Should a wife be concerned about her husband talking on the phone outside?

Well with my fiance, I would be a bit suspicious but would know that he is not doing anything or talking to anyone I do not know. 2 AM is an odd hour of the morning, does your husband have any buddies on night shift? we have buddies on the night shift, and my fiance talks to them all the time.....

A husband should not have secrets. Why discussing business in your car/outside. Is that your wife is not confidential. Some persons where I live will tell you that the wife is getting bun. (husband having an affair)

Yes, the wife should be concern.

Don't be to controlling or it can damage the relationship. Just simply ask him/her who is talking to. Don't always ask or seem suspicious or the fiance or spouse will think that you don't trust him/her.

Whoa! Most often wife's instincts are real. It's a gut feeling that there's something is going on that's not right. With that scenario you just mentioned, 11 or 2 in the morning is too much of a business deal. I'd say she should make some clarification or do some investigation.*wink*

What is his job? Is it reasonable that he would have business phone calls at 11:00 at night or 2:00 in the morning? If he's not on call or working with overseas business, I think I would be curious. Why can't he discuss business in the house? Is it noisy in there? I'd ask him for a good explanation--but keep your mind open: he may have a good explanation.

He needs to stop that now!!!
My husband 7 years ago was doing that number and telling me its his boss and one day I got the phone and answered it but didn't say anything and the lady said "hey big man". (she must of called the wrong # because there was no big man here!) lol
Anyway I went to pick my kids up from school and was going to leave him and he found me at the gas station and begged me back...bla bla I'm still here with him. but yeah you need to confront that! Turn that fire off!

I would go through his phone. Call the dialed or recieved numbers back that don't look familiar or get a recorder and when he goes outside crack the door and set it outside. That is just me though. LOL I would be concerned though especially at the 2 am calls.

I would be very suspicious. If it were something innocent why couldnt he take the call around you. My gut would tell me something was up. Id ask to see the phone#. Are there other issues in the relationship? This may be the first signs of cheating.

Normally I would say no as I have never been a suspicious or jealous person but because of an incident that happened with me, I would now have to say yes. And, even more so at the hours that you mention....yes, yes, yes. If it were a business call, there would be no reason why he could not talk in front of you.

Hi cream97! If it is not that often he makes or takes call, I wouldn't be concerned at all. But if it happens regularly and most often in early mornings, I will be getting suspicious of course. Who would talk business in such very early hours? And why does he have to take the call outside? If it is noisy around the house, he can always tell the kids to be quiet or if the music is loud he can always turn the volume low. And at nights, that may be understandable because he does not want to disturb anyone in their sleep. However, as I said if it becomes a regular thing, I would be getting somehow concerned.
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