is it safe to stepout of our culture and social boundaries for love?

it will be a tough adjustment but very doable.

just be very open. communication will play a big role in this type of relationship

There is no security that you are safe or that there will be security. You are getting away from your comfort zone, it would mean that a lot of things you're unfamiliar with could get in your way, you will either learn to adapt with the change or just go back to what you are used to.

So, with your first question, if it is safe, there is no guarantee that it is safe, but with love or relationship as a factor for moving away from your culture, you have already a foundation to start with.:) It could either lead to total insecurity or eventually to appreciation of new things and new life, and as long as you know who you are, this will not lead to insecurity nor isolation.

And if you can not cope with change, you know that the very foundation which is love and relationship, may break into pieces.

Stepping out is totally a faith issue. If you and him/her have the same beliefs, then You have to decide for yourself several things:
1. Do I love this person?
2. Can I trust him/her?
3. Is the family supportive?
4. Do I care whether or not they are?
5. If I leave my country...do I have the money to get back home?

All the best to you both! Love is Grand!!

Your ability to cope with social changes should be considered when entering in an inter-class relationship. If the other party is of different social class or culture, be prepared for changes and adjustments since you cannot expect that only one party has to change but both persons involved in the relationship must meet half-way to make the relationship harmonious or, in some cases, one must give up his or her own culture or class in the name of love. I knew some who succeeded but some failed because eventually, the other partner has not totally given up his/her own culture or way of living in favor of the other or the other one has not totally accepted the other partner's culture.

As to your question is it is safe or not, for me, it all depends on the person since our coping abilities varies. In my own experience, I always believe in equity and that one person need not change but should be accepted as they are in the name of love. Adjustment could and should be done but that is all I expect from my partner because totally changing him will make him a totally different person.

it would be really challenging if you're in this kind of situation. social differences, culture and tradition take a huge part of our personality. this has been embedded and inculcated to our minds. a clash of personality brought up by our beliefs is a natural reaction between two persons of different culture and religion. but as they always say, love can cross all the borders. we do everything to understand and embrace our differences and lived with it. on my own perspective, love should know no color, race, or religion. what we must firmly observe is the universal law of morality.

life is full of suprises you might never know until you really put yourself in that position. having an open mind that if you find true love which you really want you would go to timbuctoo to have it at first you will feel isolated and finding it hard to cope with the new culture but has time goes by you will be glad you did. in life nothing comes easy you have to work real hard to get what you really want