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myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother7 months ago

Would you believe that she wasn't going to be?!! Yup, again they were going to delay her coming home once again till I threw one hell of a fit and threw them with thoughts of hearing from my lawyer!! She was suppose to come home on friday but they couldn't find a surgeon to remove her feeding tube so she had to wait till monday all because of her low down dirty rotten doctor left before removing it and we know darn well it's because mom chewed him out. It was his way of paying her back!! As it went, someone else took it out AND he had the gall to "leave for the day" before taking out the last of iv's she had in her arm AND wouldn't get off of his butt and sign the orders that were faxed to him!! Oh man, I was hot to trot!! I went to the nurses station to see what the hold up was and was told that she may have to stay another night and that's when I blew up!! I told her that she had better find someone to take it out because she's going home TODAY!! Then I turned and walked very angrily to mom's room and she was upset and told dad to go up there and see what was going on and all hell broke loose!! I know other patients heard us because we were just too loud and angry but frankly I didn't give a hoot because we had all been through hell at the first hospital and then there on the second floor and other things happened on the third floor and now THIS?? Oh hell no!! Oh hell no!! They had pushed us way too far and boy did they find that out in a hurry!! They were jumping and a hopping all over the place and do you know, they got that iv thingy out of her arm in less than 5 minutes? You bet they did!! They found out in a hurry that they pushed us too far with their antics, bs and lies. No more were we taking any more!! What has happened to the medical profession people?? It sure has gone to the way side in a huge way!! Let me tell you, if ever, God forbid, any of you have to be hospitalized, be sure to hold your ground in what ever it is you're there for. Ask questions no matter how insignificant it is, it's a genuine question if you don't know the answer. Be sure you're not taken advantage of because you will be if you let them. It's awful!! It shouldn't be this way but unfortunetly it is.

 
 
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1. cherylpan (51)   ranked 448 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

well...
i guess that doctor is too selfish...
he just wants the hospital to have more money so he can have a bigger bonus at the end of the year...
i hope your mom is doing ok now...
take care...


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

You're so right about that. He's an unfeeling selfish @ss and he'll soon find out we're not kidding in the law suit because we're going to persue it to see where we stand in it. Hopefully something good will come of it for mom and if not, at least take this jerks license away.

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. sparkofinsanity (1971)   ranked 39 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Oh Cats this is great news. It seems it took a bit of doing, but standing your ground made it happen. Good for you! Haven't I always said, if you want something a little stamping of the feet often helps! LOL
As for the medical profession - it's big business now and going in that direction has made it lose it's humanity in a lot of ways. How sad.


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

It's really hard to believe though because it's not suppose to be this way. It's suppose to be humanity not money money money. I can guarantee you one thing though, they will never forget us!! lol


myLot reputation of 79/100. sparkofinsanity (1971)   ranked 39 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

But even still - the pursuit of the almighty dollar is what makes the world go round they say, and hospitals today sure seem to be proving it.
And as for not forgetting you.........LOL, I'll BET they won't! ROFL Take care of yourself too sweets.

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3. myLot reputation of 69/100. dianel (4600)   ranked 47 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Well Cats finally hay? I hope all goes well. Is your mom eating solid foods yet? Usually they wont let you leave the hospital until you have a BM. I dont know I guess they want to make sure everything is working right. Could that be why they didnt want her to go? Im just guessing, because they did that with my mom.

Diane


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Yeah she's beene eating solid foods for about a week now. It wasn't the bm for she's been doing that all along. It was her lazy no count doctor who left before taking the iv out of her arm AND didn't sign the release papers. He did it out of spite because mom got after him for not taking out the feeding tube last week when he could've and she could've came home on friday. He's a complete jerk and we're going to turn his butt in the first chance we get.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. kebpete (6858)   ranked 78 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Well i am so glad to hear your mom is home,and sorry to hear how bad you al got treated but i know all about that i have been throught that and you cant help but get loud and rude doctors dont care all they careabout is that money,belive me i know how you feel and good for you for letting him have it.


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

We weren't able to get to the doctor himself and he's mightly dang lucky for that because he just might have gotten knocked to the floor! The jackass went home before finishing his job and turned off his phone so no one could reach him nor would he fax anything back. We're going to turn his @ss in the first chance we get and I hope he's punished for his dirty deeds!!


myLot reputation of 95/100. kebpete (6858)   ranked 78 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

good for you.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. Thoroughrob (6347)   ranked 40 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

I am glad that you stood your ground. The doctors seem to do only what they want. You have to double check everything. Good luck with everything!


