My FATE is in your (the MyLot Community's) Hands!!!! Help Me!!!

i know that you like doing what your wife says because like you said i m sure that she is smart and i have been guilty of doing that myself(doing what the woman wants)because most of the time they really know what they are talking about...but i think this has to be something that you have to choose or you could just go and get it and then if you don't like it later on you can take it out of your ear and let the skin grow back over and you won't have to wear it anymore...i think that might be the best thing for you to do that way you will please her and then you will know for yourself if your like it and you can say that you tried it...just my thought!

No, if it's not your style, than it won't work for you, and you'lll just resent your wife for encouraging you to get it.

Oh dear you sound in a right panic there!!!..my advice for what its worth is if you dont feel that its for you just dont have one!!!!..after all they are your ears and its your life...!!!we cant always do everyting just to please everyone else...

I think that you need to decide what is best for you. I have always felt that piercings and tatoos are each to his own. I do not prefer tatoos for myself and being a female I even limit the piercings. two to each ear and even then I don't wear earrings that often.
It is your body, follow your heart!

Well, you posted this discussion just a half hour ago, and you already have five, so I'm guessing you'll be getting your ear pierced tomorrow??

Truthfully, I'm indifferent. I don't mind earrings on guys at all, and I have at times thought they looked sexy, but it's not a turn on for me or anything. If he has one, fine, if not fine.

But, since you really can't get a vote based on that response, I'll say yes, go for it. If you're not opposed to it, and she would like it, then why not? It's not like it's a decision that can't be reversed. You get the earring and you don't like it, then you take it out, the hole closes and it's done.

Most things done to alter appearance can be undone if you don't like them, so unless you're really against the earring, I say do it!

If you were really sure you wanted to do this, you wouldn't be asking us to help you decide! It sounds like you are not thrilled with the idea and just don't want to be the only one telling your wife! I have never like men wearing earrings so my vote is going to be no for that reason and because I don't think you really want it.

As far as how to deal with your wife...and I'm a woman saying this...if she still insists you get an earing, tell her you will but only if she agrees to shave her head. Your ears belong to you and her hair belongs to her so it's only fair for her to make an equal sacrifice of her appearance...if you don't like the earing, you can take it out and it may heal (or you could be stuck with a spot on your ear lobe as proof that you once sported an earing). If she doesn't like her shaven head, she can let her hair grow out and no one will ever know the difference.

weLL..if your not opposed to it then why not...it is your body after all..but if you think that it isnt for you then dont..i know your wife can have those ideas which seem great but sometimes not everything can be so great when its done already..you dont have to give in to your wife idea all the time especiallywhen your not so confident about it yourself..also having asked other peoples opinions was a great idea..hope this helped..

No. My vote is no. If it really isn't for you then you shouldn't do it. I am okay with earrings on guys and even have found them sexy at times. But I also appreciate that it is not the thing for everyone. I think it is much more sexy to really know who you are and what works for you.

My vote is ...No. Here's why...you said that you don't think it's for you. Wife or not, it's your' body and you are the one who will have to wear the thing.
First, you will have to take care of it to keep it from getting infected after the initial piercing. Sometimes it takes 6 onths to fully heal.
Second, if you decide to take it out and let the hole close up, as your' first response advised, you will have a scar that will not go away. The skin does not grow back over the hole. The hole closes but still looks pierced.
Third, and this is my own opinion, an earring on a man says something about you that potential employers may not like. And when you grow old, well, yuck! What old guy looks good with an earring?
If she thinks it's sexy, get a clip on. It's less painful and you can get rid of it when the novelty wears off for her.

I got my ear pierced when I was younger, and I wore an earring for a couple of years. I quite liked it at the time, but after a while got tired of it, so I didn't wear one anymore. To this day, my ear is still pierced (the hole hasn't closed up), and I haven't worn an earring for years.

I would say go for it, there's only a tiny bit of pain involved, and if it turns out you hate it, then just don't wear anything. Plus, you get bonus points for doing something to please your wife;-)