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myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet4 months ago

All of us have experience failure. It is a sad thing if we failed. It is really hard to battle the feeling of being failed. It's so frustrating, and it hurts. Really tough!! I just admire people who knows how to handle themselves when they failed. In me, I will be lamenting for days before I can cope with it.

How about you? How did you handle with failing.

Hoe pt hear from you.

 
 
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salonga (2365) response was accepted on 9/7/2008.
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tags:  failure, change, taking failure as a positive in life, failures, accepting failures
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. dumblnddzzy (8826)   ranked 1,271 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

When I fail at something I am doing I learn from that failure & do not repeat it. That is how you learn to go on with your life...Lori


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 months ago

OH thanks for that idea.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. onlinetomakemoney (424)   ranked 2,836 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

I also hate failure. But I take it as a learning experience.

Adapt,overcome and change.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 months ago

Oh!! that is good!!! thank you....

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3. myLot reputation of 69/100. MatejScorp13 (835)   ranked 1,202 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

i have failures atlest once very day, the often ones are small ones for which im glad, it some kind of not winning on betting site or cheering for a club that lose a match ... really small thing that they affect you really a lot ... to most im looking positive and looking for a future as a trying to do my best in order to fix that if i can


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 weeks ago

yes, trying to be positive in looking to the future is a good idea to combat failures. happyhappy

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. jashley1 (523)   ranked 6,058 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

There is a saying, "we fall down but we get up"...the important thing is that you get up! Don't stay down! Learn from it, try harder, but never give up the dream!


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 weeks ago

I agree with you. When you fall down....Get up and moved on....good!!!!

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. Residual (605)   ranked 2,045 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

Failure is just something we all go thru in life some let it get to them and lose their sense of direction but think of it this way failure helps you succeed. I look at it as a learning process where what ever I made an error are misjudgement in is something to make me better.

Some people can't take negative criticism and get upset but I look at it as a buiding block and take it to help make myself.

I have no use for the term failure in my vocabulary. If I am broke it all makes mr look for an avenue to succeed.

You must learn to take life as it comes to you and enjoy what you have and then you can have peace with yourself


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 weeks ago

You are right!! I agree.. Sure!! for the positive minded, failure is a challenge to improve!! not a thing to make us withdraw and surrender. happyhappy

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. salonga (2365)   ranked 4,814 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

Yes, it is sad to experience failure but how can we appreciate success if we have not experienced failure? Success is sweeter when you have already experienced to fail at one or more times in your life. We can not avoid failures because we are not perfect. Instead of dwelling in sadness, the best thing is for us to learn how to thank God in every circumstances because for all we know it will work together for our own good. We must learn to learn a lesson from those failures... where have you done wrong? what have you neglected? what are lacking? Then, strive to make up for all those shortcomings and misgivings you did in the past. Failures are actually God's way of molding you into a better person.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 months ago

yes I agree with you. So, you have a good way of accepting failures. You make it as a way of getting more closer to God.
thanks for the reply.

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7. myLot reputation of 83/100. Etharon (207)   ranked 8,559 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

When I fail I just start over again because we ust need to keep trying and keep moving forward.

The most successful people in the world have also failed many times before they achieved success.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 weeks ago

right!!! start again and improve. think of the lesson you learned and make it a guide to reach success. happyhappy

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. sid556 (5152)   ranked 1,944 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

I cry and put myself down and call myself an idiot and then i wash my face and vow to do better next time...over and over again. I have accepted that no matter how good I get at anything....I will always have moments of completly skrewing things up. we are human and we are bound to mess up....just pick yourself up and move forward.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 weeks ago

Yes, correct!! Moving forward is a great option than to withdraw because you failed.
Try again and strive for improvement. sadhappy

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. chintoo07 (2943)   ranked 364 out of 10,518 in internet   4 months ago

Hello Bebs08 Ji,
We should face challanges in our life, by applying at laest one of the following golden rule in our life, to sustain and with-stand. have a nice time.

S A T S A N G
If one can practice/implement any of the following, one will owe the whole world, free from all worldly bickering: -

(A) ”If You Can balance/ stable your mind, when they are otherwise around you and at the same time blaming you”.

(b) “If you have belief on yourself, when others have doubt on you and at the sane time you strongly oppose their belief of their doubt”

(c) “If you can wait for Good/ Bad days embark and you do not loose patience/get disheartened of waiting”.

(d) “Everyone is deceiving you and you are not”.

(e) “ Every body hates you and you do not, at the same time, you are not proud to be ‘good’ and ‘wise’.

(f) “ If you Can dream, but do not allow them to overpower you, and you Can ‘think’ but at the same time, do not live into dreams of ‘thinking”.

(g) “If you can welcome ‘gains’ and ‘defeat’ with open hearts and they do not unbalance your mind”.

(h) “If you Can accept your own words in twisted/mutilated/distorted form happily by ‘fools’ and they do not
involve you in their bad plans”.

(i) “ If you can bear, the items made by you ‘raised to ashes, for which you took whole life to build them, and at the same time you can once again order your tired hands to restart making”.

(j) “ If you can take one chance to reduce your gains in your life, ‘loose’ or ‘gain’

(k) “If you can, after loosing every bit in your life, get ready fresh to obtain the same with total energy from all corners of your body and mind, without uttering a word even”.


(l) “ If you Can compel your heart, mind and limbs, when they ARE so tired and refuse to accept any thing, except that your ‘belief’ and ‘desire’ to order them that they have to march forward and not falling back”.

(m) “ If you can roam in crowds, but do not allow your ‘thoughts’ and’abilities’ to wander stray, and you live with emperor, but do not neglect common man “.

(n) “ If you ARE unharmed by people loving you and people hating you”.

(o) “ I you Can respect everybody within the limits, at the same time nobody”.

(p) “ IF YOU REMEMBER THE UNEXQUSED MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE, AND EXPLAIN THE REASON FOR THE SAME”.

Then, the whole world belongs to you only and every thing that exists on this, at the same time you fall under the category of ‘ACTUAL INSAN’, which is greatest achievement in the life than any thing else”.

(OM)


myLot reputation of 98/100. Bebs08 (1045)   ranked 369 out of 10,518 in internet  4 weeks ago

wow!! very good!!! nice of you for sharing this. happyhappy

 
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