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myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships7 months ago

I met someone who said that he was unhappy in his relationship... He loved his wife but it was hard as they fought so much that he was wondering if he really loved her...

I heard his story and wrote this song:

I don't know how to tell you I love you.
I am not sure that I do.


We argue and fight almost every night.
Gone is the fire. Gone is the desire.
We are like ships passing by
on a darkened sea, far from delight.

I don't know how to tell you I love you.
I am not sure that I do.

I can't stop loving you,
no matter how hard I try
The love remains strong,
even when the passion dies.

I don't know how to tell you I love you.
I am not sure that I do.

We talk about leaving each other
but we can never stay away.
So we hang on
for just another day,
so we hang on
for just another day.


Have you ever been in a relationship like this? Did you make it better or leave it? If you stayed and made it better, how did you do it? If you are still in the midst of this kind of relationship, what do you think that you can do to make it better?

 
 
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latriciajones (676) response was accepted on 7/5/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 81/100. latriciajones (676)   ranked 5,499 out of 19,412 in relationships   7 months ago

well i was in a situation like that previously with my current boyfriend. about 6 months ago i found out that he had cheated on me, he did stop seeing the girl after he realized that he wanted to be with his family. i asked him why and he said because he was unhappy and the thing is i didnt know it cause he never told me. after being seperated for almost 6 months and him popping up at my apartment begging me. i decided that maybe i should give him another try. we have been together 8 years and have two kids. but i think that if he would have come to me before hand we could have talked and figured out a plan, but he didnt. so i would tell the guy to try and talk to his wife and see if they can work things out. if it seems like no one wants to then just call it quits before either of them does anything that may hurt the other person even worse. and as for me we have been doing wonderful, we laugh more and we don even argue, i mean we do have our disagreements but thats it, we move on from those so they wont cause a huge argument.and honestly i am happier with him now more then i have ever been.


myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

Congratulations on your successful relationship. Thanks for sharing about it. I am glad that all has worked out for you. Thanks for your recommendation. I will pass it on to him or to others that I meet.

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. Hatley (13667)   ranked 2,774 out of 19,412 in relationships   7 months ago

whiteheron that is a beautiful poem, very lyric. I was really'
blessed in my marriage. we loved each other and also were'
best friends. oh we had our fights but we did it fairly'and we never went to bed angry. Our marriage lasted for thirty
four years, and my husband died of a second heart attack on our thirty fourth anniversary. so no it was not a verydifficult
relationship at all.


myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

I congratulate you on the fact that you had a great marriage...
I am sorry about the death of your husband.
Hugs to you. Thanks for posting.

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3. myLot reputation of 68/100. subha12 (14586)   ranked 1,417 out of 19,412 in relationships   7 months ago

i can say you have written a nice song. may be its true about the hidden feelings. i have seen some relationship which was having some problem due to caste and all.but later they were close.


myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

That caste conflict sounds like what classical Indian movies are about... I have watched them and wondered at how many ways the couples could die, break up, sacrifice their happiness, etc.
I am glad that there are cases where it winds up becoming a happy relationship.

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4. myLot reputation of 73/100. hiccup (5286)   ranked 2,812 out of 19,412 in relationships   7 months ago

I’m try something here to save me some time and not to be rude,

I have a number of E-mails backed up that I need to get thru before the end of the month.

So I send this to you to say I got your discussion and I hope to get back to it to make comment to it.

In this way I hope to keep your discussion alive...


myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

Thanks for keeping this one alive... I might though later ask you to please give another discussion the breath of life ...
I once again have some ones without any responses.
Let me know if you do... and I will go to them... and respond.


myLot reputation of 73/100. hiccup (5286)   ranked 2,812 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

Seems to me a case of you are doomed if you do and doomed if you dont.

I'm just out of my second marriage, that hurts when all you work for is the one at home and your children.

but what you get is lies, for what reason i do not know.
I was always open to what I was doing and if she did not like it I would adjust, thats how I thought it was to be done.
But to me now after two I feel there one rule for me and a different set of rules for her (the wife).

Well I do hope to see some sun shine I have not had much in the last few years, been kept in the dark.
HICCUP/


myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

I have hope that you will get finally the sun of knowledge and happiness that you are looking for...
I am hoping that you will start off the relationship with the vision of what you want rather than the fear of what you do not want in your mind,as I have learned that one creates what one visualizes, wants and lets go or is afraid of. Good like to you and many blessings.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (13105)   ranked 2,694 out of 19,412 in relationships   7 months ago

All I everdid was tell him I loved him every day only thing you can do if you really love some one but really dont know it


myLot reputation of 94/100. whiteheron (1014)   ranked 1,292 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

You said it long enough to convince him and yourself that you did love him.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (13105)   ranked 2,694 out of 19,412 in relationships  7 months ago

more or less for my self for I didnt trust for along time after the 1st one

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