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risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships3 months ago

you've caught your boyfriend/girlfriend dating someone else, will you still give him/her a chance?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. WebMann (1753)   ranked 230 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

Not a chance. They would be out of my life immediately.

Trust is a huge issue with me and if I give my all in a relationship I expect no less from them.

I have actually been cheated on once, that I know of, and I tried to get over it but it's just not in me. I would never cheat on anyone so I guess I can't handle it when someone does it to me.


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

very well said:) thanks:)

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. NuclearRabbit (265)   ranked 4,734 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

No. I wouldn't because I try to put my relationship first. It wouldn't be my fault if something went wrong in my relationship so there would be nothing I could have done differently to change the situation.

This being said, I think that if I did stay in the relationship that the paranoia would drive me nuts and make us both very unhappy.

I wouldn't not want to waste anymore of my life with someone who didn't love me enough to stay faithful.


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

nicely put:) thanks:)

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3. myLot reputation of 67/100. jesus777 (307)   ranked 2,831 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

i wuold give him a second chance but if he did it repeatedly then i would kick him to the curb because its obvious that he cant handle commitment!!!!


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

everybody deserves a second chance:) but when he wastes it, that's the final string!:)

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. ellie333 (3751)   ranked 735 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

Once a cheat always a cheat so no I would be out of the relationship immediately as I personally would never be able to trust again so even though I would forgve I wouldn't be able to forget and move on from it. Once trust has been broken it is very hard to reapir. Ellie:D


myLot reputation of 86/100. NuclearRabbit (265)   ranked 4,734 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

I would disagree with the saying "once a cheat always a cheat". It depends on the reasons why they cheat. I know a guy that cheated on his abusive girlfriend. She even admitted to me that she was abusive and I've seen the black eyes to prove it. He has never cheated in any of his other relationships.


myLot reputation of 86/100. ellie333 (3751)   ranked 735 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

This is a general rule but there is always the exception with your friend being one of them. People also feel it is woman that receive the violence within relationships but a lot of the time men are victims of it too. Ellie:D

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. thelastwolf113 (1124)   ranked 1,424 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

I think it would be difficult to trust that person ever again. If you did forgive, you'd never forget and that would be a problem.
Personally, No, I wouldn't take them back.


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

thanks!:)

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6. MickeyCat (15)   ranked 3,347 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

no way... not a chance. never.

i hate cheaters. i would appreciate more, though it would hurt, a guy who could tell me to my face he cant go on anymore with the relationship other than do something behind my back. we all got limits and in relationships, this is my limit, and totally cut off from him even communication:)


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

once a cheater, always a cheater!:)

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. Linda4ualways (745)   ranked 130 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

I believe most women or at least more than half, give their boyfriends/husbands second chances after they have been caught cheating. I have never caught any of my ex's cheating but I did have the signs and I have given them another chance. Call me foolish but I am not alone.


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

yeah, but i think a second chance is the best that we can give them, but if they'll do it again, definitely, I'm shutting my door. thanks:)


myLot reputation of 89/100. aowaow (1081)   ranked 220 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

I am with you.

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8. myLot reputation of 92/100. 2btrueinu (616)   ranked 2,899 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

Well all of us commit mistakes in our life. I will give him a second chance but if he will do it again I will not give him a chance again because he will do it over and over again. I will be hurt over and over again.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6735)   ranked 105 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

Everybody deserves a SECOND CHANCE, I would give it if that ever happens to me. But on a second chance, it's up for the girl to make up with it. Trust and respect is what makes a relationship strong, hopefully to last long as well..

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. aowaow (1081)   ranked 220 out of 16,744 in relationships   3 months ago

This is not we are giving him a chance, but he's the one who's giving us a chance.


risseyprincess (36)   ranked 2,301 out of 16,744 in relationships  3 months ago

he's giving us the chance to trust him again:)

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