Do you borrow money from others?

Being in debt is not much fun, particularly when its from friends. Loans, as the banks are never too shy to remind is, creates a situation of having obligations and personally, I don't much like having obligations to my friends.

However, there are times when borrowing becomes a necessary part of life. You need a couple of bucks to tied you over til the next pay cheque situation and who else can you turn to except your friends. Having said that, this type of situation has to work both ways. If you can rely on friends to help you out, they have to be able to rely on you when they are in need. When it works both ways, you'll find your friendship becomes the stronger for it.

Hello,leafgxu, you're so kind, your friends must like getting along with you. Yeah, if you lend money to them, they will lend you if you're in need. Good behaviors deserve a return i think. Thanks for sharing.
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Hello, tigertang, yes, i agree. As a friend, sometimes we can't open our mouth to ask for money when the deadline has passed, that's why lots of people don't want to lend money to familiar people. In this sense, it's better to borrow money from the bank, yeah, right. But if ask money from friend, your relationship must be very good and will be better in the future if this matter has been well solved. Thanks for sharing
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Yeah, yourkl, i don't like it too, but sometimes we have to,totally agree
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Hello, photographygirl, only we must and have to, right. Otherwise i won't borrow money either, god, if i have money, why should i borrow and act like a beggar,lol
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Of course I didn't put anything about asking for money. No, I don't really. My friends would often times ask me as they could trust me to give them it.

Hello, SomeCowgirl,yeah, you're right, embarrass both the lender and the borrower. Difficult. Thanks for sharing
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It seems I missed your response to me. Thanks for re-respond ing to me. Was wondering when you would. Embarrassment is never good. Also, I wanted to add, you must be careful to whom you borrow the money from or to whom borrows the money to you.. some friendships do not last.

Hello, SomeCowgirl, i guess i typed the wrong word, i mean embrace, not embarrass, sorry.
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Hello, liuqian. We borrow money from those are closer to me,that's very simple. I do the same thing as you-take money as grated, but i always take more money with me. I don't agree one will learn to use money properly when get a job, it's nothing to do with job. I used to think like you, but you see, now i've got a job, i still spend money at random. It's a habit, and we can change without having a job, it's your personal will that determines
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Hello, graceandowen,i always asked my mum in the past, but now i have a job, i feel shamed to ask for her money, that's a problem, so i have to find someone can be as tolerate and willing as my mom.You are lucky that you don't need to borrow money from other, aren't you?Thanks for sharing
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Hello, youless. I can't agree more, money can break the best relationship, it's a very sensitive topic.So everybody needs to take care when speaking of money, especially borrowing money.
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Hello, paid2write, if i met this kind of person, ok, i can lend him money a second time,but if he forgets as wll, i'd be reluctant to lend him money next time. I will remember my debt all the time, and try to give money back in the shortest time. Maybe he's not that on purpose, but i can't tolerate. Promise have to be obeyed
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Hello, friend. Yeah, one paramount thing is that we should pay on time, otherwise~ well, i don't know acutually what will happen. Anything may happen, i guess.
Close friend or bank, don't borrow at random, that's true
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Hello, Emiese, such a long response,thanks. Really a great problem, forget your money that've been lended, wow, can i borrow money from u? Just kidding. I forget too. But i make myslef pay back money in time, always keep the promise especially the topic's money. Thanks for sharing
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