im not ashamed to be ugly!!

That's mean. Why would he say things like that to a woman he is supposed to love?
I'd tell him "Then why did you marry ME?"

Don't listen to him. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and if that is you in your avatar pic then you are very pretty.

and there is really nothing to be ashamed off..your husbands ex's maybe prettier or sexier or better than you but who is the winner? who got your husbands heart you right? so just don't mind what you're husband is saying to you..just don't feel envious you are pretty in your own..if your husband do not see it then he can't appreciate you.

Oh my!! that's really hurting. Is he serious of saying that to you? or he is just joking? but even then, he should not do that. Well, some people do not think before they say a word. They don't realize that they are already hurting others, much more if it a member of our family who will do that.
I just admire you because you can tolerate that kind of treatment to you. Anyway, even if we are ugly outside but beautiful inside that matters so much.

have a good day.

We need to learn to love ourselves enough to realize that there really is no limit to how BEAUTIFUL we can be. There is NO SUCH THING as ugly. Beauty will always be not just in the eye of the beholder but in our own eyes as well, after all, the eyes are the mirror of our souls. I hate to say it like this but your husband is very disrespectful that is not love and that is inappropriate and very unnecessary.

oh my dear sophie,..
Good luck with a husband that look people only with the appearance. Human should never judge what God made even the ugliest one like me, They never ever will make a copy "just like me", dancing, singing, moving, type at mylot, think like me. I have bad experience at my chilhood, So i really don't like people judge appearance and face. Faces just face, at times goes all face will have wrinkle and some spot, it's also follow body when we burried when we died. I think only stupid un-educated people that judge by appearance. You be strong girl!

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if thats a picture of you, your certainly not ugly. my partner would have a good comment, and not very polite, he'd make a sexual reference.
my partner can been a real pain inthe butt, and it makes you wonder why your with them. i call him spolit rotten cause i do a fair bit for him. even his parents say he's spolit rotten. his bro gets pee'd off with him. and sometimes you just injore him compelty when he's in a bad mood.
keep your chin up, and you know what to do if he doesn't want to change his attiude toward you.

thats not fair. if he has you now for his partner then he just have to deal with it. saying that to you means that he does not have respect for you. i wont keep up with a guy like that. if they are prettier and better why did he get out of the relation with those previous partners? maybe because he is really mean.

from what i can see i dont think you are ugly!! and i think that is horrible how he is treating you but if you havent noticed in the movies and on tv a lot of the stars that are on tv arent the beautiful people that they used to obsessively show all the time.. it seems like the more unique the look (whether that be pretty or just odd/ugly looking) have had a good career.. and a lot of plain looking people are stars of tv shows.. so it seems like what used to be the typical "ugly" is starting to turn popular.. i love greys anatomy but i dont think merideth is pretty.. the characters on the office arent attractive to me.. so if you think you are ugly (which you are not) just think about how hollywood is starting to think that that look is in.. perfect is over used so much that they seem to just want something DIFFERENT!!!

if he keeps saying that, why did he marry you?

usually when people fall in love and marry each other, they think they each are attractive no matter what they really look like because they developed a bond and chemistry together that fits and complements one another...