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 i had just had my first time with my boyfriend
it hurt a lot...
i feel eveything has changed and i am not sure whether it is good or not.
maybe it is because i am a little too young...i will not become 20 until next month.
it is really an extremely important thing for me and to some extent, i am at a loss. i am happy it was him who did it. however, it still made me sad whenever i thought i had lost my virginity forever and there is no coming back
would you please help me and share some of your experience with me ...
please.......................
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1.  cream97 (4714) | 4 months ago |  Hi! And welcome to myLot! someqian! Yes the first time will hurt a lot, and it will hurt less, depending on how many kids that you will ever have.. Well at least you have done it with someone that you really love.. I lost my virginity to a guy whom was much younger than me. He was wild in sex and he was too frisky.. I regretted ever having sex with him.. I wished that it was my husband.. He was a virgin when I met him..
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| someqian (1) | 4 months ago | thank you for the response~
actually, we tried a few times before and i stopped him everytime because i was frightened...
this time, we did it as soon as we waked up and he moved very tenderly. So,it seemed more like a dream. i cried for a long time and he waited patiently.
i really love him and i hope i will marry him someday... | |
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| cream97 (4714) | 4 months ago | It sounds like he was really sincere! He was taking his time with you.. I think that this is very special.. I wished that the dork I had, would have done the same thing.. That was the way, that I would have wanted it to be! I regret till this day giving him that treasure, it should have been left for someone whom would have appreciated it, and that would be my husband.. | |
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2.  Johar_ahmad (254) | 4 months ago |  i'm sorry, i really don't have any experince. i'm still a virgine. No s** for me till i've get married. Thats will be a great moment in my life.
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| someqian (1) | 4 months ago | now i only hope that i will marry him in the future... | |
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3.  Margajoe (586) | 4 months ago |  Hi!
No you are not to young.
And it is normal that the first time hurts.
Sometimes you will bleed a little too.
All normal.
Losing your virginity is not the end of the world.
It is the beginning.
Enjoy Life, and make sure you use protection!
Take care, Margajoe
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| someqian (1) | 4 months ago | thank you~~
it seemed bleed a lot and since everything was an impulsive act, we did not use protection...
oh my god... will i get pregnant... | |
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| Margajoe (586) | 4 months ago | Hi!
I sure hope not!
But, it is possible.
Please, go see a doctor and get some advice
on birth control.
Don't be ashamed, sx is a natural thing that people make seem ugly.
But it is life.
If it was not normal, how did you get born, how did I get born? Because it was not aloud?
Please, it is natural.
And especially with a doctor, you can talk about everything.
Take care, Margajoe | |
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| 4. barbie84 (2142) | 4 months ago |  i dont think that it is any big deal and the experience of making love does get a lot better as you get more experienced, it is something you will always remember and be special to you though
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| 5. sugerbaby80808 (53) | 3 months ago |  I lost mine to a complete idoit, but i dont regret it at all, it wasnt the right thing to do i know but it was what i thought was right at the time, if you truely love your boyfriend,then you havent really lost anything at all, but rather gained a closer bond to him. My first time hurt a little as well, but i think that goes for every woman on the earth, I think that you shouldnt worry about it too much if you have a good relationship. age doesnt really play a role in life once you hit 18. then everything you do is done as an adult. so dont fret about it.
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6.  jinxky (1099) | 3 months ago |  i'm still a virgin so i didn't know what to say. anywayz, back to your topic, it's your decision & you should not regret it, i know you're happy after all.. for me i haven't found the right person for sharing IT, what i mean is i'll just give IT at the night of our wedding. honestly, i feel the urge of doing it before coz it's quite normal, we're just a human, but still i refused them. coz i know that's wrong.. don't worry about losing your virginity, in fact you just lose it, but still you're complete, what i mean is, you're still you, so cheer up:)
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| kun2349 (3570) | 3 months ago |  Yeah, my dear is still a virgin and i'm proud of that^_^ hehe=D muahhh muahhh muahhh
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| jinxky (1099) | 3 months ago | sshhh... hehehe.. | |
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| kun2349 (3570) | 3 months ago | oops^_^ muahhh muahhh mauhhhh | |
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| 7. fredericktcw (23) | 3 months ago | i dunno wat to say...becoz i still a virgin boy...but wat i wanna tell u is wat happened was happened, move ur eyes to ur future...that's wat important...wish u and him will marry in future. | |
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| 8. kun2349 (3570) | 3 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content. | |
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| 9. Elixiress (2560) | 3 months ago |  I do not think that at the age of 19 you are too young, when I read the beginning of your post up to the "i am a little too young" I assumed you were 12/13 or something. I think that you are putting too much pressure on your virginity, when I lost mine I did not feel as though anything has changed.
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| jamesarmstrong (126) | 3 months ago |  To some country the virginty means a lot.If a gilrs is not virgin, she will not marry well.
But to some country,just as where you are, a 20 years virgin is laughed at by friends. Maybe you still appreciate your first guy.
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| Elixiress (2560) | 3 months ago | Virginity does not mean a lot when I am from, but a 20 year old virgin is not laughed at either. I have nothing against the person I lost my virginity to, but I have not seen them for years. | |
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| 10. globaldoc2001 (4400) | 3 months ago |  you did it,and you cannot do anything about it.you just have to live with it.however,there is nothing wrong with it because it is a regular and normal thing that happen.you are just worried because you have entered into the real world of womanhood.you are going to live with the new changes.it is going to be ok.just try as much as possible to let that experience make you stronger,instead of it making you lose your moral values.
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