I have a love problem

awww
Love is confusing..

I think You both don't ask each other out becuz your afraid it's just going to happen all over again. You Believe the reason of is constant disappearing is the fact that you can't kiss him. Well you'll never know till you kiss him.
-{tell him how you feel}
-{If both of you love each other truly then you should not have no worries..}

I think you neeed to gather your courage and have a talk with him. You will feel bad if he moves on and you never told him how you felt. If you want a relationship with this guy I think you need to let him know and stop playing around.

First and foremost, I would like to ask you, what do you guys do when you are together and both are awkward?

It seems that there's too much shyness going on to the point that both can't really communicate well.

You know what, I had a similar situation with you a few years back. Though it was in a different scenario than yours but I guess it's quite the same.

We met online a few years back and decided to be friends. We agreed that there wouldn't be any courtship and it was supposedly pure friendship. The friendship lasted quite a while, but I was starting to fall for my friend. We talked all the time then, but feelings started to bloom. Fearing this, we started to feel awkward and avoided topics related to feelings and what ifs. Eventually, we didn't talk that much, but in my heart, I really loved the guy and was in pain every time we were with our online friends joking around.

To make the long story short. He also disappeared like your guy and would come back after a while, we'd resume the 'secret feelings' and then he'd disappear again. I'd hear from our friends that he's got someone else, then he'd return again.

A few years down the road, we went our separate ways, he's got someone else, I have someone else too. But one day I decided to close our past because the memories and questions still haunted me. One time, we talked from the heart and we discovered our faults:

1. He did love me and fell for me at the exact moment I fell for him.

2. He loved me but was too afraid to say it because he was afraid that I'd reject him.

3. We both assumed that each wasn't interested when in fact both were but were too afraid to say anything about it.

Yes, the love was true, but it was all too late.

I'm not regretting letting go of that mutual feeling because I have decided that anyone who is strong enough to leave or disappear on me, could leave me anytime and hurt me. and if he did really love me so much, he should have gained the courage to say it out loud and not keep it to himself and assume that I'd know.

So, my advice to you is this. Don't think too much. Yes, you may love the person, but don't build your world around him. Try to see beyond the feelings because he might not be ready for you or isn't that serious. Furthermore, stop worrying about moments to be perfect. The most memorable times are the imperfect times spent together.

Worrying is like sitting on a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but gets you nowhere.

Good luck and stay happy.

First u should whether u really love him or its just possessiveness.also do u have any sexual feeling towards him or do u feel u just love him.
the litmus test for any relationship is whether you respect his opinions or his actions whole heartedly.if u both respect each other opinions.ideas,thinking then u can expect to go further with this relation.

hi friend, you really love that person?