Was anyone else set up by this movie?

There was an absolute conspiracy among the women with this movie! I thought I was coming over to watch the usual chick-flick, no big deal, I'll just watch her while she balls a little and say, "It's okay baby, its just a movie. I'll hold you." Wrong! What I didn't know was that she had already seen it. She had already cried her tears, she was out for my tears!
I love to watch movies and I get into the plot, its the only way to enjoy the movie. This movie I found particularly enthralling. I just didn't see it coming. With a title like "The Notebook." I never even heard about it when it hit the theaters, that is how covert this operation really was!
To make a long story short, I balled uncontrollably for like an hour! I couldn't control it, it was like an emotional nuke! This movie has been banned from movie night indefinitely! I found out later that this was an entire operation, I was "Notebooked" and there wasn't a damn thing I could do about it!