyfriend confess he still loves another girl, i'm really in love

I think that you should temporarly break up until he is ready to love you fully.

I really do think that you should sit back and think about what he means to you and what you mean to him. Evaluate the two and find out which one weighs in more. It seems as if you are loving someone to whom is not prepared to love you back. Have you ever heard of the "if you love someone let them go, if they come back it was meant to be, if not it never was" saying? Well if not evaluate it. Decide if you should let him go. Don't bother loving someone who can't return the same, becuase their is always someone else out there.

Run like crazy. If he's with you and making these confessions, he's playing games. You shouldn't allow him to manipulate you with past relationships.

It's possible I'm overstating the case, but I will give you this bit of advice as a man who's heard his friends talk about doing exactly what you're describing. If he*ever* says to you "It would HELP ME GET OVER HER if you would only..." (insert whatever he wants you to do there), he's scamming you, and he doesn't love you in any meaningful way.

You have already answered your question if you think about it. Why should you stay with someone first of all who can't love you the way a person should be loved. No matter how much you love that person he is not with you now anyway, he is still with her in his mind, his thoughts, his life. You are NOT. You are selling yourself short. And if you do decide to stay with this guy who loves another I guarantee you you will never trust him. You already have thoughts of when you are not with him in your mind if he is with this other girl. Honey that's just not good. Wouldn't you like to know that the man you are with is the one that Loves you and no other. Puts you first, thinks of you, cherishes you, adores you. Hello, the "YOU" is the important one and some day you will find a man that is "YOU" he is dreaming of and you the same of him. Finding that is the amaing part of your life and with all of that you will have a more fullfilling life. Just break away with this guy, he sounds insecure also. He's in love with another girl, but is settling for someone he doens't want. Not good. Life is good and you will run into Mr. Right, the one you are meant for.. It happens when it happens and no sooner so don't try and rush and find anyone. God is in control and believe me you will know it when it comes. Be patient.

I have been in the same "boat" like you before. I had a boyfriend in college; he told me that he saw the girl that he fell inlove few years back and confessed that he still loves her.

It really hurt so bad so I let go plus the fact that he cheated ofcourse.

I guess... you need to let the person go even if it will hurt you so bad because that is the only way to let the guy realize if he is really in love with someone else or with you...

It is better for you to know his true feelings than try to supress him then later you will be the one who will be truly hurt.

I hope that you will feel okay soon.

i'd cut him loose now.he sounds like he'll go back to her eventually,and you'll just get hurt worse later.just the fact that he's bringing it up pretty much tells you he's not over her.

Well i think you should let him go...though it really hurts but you need to move on forget about him...Just hope that someday or somehow you could still found someone that would worths better than him... those who could love you at exactly who you are...God bless

This is really hard. You are in a situation where you have to choose between self-respect and love for someone. In my case, I would probably be hurt by what he said. I would take it as an insult. Well, breakup is really the next option for me to make. But, it's still up to you. Fight for your feelings. Decide well and choose the best option.Kudos.

i think he has to choose now..or maybe you both need spaces to think whats the best thing to do..

I just have this to tell you for this.

Let him go or you let go.

Sorry if this sounds rude but you are in a situation whre there is no two ways.