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myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting5 months ago

My daughter is almost 3 months old and my fiance has been talking since she was like 2 weeks old on getting her ears pierced but i have heard that its easier to do it when they are smaller but then i heard that if you get them done when they are smaller the holes wont be centered when they are bigger. I believe she should be able to say on her own "mommy or daddy i want my ears pierced." our son asked for an earring when he was like 6. So im kind of debating if i should start an arguement with him over this or if i should just let it go and let him do it and see if when she gets bigger if she wants to keep them in or not. Im kind of undecided on this one.

Anyone have any advice?

 
 
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tags:  earrings, pierced ears, ear, babies, piercings
 
1. myLot reputation of 92/100. grammasnook (702)   ranked 1,672 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

I got my daughters ears pierced when they were 6 months old by the doctor not at the mall. It was done correctly. Thier holes are centered. If your daughter is prone to ear infections I would not get the earrings. When they are young it just doesnt hurt as much and the pain isnt remembered. If she doesnt want the earrings you can always take them out and the holes will close.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

yea i was told if i get them done get them done by the doctor not at the mall or at walmart.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. kezabelle (1982)   ranked 305 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

The best time is when they ask for it themselves! I really dont see the need to peirce holes in my childrens ears for the sake of shoving a bit of jewellry through it they wont appriciate it and i dont see the need behind it it doesnt make them look any nicer or prettier.
yes the holes might close up but it would still leave a scar while we have to make all the choices for our children over things like where they get their education or when they have their shots, ear peircing is in my opinion a choice that can wait for the child to be old enough to make them selves its not one thats needed to be made now therefore needing us to do it so i feel its best to wait for the child to be old enough and make their own choice.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Thats how it was when i was growing up. My mom waited till i was old enough to make the decision myself.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. spalladino (3408)   ranked 989 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

In my opinion getting your ears pierced is a right of passage for a little girl, the first step towards womanhood that should be done at a time when she will appreciate the event. I made my daughters wait until they were around 7 before getting them pierced and they were SO EXCITED!! The decision should be up to you and your fiance equally but you both have to think about her and what she will be missing if you don't wait.
Now, all of you other moms who had your daughter's ears pierced at an early age, don't think I'm insulting your decisions because I'm not. I just remember the look on my daughters' faces when the big day came, how proud and grown they felt.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

yes, thats how it was growing up. im just debating weather to start a big situation over this because he is all for it and im like i can wait till she wants it because its not a "have to" kinda thing. so im stuck on what to do.

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (14968)   ranked 499 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

I dont know if what you heard is true or not but I do know that there its common for infant girls to get their ears pierced...I didnt get mine done until I was 13 or 14 and my daughter just got hers done for her 13th birthday last month.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Ive always thought it was better to wait till they asked because my friend got hers done when she was a baby and when she got bigger she didnt like them and never wore them so it was kind of a waste.

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5. myLot reputation of 77/100. dmcollie (178)   ranked 3,576 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

New babies are a lot to take care of. Tell your fiance that taking care of pierced ears are even more to take care of. You have to swab them and turn them and make sure no dirt gets in. And when she start figuring out her body parts she could pull an earring out and swallow it.

I did not get my daughters done until she asked when she was 7 for her birthday. good luck.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Yea i was told that too about them pulling on it. He isnt a girl so i dont think he understand the joys behind being able to get your ears pierced when ur a little girl.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. emma412 (681)   ranked 2,499 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

I am really against getting a baby's ear's pierced. It is not something they want or can even ask for at that age. The parents are just putting their child through pain for their own personal wants. It is so easy for those piercings to get infected and that would be so painful for that little one. I will wait until me daughter is older and let her decide if she wants her ears pierced. I know she will probably want to but I think it should be her decision, not mine.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Yea i would rather her wait till she is older as well. i want to be able to hear her say "mommy or daddy i want earrings"

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. twallace (2614)   ranked 5,167 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

I know that the sooner the better. When they are young like that it doesn't bother them that much. So you should go and get it done now. Have a nice one.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Thanks, Thats my fiance's feeling on it too. I know it would look extremely cute on her but i would still enjoy it when she was at the age to ask. Is there a difference between boys and girls. he didnt automatically get our sons one ear peirced when he was a baby he waited till he was big enough to ask for one. whats the differnce from a girl. having them done now could make her grow up to hate peircings or she could grow up to love them and have one or two or have them everywhere. lol


myLot reputation of 86/100. Galena (2964)   ranked 2,854 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

contrary to popular beleif among pro baby body modification people, ear peircing isn't so traumatic that we're better off not being old enough to remember it.

it stings for a couple of seconds, and thats it.

waiting until she is older will not make it painful enough to make it better done at an age to be forgotten.

if we think like that, why not tattoo them, get eyebrows and tongues and so on peirced while they are young enough to forget it.

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. ladyljs (660)   ranked 329 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

My little girl is 10 and has been begging me to get her ears pierced. I remember getting mine done (at the mall...yea I know, not the best place), at 18 and they got infected.

I really want her to be old enough to care for her ears properly as well as be responsible enough not to loose ear rings.

Maybe in a year or two, she will show me that she is ready.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Dont get me wrong id love for my daughter to get her ears peirced but i want it to be her decision. Im afraid if we make the decision for her then she wont get the joys of asking. but then again nowadays everyone has there ears done when they are babies it seems. so i dunno.

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9. myLot reputation of 58/100. FundamentalCharlie (209)   ranked 10,400 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

Why would you want to do this in the first place? At this age I am sure that she has no burning desire to collect jewelry anyway. This being the case, it can only be that YOU want to adorn her like a Christmas tree for your own satisfaction. There are infection risks as well as the possibility of injury if she were to catch the earring on something while playing. Also, what happens when she decides to yank it out and try to swallow it? Since you have asked for advice, here goes...

Let her be an infant while she's an infant, and a little girl while she's a little girl. There will be plenty of time for her to disfigure herself when she is old enough to decide for herself. Don't rush it!


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Yes i wanted everyone opinion on it because i am kind of torn on what i should do. And the responses are very helpful. Thank you:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. Wizzywig (1127)   ranked 2,144 out of 12,650 in parenting  4 months ago

I share Charlie's opinion. A baby is a little human being and not a doll to be dressed up and decorated. I think there should be an 'age of consent' applied to piercings and tattoos. As Charlie says, these piercings are not done for the benefit of the baby. its not the children who are wanting a fashion accessory - its the parent(s).

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. lingli_78 (8216)   ranked 2,407 out of 12,650 in parenting   5 months ago

my parents pierced my ears since i am born because it is easier and safer to do it as young as possible... the risk of infections are minimised when piercing baby ears rather than when they get older because baby still don't eat many varieties of foods yet that can increase the risk of infections and they can't scratch yet... as they get older, they tend to eat more varieties of food and also more active... thus, it becomes harder to pierce the ears and the risk of infections is higher... that's what my parents tell me why they pierce my ears as soon as i am born... take care and have a nice day...


myLot reputation of 97/100. SwtJenlove (540)   ranked 168 out of 12,650 in parenting  5 months ago

Thank you.

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