how do you handle it when people insult you?  |
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Everyday we come across so many people as we go through life,but really one thing surprises me and that is the attitude of people especially the youngsters,why is it that people get so abusive and disrespectful these days the slightesrt prompt they are ready to insult others,i have been insulted so many times,At times i look at the person passing the insult and i just feel like strangling them but i only refrain from doing that by keeping my temper under control,how do you respond when you are insulted by others especially when there was no need for the insult?
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1. tessah (2103) | 6 months ago | you need to look at the source of information. does the person who insulted you, really matter? most often times, they dont.. these people are inconsequential to your existance and happiness.. thus, their insults hold no bearing whatsoever.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | hm,i agree with you,in fact its better to just ignore them else you will do what you will later regret,true tessah
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2. magikrose (4913) | 6 months ago | I just ignore them. The only reason they are doing it is to get a reaction out of you and when you give them one then they got waht they wanted. The best thing is to just keep walking and ignore it. If enough people do this they will get bored and move on to something else.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | yes,thanks for the response,we must learn to ignore a loyt of this things from people dont give in to what they want from you and they will get tired,you dont get arrested for ignoring people do you?good idea,thanks
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3. recycledgoth (6160) | 6 months ago | I have been insulted so often that it no longer bothers me. I have found that ignoring the ignorant is the best way to deal with them. There is very little respect these days, so I can't see the point in letting it upset me anymore.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | hm,thanks for that observation,people ahrdly respect others so why allow it to bother you,that is true talk,
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4. dolce_vita78 (3698) | 6 months ago | I agree with you. More and more people now even the young ones are not too careful with what they've got to say. I really do not mind them. At least for as long as they do not cross my borders. I know that if I would mind them, they will just feel prouder that I took notice of them.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | yes its better to ignore them especially those ones that think they know how to talk and just say what they like at anytime and to anybody without any cnsideration.Its unfortunate that things got to this point without our noticing it or doing something about it.ignoring is the best way to handle them.
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| 5. ruth16 (84) | 6 months ago | i mostly ignore such people... i'd probably be tempted to do the same but i don't do it unless i'm really angry.....
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | yes its better to be able to control one"s temper people will definitely throw sh its on you but you must learn to ignore lest you regret your actions thanks.
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6. Bd200789 (1459) | 6 months ago | I try to ignore it, at least in public. But it really hurts me when someone insults me, even if it isn't true.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | yes its painful when you are insulted but what can you do than just ignore it if you dont want to get more insults?
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7. elisa812 (2496) | 6 months ago | I think it's sad how cruel people can be sometimes-especially kids. It just seems like people never consider the feelings of others anymore. If someone was insulting me, I think I would just try to ignore them. Usually, if someone is doing that, then they probably just want your attention and want to see you get upset, so I would try to just pay no attention to them rather than giving them what they want. If I am upset by it, I try to wait until I can have some privacy to let out my frustration because I don't want to give them the satisfaction of knowing that they succeeded in getting to me. If they think that their insults aren't achieving anything, then hopefully they will just stop.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | hm,good thinking you can let out your anger in your prvate,i like that,never allow anyone get to you just ignore them thanks elis812
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8. lvaldean (558) | 6 months ago | I evaluate the source. Do they matter to me? Is their opinion important to me? Have they really insulted me or are they offering me relevant feedback? Sometimes what is viewed as a insult is simply bad communication. I simply ignore strangers, their opinions are less than relevant to me and thus not worthy of a response. The rest I evaluate the source and determine the response based upon the source.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | yes thanks for this very straight forward answr you are right to consider who is makingthe comment and i actually agree with you some people"s comment are worth loosing sleep over,and re evaluating the reason or the accuracy is also important.thanks ivaldean
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9. Garfield1 (1259) | 6 months ago | I ignore these people. There are funnier things to do in life than take a fight
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | well spoken in a humourous manner thank you
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Garfield1 (1259) | 6 months ago | Thanks also to you. Have a great evening
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| 10. Tabby123 (25) | 6 months ago | When someone insults me I just laugh at them and brush it off because usually when people Insult you its only cause there insocure thereself so I just let it go instead of getting upset about it its not really worth it most of the time Let them think what they want you know what you feel inside and 9 out of 10% of the time you dont feel what there saying is true so how care just brush them ok but anyways.
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BYOLA2871 (1476) | 6 months ago | really,i like your response most of these abusive people at the end of the end are not worth the attention they get from us when they get silly
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