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 A friend of mine and I traded vehicals because of the high rise of gas prices, so she did me a favor by taking my SUV which is really terrible for burning gas, and I took her car that saves on money for gas plus it goes a long way before it burns anything.
When she came over with her kid and her boyfriend what I didn't realize is that they were staying the night but we kindly accepted that. We knew her kid had a bladder and bowel problem so before her son went to bed she put some garbage bags down on the bed incase he would pee the bed.
6am comes the next morning and I heard mine and her son awake and went to check up on them and found the garbage bags on the floor and a huge wet spot on our futon matress, plus he was sitting in his pajamas spreading germs all over the place.
So my hubby got up, put the matress outside and figured that we could clean it. I unzippered the cover and tried to get the pee out of the matress but couldn't so now it's completely ruined.
She didn't try to help me clean the matress at all.
She wanted to go to town to buy this dress for her cousin's wedding coming up in June so I went with her. When we got back my hubby was quite upset because her son had our new kitten by the neck and almost killed it. He said he could hear the kitten screaming and ran into my son's room and found her son choking our kitten.
After she, her boyfriend and son left, I found out that she was complaining that I didn't put enough gas in my SUV for her to get home but I told her that when she first came over and she said it was no problem that she would add gas. I also heard that she quoted that I could've at least put $20.00 in for her. When we agreed to trade vehicals the reason for this is because my hubby and I were broke for the week.
My question is should I ask her to replace my $300.00 futon matress, or just let it go? Do you think it's fare of her to complain about me not putting gas in my SUV before we traded?
Your comments are appreciated
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1.  goldeneagle (1412) | 6 months ago |  her little bed wetting brat ruined it and almost killed your cat...hell yeah make her pay for it or take $300 out of her butt....LOL
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 nixxi76 (533) | 6 months ago | LOL I actually talked to her tonight and told her that my futon matress is completely ruined, then she went to change the subject. I then mentioned that it's $300.00 and she said right now she can't afford to replace it because she's got $1000.00 debt from a credit card. It's like she was getting frustrated. I pretty much kept the phonecall brief and didn't say much more after that. I could tell she felt uncomfortable.
The least she could have done is said something else than that.
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2.  perrytx (1919) | 6 months ago |  Check with cleaners,like dry cleaners or carpet cleaners, they will probably have a suggestion for the mattress. She did the car excahnge as a favor, right? Then I don't think you can complain about something that you did not hear personally. If she is a good friend, forgive her, move on. We are all human.
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| nixxi76 (533) | 6 months ago | I think what I'm going to need is a brand new matress because it soaked right through right in the center of it and I can't see how I can honestly get this cleaned.
The least she could do is go halfers on one seeing it was her son that ruined it. If that were my son that did that to her.. I would be a good friend myself just out of consideration and pay for it.
Thanks for your advice perrytx | |
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| 3. scarlet_woman (5178) | 6 months ago |  i would have lost it at the kitten-that would have been the definate i no longer care point for me.
i'd let it go and have done with that family.seriously.
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| nixxi76 (533) | 6 months ago | hi scarlet woman,
Thanks for your advice. I don't think I'm finished talking to her about this whole ruining my futon matress or the kitten part of it either. She's so very selfish I feel and not for this reason, it's about her boyfriend too. His mother just passed away a couple days ago and she got right mad at him for phoning in sick!
He phoned my hubby and I crying because he's grieving and she hit him across the head. I just can't believe how much she's changed since a year ago and she claims it's because of him, that he changed her and it's all built up fury.
I'm ready to part ways with her. | |
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| scarlet_woman (5178) | 6 months ago | she hit him across the head while he was grieving?
jeez..that lady don't sound all there all all.
that's insane. | |
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| nixxi76 (533) | 5 months ago | Yeah not only does she hit him but she will grab his you know what and hurt him down there! Very immature | |
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4.  subha12 (12763) | 6 months ago |  i think its really a sticky situation. they are not responsible at all a sit seems. so they have not told you and should have taken precaution about her son's condition. they could use diaper and all without damaging anyone's mattress. do one thing. just again replace the vehicle. otherwise she will again take advantage of you.
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| nixxi76 (533) | 6 months ago | You know... I'm thinking the same thing. Thanks for your comment | |
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| 5. arlene05kang (169) | 5 months ago |  If i were you, i guess its just right to tell her exactly how you felt about the situation. Sometimes other people don't realize that they are causing problem to others. Some are self-centered and even never try to look back if they're hurting someone. Too much kindness sometimes means no concern to others. If you speak out maybe she will listen. You can even tell her about the bad habits of his son...cause she might not noticing it. Good luck.
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| nixxi76 (533) | 5 months ago | Hi arlene,
I actually mentioned to her about the matress and she didn't have at all that much to say about it except sorry and that she had too much debts to pay off and couldn't do it at this time.
The whole thing is that it was my hubby's matress that he bought from Ikea before I even met him but the fact is that we do have guests that stay over other than her and they use our futon so basically it's ruined and there's no way we can fix it. It will either have to be replaced or another matress will have to do.
My hubby also asked her to make payments and she still wouldn't do it and then she got an attitude about it and told him to F off. He was so upset and so was I.
She's agreed afterall to pay it in about three months. I still don't think this is fair!
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