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Would you like to give your friend present or money? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)4 months ago

My friend invited me to attend her birthday party,but i don`t know what i should give him.Some of my friends want to give him money straigtly and i think it is not proper.So tell me sth about your idea.What would you like to give?Money or present?

 
 
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GreenMoo (1862) response was accepted on 5/25/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. vanities (7658)   4 months ago

depending on what you think that will make your friend happy...money or present are the same for me..and i guess money is more practical now a dayshappy

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. learn2earn (1036)   4 months ago

If I don't know what kind of a present to give, I usually give it in cash. That way, he can choose what he wants to buy if he will use the money. This is to avoid giving something that my friend doesn't like. He may be saying to himself, "it would be better for him to give me money so I can choose what I buy". It can be helpful to him. But if you know what he wants, you can go ahead and buy it and give it to him. Today, it's better to be practical than assuming he likes what we will give as present. happy

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. curious888 (546)   4 months ago

I think I would give him/her a red-packet as present (containing money) and ask him/her to buy a present for himself/herself .
Moreover he/she can collect all the red-packets (money) to buy something ( say mobile phone or laptop...) that he/she needs most.
I think this is better.


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

Thanks for your kind help.Your posting really do me a great favor.
Have fun.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. bhubaneshwars (1164)   4 months ago

Giving a presentation is no doubt the best choice but some times they are real headache too. There may be repetations and your friend may endup with tons of same articles. In my opinion you should go for cash or gift certificates .


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

I agree with you.Giving a present is really hard thing because there you always don`t have enough information about the your friends and presents themselves.However,we have to make a choice.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. GreenMoo (1862)   4 months ago

I don't really like giving money as a gift as I think it spells a lack of thought about what your friend would really like. However, I appreciate that in some instances it is both more sensible and much appreciated. Older children and teenagers often appreciate money which they can put towards something that you perhaps wouldn't budget for on your own, and receiving the money is better than you making an error and getting something they're not interested in.

One way around giving money is to buy a voucher with the money, for a store that your friend enjoys. Or even just give him the money but with a note attached saying that it is intended for a particular thing. Of course, they can still spend it on what they'd like of course, but at least there's a chance it will go on something enjoyable ratehr than the grocery bill or fuel tank!


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

Thanks for your kind and all-sided posting.What i could do is give you my best response.Thanks again for your sharing.
Have fun.


myLot reputation of 88/100. GreenMoo (1862)  4 months ago

That's very kind of you. I'm sure your friend will be very grateful, whatever you choose to give.

Enjoy the party!

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6. myLot reputation of 80/100. Hatley (11316)   4 months ago

I would give your friend a gift card to his favorite
store so he can buy himself just what he really
wants. I always give gift cards to my son, and
he really enjoys getting them as he can buy
something he really wanted.


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

It is a really good ieda. You are so smart.Thanks for your kind advice and sharing.
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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. ucancallmedissy (2471)   4 months ago

I never give my friend a birthday present in the form of money. I don't think it's appropriate. I would find him or her some things that I think they like, depends on their personality. For some friends, me and my friends like to buy things together, one thing paid by us friends.


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

It is a good idea to buy present with him together.
You are clever.Thanks for your kind advice.
Have fun.

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8. myLot reputation of 51/100. yiranmengyi (114)   4 months ago

I have a preference of present for my sake as a giver.On the contrary,if I am a present receiver I prefer money for some presents are of no use.


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

yean,you are right.
Thanks for your sharing. Have fun

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9. myLot reputation of 79/100. Saurav2050 (116)   4 months ago

I have a lots and lots of friends in school and as well as at home..
I speak a lot so i make friend quickly..Once friends are made it is common to share everything...whethet happiness or sadness..

As i have a lots of friend i am invited in birthday paties and other home functions and i need to probably give something..so,I go to gift shop and most commonly buy a card and bundles of flowers..and off course in some occassions a large present...
But i cant recall the last time i gave money as a present to friend!
And i think its not good coz presents are for memories and love..
According to me money doesnt value...As a present!!


myLot reputation of 93/100. jyjnl_jia (233)  4 months ago

You are right. Yesterday i decided to buy a present for him.I believe that he will like it.LOL
Thanks for your sharing.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. thaMARKER (545)   4 months ago

I would prefer to give your friend a present instead of money. When you buy something, your friend can keep it and remember you one day when he sees it again somewhere in his closet.

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