Woman who wants my husband...

Thank you! That's a very good point you make. I never thought of that. What bothers me is that she might be stalking him and me. Maybe that's why she says she knows what I look like and what doctor I'm going to. My husband's commander is very supportive of him and knows that he wouldn't do such a thing, but I don't want to make trouble for him.

If you think that she may be stalking you, you can talk to JAG (well talk to your hubby first and see what he wants to do of course) and find out what they can do for you. Remember, if you have an incident you should report it to them just in case something happens with this woman you have it on file. If you live off base and you think she is following you there, you need to call the local police. My ex husband was in the Army and worked with JAG for a few years. I know all the bad things that can come out of a situation like this.

There are so many military wives on here! I guess I shouldn't be surprised. Thanks for the information. Marines don't have a thing called JAG. But, we have already settled everything. I don't hear about her and he's being coming home early.

Though I thank you for your response, I don't think it's a good idea. If I every discovered that her intention was to be intimate with my husband, then I would be in jail shortly thereafter. I have spoke with my hubby about this and he say that he will try to be more busy and speak with her less. He tells me not to worry, and that he loves me too much to mess up our marriage. I told him that I would leave if he did have feelings for her. The fact that she is telling him that she has seen me bothers me. I have no idea what she looks like and have never met her.

My hubbys also says that he will tell her that he thinks it is best that they only talk about work and that he thinks it would be a bad idea for him to set us up as friends. I'm grown and can find friends on my own.

Thank you! I'm so happy that someone has told me that I'm not crazy and that you understand me. I do call him and text him throughout the day, but she's not getting the picture. He keeps his wallet in his locker so that wouldn't work. If she does get more aggressive then I would definitely have to approach her and tell her to back off. Thank you for your response and opinion.

You are more than welcome.
You have every right to be
upset over this other woman.

Your instinct and heart tells you
that she is encroaching on your man.

Please don't let anyone tell
you that jealousy is not normal.

It's perfectly normal.

If you didn't really love him then
you could be nonchalant about the
situation and let him slip away.

Your intense emotions prove that
your heart is invested in your
relationship!

Best of luck
Your friend
BeautyQueen

Yes, I have broken the heart of someone special in order to be with my husband because I believe that he is my true love. Though I want to believe my hubby, we all know that men can lie. Now, with that being said. I love my father dearly and I know that when he was alive he made plenty of miskes. I forgave my father without a moment's notice. My father met my hubby before he passed away. It was then that my father told me that if I left my hubby it would be like my mom leaving him. This story is long, but basically my dad was telling me that I would be stupid, crazy, and needed serious help if I was to leave my hubby.

So, God be with me, because if that women steps any closer into the doorway of our marriage, I will make her wish she would have stay home.

I never thought about if he's telling me about then he must feel sorry for her. I don't want to sound mean or anything, but I'm not comfortable with it. Being the person I am, I would never ask a married man at my job if his wife and I can be friends when I have never met her. My hubby is known to be a very nice guy but some things are just not done.

Thank you for the best response!

You sound very insecure. Your husband is not the bad guy here, he's been quite open with you. I don't think this woman is the bad guy either. I think she's lonely and fragile and sincerely trying to make friends with the spouse of her co-worker. She hasn't done anything sleazy, she's being open with your hubby. You're the one with all the doubts and over dramatising the situation. That could become very unattractive to your man after a while, especially if you continue to carry on the way you are. Your hubby sounds like a really great guy. Don't push him away.

I agree. Trusting my husband is the best thing to do right now. I would never approve him to go out with her, even if it was with me. She just seems like her main purpose is to be closer to my husband.

I didn't think of it that way. This isn't the first time that we've been tested. The other time I knew the girl was lying because she didn't know anything about him or us. I found out that her hubby was very abusive and mean to her so the military forced them to divorce.

I feel bad for her, but my hubby doesn't want me to be upset. He has stopped talking to her unless it's business. He's been very busy and hasn't been in the shop much so things are working out.

Okay, let's point this out. You are not at all crazy, I just think we got mixed up somewhere. Yes, I'm a military wife in a small military town, but you just don't see a person and say, "hey that's Corporal's wife". The town is very small in the means that there is nothing to do here. But, Camp Lejeune is a very big base and you just don't run into people and assume who they are with actually having a first meet. She and I have never met, or seen each other from across the room.

This brings me to the point of how does she know what Doctor I go to and even if she did, how would she know it was me when there are tons of women there daily and the nurse never calls my name because she knows me so well. She just waves for me to come through. Also, if my husbad tells her that he really doesn't go out untill it is with his wife and this women is trying to go out with him, then she must get in good with me....the wife.

I should keep her close enough that if she does decided to take a move on my hubby then I will be close enough to stab her in her heart.