does it mean he doesnt love me anymore?

Even if he is busy, cant he just visit me even once in a week, like in saturdays or sundays where he has no work?

Well, he does text when he comes home usually late at night because he often drinks with his friends, like saying "i am at home already then good night, love you." It seemed that I dont feel the meaning anymore.

hehhehe.. i'll tell him about your feelings...hehehe.. just kidding!

He must be really busy. So i'd suggest you stop panicking! Just observe things first. If you need a friend, just give me a call at home..heheh..:)

Before I asked him if he does loves me, he answered yes. Sometimes I just felt like he doesnt anymore. Why wouldnt he visits me say for one time in a week? I told him after my graduation that he should visit me once in a while but he never did. We just see each other if I go to the city. Do I have to tell him to visit me? I guess not.

I dont know. Sometimes a woman needs some comfort or assurance that a man still loves him. And may be that is what I need right now.

Cant he not visit even once in a week? Is he really that busy?

Well, all I can do for now is wait. But I am afraid that I am starting to get used to it and somehow, we will end up being apart from each other soon.

that's my point, too. could be that he's buzy working and that you need your time to review, too. but atleast, don't stop sending each other text messages or give each other short phone calls. that won't hurt, right?

Right...even if you don't see each other very often, both of you should find time to at least say "Hi!" or "How are you?" through text or call.

Well, he just texts when he got home, like "I am home" then "I am sleepy, good night, love you."

That's it.

Before that, I dont hear anything from him.

I already told him after my graduation to visit me at home once in a while even once or twice a week. We just see each other when I go to the city but other than that, he would not dare to visit me even once in a week. Would he be still very busy in a saturday or sunday where he got no work?

Does he have the reason not to visit you on Saturday or Sunday? Sort of things that makes him lazy to go to your home...like the distance...

Well our home is like 15 minutes if you have a car. In his case, he has a motorcycle. Its not really that far. And I dont think he would be busy at their home for he is alone. And let's just say his some things to do at his home, would he not finish it early and go to our house or may be he could just have dinner in our house so he would not bother to cook for himself.

I dont know really what to think anymore.

What I am planning to do is ask a sign from God on whether or not to continue with this relationship.

You can't be sure if that sign really tells you the right thing to do... perhaps, you should try to discuss it with your bf...tell him what you have been thinking... try to commnunicate... maybe he has a valid reason...

Well, I have been understanding for so long in that matter. I think my patience had gone through.

Would he still be busy in saturdays or sundays where he doesnt have work?

I am just asking for a visit even once in a week, am I that greedy?

Well I have been open to him eversince. After my graduation, I told him to visit me even once in a week. When I feel like he doesnt care, I ask him. He answers yes he still do cares.
He texts when he arrived home which is usually late because he has drinking session with friends. Then after texting "I am home" he followed it up with, "I am sleepy, good night, love you." That's all.

Is that enough to make me think that he still loves me?

Am I too greedy to ask for a visit even once in a week? Is he busy even in saturdays or sundays where he has no work?

Well my heart tells me that he does but something is telling me the other way around.

I think I am already confused, unlike before when I am pretty sure of it.

I dont know what to think anymore.

He knows that I dont go often that much to the city. He knows before hand about that.

And I am not requiring him to visit me everyday. Am I too greedy to ask even for once in a week say for instance saturday or sunday when he has no work?

Thanks a lot for the advise meleshia!

I dont know, as a woman I prefer not to talk to avoid a situation where I am the one who seemed to make the command. I believe as a man he must have the initiative. Yes, it is true that it takes two to tango. But in a relationship, I believe that it should be the man who should lead the way.

I dont know yet. Actually he is at our home now. I went to the city earlier. I made mention that I dont like him anymore. Well, it seemed that he is sad. But I am not the kind of girl who talks orally about how I feel. I find it hard to express orally.

I dont know.