love story?

i want to share my own love story.. well, what happened to me and my hubby was really a destiny i think...we both went to the same college though i was two years ahead of him at that time and he works as a Student Assistant in the university so he could get a scholarship.

I was an active student officer in our college department. there was a time when our own S.A. was replaced because of failing grades. Me and my friend got really sad about it and condemned the action of our chairman for doing that to him because me and my friend were really attached to the guy and we know what he's been going through..

so we made a pact not to talk and befriend the new guy who will come as replacement. then one day while i was busy doing some work in the department, i saw the new guy passing by our office. I didn't actually saw his face, just a silhouette of his stature because he's tall and very masculine... then i felt my heart throbbing so fast and all seemed to stopped momentarily.. i didn't know what it is and why it was happening to me...

I went to check on him at the office and saw my FRIEND talking to him.. I was shocked because we made an agreement and it didnt happened.. I had no choice but to talk to the new guy also..then i learned we lived in the same village and i knew his school where he studied in high school and learned that he even became an altar boy in our parish when he's 10. But i couldn't remember him of course...

because of so many familiarities etc...i thought why not befriend him, he seemed to be a nice person too..

so there started the trio friendship. me, my friend and him became best of friends in college..an ironic situation..

one day, he gave me a small piece of paper with a shimmering portion in the middle, which he made personally. i didn't know what was it for..he just told me to look at the hidden statement on it when i got home...so i did what he told me, placed the paper under the lamp and i saw I LOVE YOU as the hidden message.. there started the beautiful relationship which also bloomed to marriage..

right now we got 2 wonderful kids a boy and a girl.

now i understand why i felt the weird feeling the first time i saw my hubby...it was because he's my DESTINY....

I don't have a love life currently so I'm going to tell my last love story. hehehe..

We met few years ago (probably 4 years ago). He courted me for a while and we've begun dating as lovers for like weeks then he left the country because he works abroad.

So we had a long distance relationship for like months (3 months I guess) then we break up. It was my decision to. He pursued me for how many months, he continued calling. Until I found out he had a younger girlfriend.

For how many moths he didn't call. Until such time we sort of forget about it and one day we met online. Means we're both online at Yahoo Messenger and then we chat for a while. He thought I was mad about him having a new girlfriend all of a sudden after his calls.

Anyway, we became friends and sometimes we talk on the phone but we never talk about 'us' then. After few months, he came back in my country. We met and that's the time we talked about 'us'.. I wasn't sure about my feelings but I like him and I WANT HIM TO JUST STAY WITH ME though I can't commit as of the moment. So there was no official 'us'.

Afetr few weeks of his stay in my country, he left again for work. While he was away, he still continue calling and I found out he broke up with his younger girlfriend we he came back there from my country. PROBABLY because he promise me he'll settle it because he wants ME.

Our communication still continues until one more year had passed, he came back in my country. Before he came he called that he'll be here and we will meet. I waited and waited but there was no him.

No calls, just one text message. He texted me a Happy New Year and that's it. I was happy and excited because finally he was here and he texted but when I replied, I never got any more messages from him.

I visited his Friendster and MySpace accounts, there he was -- posting on a picture, kissing someone. few weeks after, they posted their ring of marriage. I thought they were just in love and would like to marry one day. But few days after, they posted their wedding picture. Ouch. hehehe..

It was a year ago now. And we just talk on the phone last night after a year of no 'hi' or 'hello' from him.. It was strange at first but we kind of build a friendship in an instant because we've known for like so many years now and we some kind of known each other on how to make jokes or how to make an awkward situation pass.

He said he'll be coming back in the country in few months time and he'll call me by then for sure. And he'll explain why he got married at an early age. He said there was no pregnancy so I was curious as well why he did tie the knot. hehehe..

Well, I feel happy for him. No matter what, he became my friend.

We weren't really meant for each other.:)

Wow.. this is a very long post huh. hahaha..