Finding out a Spouse/ Significant other is Bisexual

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I'm not really sure I understand the problem. Just because someone is bi-sexual doesnt mean they will be unfaithful. Contrary to what society believes, bi-sexuals are just(if not more so) as likely to remain faithful as straight people.
As for the second question, I think part of it has more to do with how much more intimate girls are towards each other and how we are more accepting of each others differences. I think women are more accepting and guys have all kinds of fantasies about being involved with two bi-sexual girls makes it more acceptable all around.
I believe another part of this has to do with girls spending more time on their apperance and being more willing to look sexy and being able to notice when a girl looks sexy. I've never heard a guy say how sexy another uy is but I hear(myself included) girls talk about how sexy and attractive other girls are all of the time.
Anyway, that the opinion of this bi-sexual girl.

Hugs, Tianna

Finding out if your partner is bisexual can be a big thing. It can cause problems if you are straight. But if people accept bisexuals there may not be a problem.

I think that society accepts females as bisexuals because society has been exposed to it more than the men.

I personally may not be able to accept actually physically seeing my partner being bisexual. If I have the knowledge only that he is, I probably could accept it. As long as his love does not change for me and if he keeps the other side behind closed doors away from me. I don't know, seeing two guys together just isn't a turn on for me. Two females different story

But really I can't say for sure because I have never been in that situation.

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I don't know what I would do to tell you the truth. hmmmm, good question...I guess if I had a long standing relationship, and he carried no diseases, and wasn't with the other guy, I could deal...

as far as girls being accepted as being bisexual, or MORE accepted, I think that depends on who you ask. Not sure on that one either.

I don't care what your predilections are, is the person faithful? That is my requirement. If you have had experiences in the past, that is just that you past. Are you currently acting on these desires? I want nothing to do with them.

Mostly because society considers women to be more beautiful than men*crinkles my nose* so two women together is okay 'cause it's twice the pretty-ness, apparently. But guys, in many ways are held by society's viewpoints of them, which tends to be very restrictive.

Women fought for the right to be themselves so they're used to ignoring what society says (despite many who don't) -- but men, since they never had to do that, they don't know how to quite change society's views of them.

So maybe it'll change by itself someday, I dunno.

Anyway, being bi myself, I wouldn't really have a problem with finding out the person I'm with was bi...even if we'd been together for awhile, I'd deal since they were probably afraid to say, it happens.

I'm actually more thrilled to find bi guys than bi girls.
But that's more of a thing concerning my..uh..being enamored with people who go against the fray and are unique.

if I found out my partner is bisexual at first I will be shock! maybe get mad too because he wasnt honest about it, If i truly love the guy and he takes care of me very well maybe the relationship will pursue. It really depends on the situation.