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Oh doctors can be a complete @ss when they want to be. Just because they have all this college and so on doesn't make them any less human than we are. What ever happened to humanity? and bedside manners? Most has gone to the wayside for the $$$$. How sad!

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10636)   ranked 41 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Oh honey i am so sorry that you had to go through all of that palava after everything else and i am glad that they realised they could in fact remove the drip and so quickly - amazing isn't it? lol Enjoy your time with your Mum while you are staying with her sweetheart! xxx


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Thank you so much mummymo!! I'm glad she's home but gosh she's so weak. Today she was a little sick but I think it was pure exhaustion getting home and overwelming joy of being home, she felt better tonight until she and dad had an arguement but hopefully things will smooth out from here on out. I can only hope. ((((hugs))))


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10636)   ranked 41 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

It must be so hard for you all to readjust and come to terms with what has happened! I do hope that you all settle in quickly! You are fantastic sweety and don't ever forget that! xxx

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7. myLot reputation of 66/100. kcook57 (853)   ranked 66 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Mary Beth, this reminded me of the time I went off when my Momma was in the hospital one time.....they really got on the very last nerve I had left.

I am so glad your Momma has come home and I pray all goes well for her in her recovery time.Will continue to hold her & you up in prayer.

HUGS & BLESSINGS


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Sometimes it takes a blow up to get them to realize that enough is enough and boy they found that out on Monday! Dang them people anyway! Who do they think they are? arg!!
Mom is doing better today than she was yesterday however her side is hurting and she's running a fever. I had to run to the store to get some tylenol and it seems to have brought it down some before she went to bed but still, seems she has an infection somewhere or else she wouldn't have a fever but since she's just moved here, her and dad don't have a regular doctor and she doesn't NOT want to see the one she left behind because he was such an @ss. Hopefully tomorrow we'll find one.
Thanks so much for the prayers!! They're still so needed!! Hugs to you my dear friend!!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (9140)   ranked 53 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

I'm glad you put up a major stink about that...it really would be great if you could sue the jerks for such incompetence and how they managed things there. Too bad you plain couldn't have taken the feeding tube out yourself..If it's the same kind my mother had, it would have been no big deal to just pull it out..the reason I say that?? Well my mother was a real pain...LOL. She had a feeding G-tube in her stomach as well. Until she was able to eat solid foods I had to "feed" her that Ensure stuff through the tube, and even when she could eat a bit through mouth still had to have the tube...well the jerk, my mother had a bad habit of "playing" with the tube...kept yanking at it...I would keep telling her, don't do that you'll pull it out...she would reply I'm not doing anything..sheeshrolleyes
Well my dear mother yanked the tube out, not once, not twice but three times...
Anyway...glad to know you got your way and your mom is home nowthumbup


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

You must be some kind of saint to have had to deal with all she put you through. I'd have had her commited some where some how. There's no way I could've done all that you've done.

Thanks for your kind words about her coming home! Hopefully she's on the up and up. Thanks Pye!

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. gabs8513 (17903)   ranked 48 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Sweetie I am so happy that after long last now she is home and I hope it all stays well
But I am sorry that it caused so much from the Hospital to get her Home that is terrible


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Thanks dear gabs!! I'm so glad she's home too!! Those dirty bags will get theirs in due time. We may never see it but they'll get theirs. I'm a firm believer of what goes around comes around.

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. MsTickle (6477)   ranked 72 out of 1,008 in my mother   7 months ago

Congrats to you all. I hope things are plain sailing from here n in. I can't help but feel that your Mom will improve steadily now she is home. Loving hugs to you sweety.


myLot reputation of 94/100. CatsandDogs (3570)   ranked 5 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Hi MsTickle and many thanks to you!! She is improving a lot in the past week but she has this persistant pain in her side that's moved to the middle of her stomach. We thought it might be a kidney stone but now we think it may be gas so hopefully she'll take my advice and try some medication for it. I'm at home right now for a much needed break and was returning and found my cat in the yard injured so I got stuck at home for a few days more however, I'm going to pick up my baby boy today and take him with me to my parents so I can care for them both together. I hope this darn black cloud that keeps hovering over me goes away and soon!


myLot reputation of 90/100. MsTickle (6477)   ranked 72 out of 1,008 in my mother  7 months ago

Yes, I read about your kitty, Bobo, isn't it and I was appalled. I hope he's doing ok...your Mom too of course. And I also hope you are taking care of yourself even if it just means sitting somewhere peacefully for half an hour a day. Brightest blessings dear friend..love and light.

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