Would you dare to get romantically involved w/ somebody who is already involved?

I don't believe in that. I hate seeing men and women going on with another man or woman outside of their own marriage or relationship. Relationships are sanctified, and one should not cheat on another for they are only cheating themselves. I am sure I will get a lot of ridicule for this belief, but love is a very powerful thing and should not be taken for granted. Have a Great day.

I would never play second fiddle in someones life
- that is, be their second choice. That just does
not suit me. I wouldn't do that to someone else
so why should I have to live that way. When your
soul mate comes along you will know because they
will make you feel like you are the most important
thing in the world and that is exactly what you
deserve.

I think that it is just as much fault of the person
getting involved in a 'three-way' relationship as
it is the person actually taking on the 'extra person'.
When this sort of thing happens it shows a lack
of respect for self.

Morally no one should ever get into this situation.

Emotionally, cheating is abusive not only to
yourself but the other people involved.

I would not degrade myself, I have a much higher
respect for myself.

I could not carry on a friendship with someone in
this sort of relationship either.

Hrmm, sorry to sound harsh, I guess I feel strongly
about this subject!

How about those in a really lonely relationship? What about those people stuck in an unhappy boring relationship that has no way out? I got into a relationship with someone who had a gf because he was not happy, he didn't love the girl anymore and has no way out. I took the risk, waited for 3 months until he broke it off with her finally, and then he is currently my bf for 2 years now. Yes, it is cheating. I do not deny it. But it is also saving the one that i love from utter unhappiness and despair. And i do not regret doing so.(^^,)

I wouldnt do it and i wouldnt want anybody to do it to me. I have been hurt before and now im recently married,it would not be worth the pain and heartache of going through it all. For me,four people not just one would be hurt. what ever happened to being moral and monogamous?

I think it is just plain wrong to get involved with someone if you are already devoted to another,you should never cheat on your partner,because all it does is hurt them,and hurt yourself whether you realize or admit it.

There is no way any person should ever think about getting involved with another person outside of their current relationship. Before one starts any type of relationship with a new partner, one must first finish the old relationshp first. If not then there is a whole load of unhealed feelings and issues that will need to be dealt with.

Think about this if you even thought of having the affair then why is that? What was wrong and broken in the first relationship in the first place to make you want to stray? Confront those problems first and allow yourself time to heal from the wounds of the hurt before moving on to the next reltionship.

Now if you happen to be the one on the other side of the fence and a person who is already in a relatioship is making moves on you. Back up and first think how you would feel if this happened to you and honor the other innocent persons feelings. Also, you might ask yourself this all to important question, if they are willing to cheat with me while they are already in a relationship, will they do it to me also.

Because the answer is always going to be yes, no matter what excuse they have given for getting involved with you while already in a relationship. The biggest excuse is "I feel trapped and do not know how to get out". That is just a big load of bull and an easy way to dismiss the guilt and responsibilty of being faithful to one partner.

I dont think i would. It's risky.