How long you can get over the feeling of hate?

Yes it is hard to get over a hurt, I think that is the same for most people, you start losing faith in people when you get a big hurt but when you do let go a bit and stop the hating you set yourself free...

Its really hard to forget when someone breaks your trust or when someone very close to you hurts you badly. The initial feeling is not of hateness, it is of shock that how come this person, who was so very close to me, did this to me? And when the situation starts to seep in then its a mix of emotions that I feel.
I feel hateness for that person and regret my decision of giving him/her so much importance in my life. But overtime we tend to forget all this. Sometimes we do cherish the beautiful moments spent with this person but even those memories end on a sour note.

Sad to say, we all encounter such emotion at some point in our lives. It may really well depend on what made us feel that way in the first place. It could be something simple, but it could also be very serious and emotionally disturbing.

But then, acceptance is the first step. However, hard it was on you, you owe it to yourself to just forgive and move on. We only have one shot at life and it isn't that long. We will tend to miss out on a lot if we keep hate inside of us. It will always be hard to forget but forgiving someone will make you set aside that feeling and you can safely say, you've moved on and you still have more to go through in life. Take care.

It costs one's patience to forget the feeling of hate, especially that hurts you deeply. When you depart with your boy friend who you get along with 6 whole years, the feeling of hate will come around you for years.The best way to forget it maybe is to start a new interest to transfer your attention.

It depends on how badly the person hurted me. The badly the hurt, the longer the time to heal. That was before I've accepted and known Jesus Christ.

There was once that I hated a person so much.It came to a point that I hurted his daughter just because of that hatred. I then realized that I what I did was wrong. A week after that, I got a high fever. I asked God for forgiveness and told myself that I will never ever do that again. To avoid that situation I tried not to get deeply hurt by that person.

i will always remind myself to stay away from the person that hurts me deeply.

oh... hate or anger are synonymous.... it took me 1 year to really get over my hate. Slowly but surely, and when it was over it was really over . It takes time you'll never know when and where just pray and ask God for blessing or help to help u be at peace. Because at times because of hate we tend to do stupid things.... it doesn't help to make it go away.

Its very heart paining when we get hurt by words of some others.It depends on the type of issue really to measure the extent of pain we feel.If we feel emotional at that time,we get burst heavily.If I am in that situation I will be the one who raises up the tempo as i get hurt by the others and after some time I will be the one who cools up the situation.It happens all the time these days because of the fast and busy lifestyle.

Hate is a very strong word. I have had some horrible things happen to me but I have never "hated" the person who has done it to me. Of course I was very upset and hurt and offended, but I cant say I hated them. I usually find that when you have sour feelings for someone, you usually end up hurting yourself more. But as far as saying how long it takes to get over the pain, I cant say. It depends on what is done to you, the type of person you are, etc. It all takes time though. Time heals. As far as how much, who knows...

yes i agree. it is really difficult to get over when you hate someone. as for my experience it took me 2 years before i recover from hatred. it is really hard to forget what happened especially when it comes to relationships.

it depends on why i hate them or hated them. i have said that i hated my boyfriend plenty of times but only becuase he said something that really hurt my feelings or if he did something that caused us to break up. but later i feel bad becuase i really dont mean to say that i hate him i am just so hurt and mad that i feel like i should say something to hurt him.