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myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships3 months ago

Can these relationship last? Who will handle this kind of relationship, the woman or the man?

 
 
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kun2349 (3000) response was accepted on 6/23/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. Jhordie (894)   ranked 4,800 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

It will depend on how much love they will invest on their relationship. I guess the woman would carry more weight than the man in this situation.


myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

well i guess coz woman is more mature than men hehehe..


myLot reputation of 94/100. Jhordie (894)   ranked 4,800 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

It is hard to admit that... but YES it is true... BUT NOT ALL!!! LOL

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. kaezy_kulet (1301)   ranked 529 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

both can handle the relationship there is no older or younger in terms of handling a relationship..a relationship consists of two people and not only one so they need to handle their relationship fairly for both of them..it is a give and take process..^_^

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3. sweetpeaDi (18)   ranked 8,984 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

Sure thang!!!!!!!!! Dating a younger man is good for your heart don't ya know? I think it was meant to be like that anyway. A woman hits her sexual peak at 30 or so and a man at 18. Why is that do you suppose? I think men generally out live women though so if it's a long term thing... well who thinks long term any more?:)


myLot reputation of 91/100. vipulchawla (730)   ranked 582 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

Hi sweetpeaDi.. You seem to be new to mylot. So first of all.. a warm welcome to mylot family..
Well, I never knew about the sexual facts you just mentioned. I dont know why but i have always been attracted to elder women. And knowing the facts now from your side will help me to justify.. LOL
Anyway,Being a guy, may be i am not allowed to answer this question, but even i have seen couples dating in which the girl is elder to the guy. And i really don't mind having such a relationship. There is obviously no harm in going out with a younger guy or (for me) going out with an elder girl.
And i think both of them can take care of the relationship. Because i personally feel that a relationship is not guided by the age factors.
And ya.. Who thinks of a long-term relationship these days??


myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

well thank you guyz for the response.. & thanks sweetpeadi for the info about the sexual peak hehehe.. & by the way welcome to mylot thumbup


sweetpeaDi (18)   ranked 8,984 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

Thanks for the welcome you guys!!!!

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4. myLot reputation of 72/100. taqinaka (278)   ranked 11,781 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

Hi jinx!It depends really.I think i could last if both of them love each other and learn to accept each others weakness.Man will still be man.He must handle and take charge of the relationship but the woman must help the man as well.Cheers.

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5255)   ranked 401 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

I do not think, it is should be problem to date a younger man, except for the fact that the age difference between the two should not be more than say 3-4 years. I feel, if the woman is elder, she would handle and lead the relationship in this case. Some of the members, who are on my friends' list here have stated that they are in a relationship with a younger guy and they quite enjoy that relationship.
What about you? What are your own views in this matter? Would you prefer to date a younger person than you?


myLot reputation of 90/100. Kaeli72 (977)   ranked 1,583 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

3-4 years...if you limit yourself to something like that, you might be letting one of the greatest loves of your life slip by you because you were too bline to notice or given them a chance.

I know, if I had kept my attitude towards the age difference, I would not have known how to love more tenderly, seek out people and understanding them for all they are and given people more chances than I deserved.


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5255)   ranked 401 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

Perceptions may differ.....I just expressed my own thoughts in my response. Your thoughts also deserve attention and merit. thumbup


myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

well for me i would date a man not more than 1-3 yrs younger than me, but who knows & something will come up that can change my mind hehehe.. thanks for the response^^


myLot reputation of 89/100. dpk262006 (5255)   ranked 401 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

xxjin, You more or less appear to agree with my views. Thanks. Best of luck for your dating adventures....LOL!

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. sid556 (4849)   ranked 898 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

When I was younger, I always went for older guys or guys my own age. I could not even imagine dating someone younger than me. Once I hit 40, I did start dating men up to 10 years younger than me. I am 52 and still date men younger than me. I don't think I could go any younger than that. I did once date a man 20 years younger but it was just too weird for me. He was the same age as my oldest daughter. I went out a couple of times with him and even tho he was very mature, I just didn't feel right about it and so I called it off before it went anywhere. We are still good friends and ironically, he is now seeing a girl about 10 years younger than he is. It all depends on the people involved. I have seen many of these types of relationships last happily for a long long time. My aunt lived happily with a man 15 years younger than her for 40 years until she passed away. He passed 3 months after she did.


myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

ohh sad to hear that.. well yeah i agree with you it depends on the person, but don't get me wrong ok, are you not thinking that the one you've been dating is just like your son/daughter coz he's too young.. don't you feel any insecurities that your son/daughter might think that you're dating with a man with their age? well if you're happy about it, i'm also happy for u!:) thanks for the post


myLot reputation of 89/100. sid556 (4849)   ranked 898 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

You misunderstood me. The one that I dated that was 20 years younger, I only went out with a couple of times and yes...It was too weird for me. Seeing someone 10 years younger does not make me feel that way. I am young at heart and I look much younger. besides, I did not have kids at 10 so no...it does not make me feel as if i'm dating my son. I am currently single. when I do date it tends to be men that are my age or younger....usually younger.

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7. myLot reputation of 64/100. andyel2023 (185)   ranked 8,150 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

yes it's ok to date younger men...there are already lots of stars having boyfriend or husband younger from them..
can these relationship last??
well it depends, if there is this understanding between the two of you,,,if there's a great maturity in the guy..

who will handle..??
well there are cases that women always want that they will be the one to be followed ..and some men are also responsible enough to do that too...maybe you just have to see things exactly they should...if what will be the best for the both of you...

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8. myLot reputation of 70/100. hiccup (4538)   ranked 2,731 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

Age (as long as its legal) has very little to do with a relationship its the two people in that relationship.

But we find others want to stick their noses in and make trouble.

Both are adults, both know what they want.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. Kaeli72 (977)   ranked 1,583 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

I say, "Go for it".

All my life, I've been trained to only think to date a man older than I, but no more than say...a couple years younger. But, in my experiences, the youngest man I've ever dated has been by far, the one I love the most.

He's 12 years younger than I and he's already been grilled about myself, the children I have and my past. He's accepted it, wants to teach the children things and the past doesn't matter to him. Yeah, I know what you're thinking, "Sure, anything to get into her pants." or something along those lines. There's one other aspect about the man I love: we live almost 2,000 miles away from each other. The only way we converse is through email, snail mail and telephone calls. In the past four years we've known each other, we've seen each other once.

But, no matter how golden my life is with him, he gets it from his family. Yeah, he could do better than a woman who's been married before. Yeah, he could want to have children of his own. But, a woman his age...

...he wouldn't trade anything like that for me. All that matters is how we feel about each other.

Sure, he's young, but he's more mature than the men twice his age. He works harder than any man I've ever known (meaning, dated). He's more honest, loving and understanding.


myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

wow he's really mature to that fact that he accept your children, not all men can do that.. thanks for the post:)

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. jerzgirl (1152)   ranked 3,772 out of 17,553 in relationships   3 months ago

Geez, I hope so. My mother was seven years older than my dad when they married in 1948. My aunt is 10 years older than her husband. I am 19 years older than the young man I go around with. Mom was married to Dad 55 years (he has passed). My aunt has been married 19 years this December - Dennis is her second husband. Number one walked out Christmas Eve after 25 years. I've been seeing mine since 2001. It may not be traditional, but it can work.


myLot reputation of 91/100. xxjinx8xx (900)   ranked 333 out of 17,553 in relationships  3 months ago

good for you & i hope your relationship will continue & apply your vows.. "till death do us part" thanks for the post^^

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