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myLot reputation of 69/100. olisae (568)   ranked 2,054 out of 17,442 in relationships2 months ago

please forgive all ladies out there,but i want to find out if no lady in this world can be trusted or is it just an experience i have been through and it has subjected me to this conviction.
i have a girlfriend whom i intend to marry,but as I speak to you now,she is not being faithful to me.I love her so much that when i think of breaking up with her,i just cant help it.i am a decent honest guy not wanting to flirt around so why should I be paid back this way.r is it that women in nigeria cant be trusted?what ever hapened to true love?does it mean i am right that it is only evident in the usa or europe?well,please I need advice on what to do cause iam being torn apart because of love when i want to let go but its not easy.thanks.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 73/100. Kemboi (276)   ranked 2,364 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

Maybe that was not the right choice for your marriage. Remember the saying the beautifull ones are not yet being born. Or the beauty is in the hands of the beholder. Keep looking around you can even meet one in mylot community, you never know because this is the meeting place.


myLot reputation of 69/100. olisae (568)   ranked 2,054 out of 17,442 in relationships  2 months ago

thanks for your comment,but how posiible is it getting someone on here?i dont think its possible cause you actually dont really see people saying they are wiling to connect.you are right,getting into marriage with that lady might be be signing my death warrant.i dont think they are born.i jut wish i dont make a mistake in marriage.thank you and if you can,give me hints on how to go about getting someone from on here.cheers

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2. myLot reputation of 73/100. Kemboi (276)   ranked 2,364 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

Maybe that was not the right choice for your marriage. Remember the saying the beautifull ones are not yet being born. Or the beauty is in the hands of the beholder. Keep looking around you can even meet one in mylot community, you never know because this is the meeting place.

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3. myLot reputation of 70/100. krayzietam (440)   ranked 3,904 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

Well I understand why you think all women can't be trusted right now, even though it isn't true. You are just hurt because you are putting all into your relationship and your partner isn't. But the women you have met don't speak for all the women in the world. In a way, its stereotyping. I can't say that all men can't be trusted because of just the few bad relationships I've been in. I just haven't found the right one for me yet. Sometimes things just don't work out. You can't force it. Sometimes the things you think are best for you are the worst. You have to talk to her if you aren't happy and if she doesn't care for your feelings then you just have to let go if it is not working out.


myLot reputation of 69/100. olisae (568)   ranked 2,054 out of 17,442 in relationships  2 months ago

thanks for your comment,but thats the point,i have talked it over but it turns on deaf ears.i want to let go but its so hard.i know i have no choice but to do it.it will hurt me but i know with time i will pass.thank you.
so you have had bad relationships too?am sorry about that.where are you fromanyway?would like to know you better and whats more.cheers


myLot reputation of 70/100. krayzietam (440)   ranked 3,904 out of 17,442 in relationships  2 months ago

yeah I have had bad relationships but I am in a great one now actually. So when I speak, I speak from experience. And it just goes to show you that things get better. No one is perfect, but in a relationship there should be trust, honesty, and respect, etc. It hurts to let go now but if you don't it will just get worse, especially if you tried talking it out and nothing has changed. Its not fair to both you and her to remain in a relationship that isn't growing. Oh, I am originially from Jamaica but I live in Hollywood, FL now.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (844)   ranked 1,039 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

I do forgive you. You are hurting now thats why you've generalized women. I had the same experience with you. I just thought maybe I wasn't enough. I let go. I love him so much but I guess what he feels for me is not love. Because if it was love he wouldn't be distracted by anything. There are many women who are like these, but I tell you, men do this too. You are just a victim of it. I advice you to let go. These things happen for reason. Think deeper, why? You love her too much that it blinded you of other things in life. Take care=)

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. academic2 (4938)   ranked 772 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

Not all ladies are made of that stuff olisae, it is all part and parcel of human nature-both men and women have the propensity to be unfaithful-that explains why you dont need to fall head on in love until you are convinced someone really deserve your love-am so sad that the love of your life is letting you down-try to see if she deserves your forgiveness, if she can pledge to change, give her a try before you go for marriage-otherwise, dont delve into a marriage that will turn you into a living dead!

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. bonbon664 (2129)   ranked 747 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

There are people in the world who are not trustworthy, men and women equally. That's a fact. You believe there are no trustworthy women now because you have been hurt, but, eventually the hurt will go away, and you will find that there are a lot of good women out there. I'm sure that applies everywhere.

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7. KittenKitten (67)   ranked 4,523 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

U are good guy. Take it easy.Just let it go and move on. Time will help cure your pain. You will meet your Miss.Right.

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8. myLot reputation of 86/100. monishavakil (724)   ranked 972 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

hi dear friend. guess you really upset with what has happened and it is understandabl. thats exactly how i feel about all men out there. i cannot trust any man because the man i trusted completely was not faithful to me. So just hang in there. Dont be so hard on yourself. I am sure you would find the right one, guess she was just not worth it.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. whywiki (2750)   ranked 3,527 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

Love isn't always easy. If a woman cheats on a man I don't think she truly loves him or respects him enough. I think you should move on and find a woman that is worthy of your love and a good man such as yourself. I think that there are plenty of honest and loving women in Nigeria just as there are all over the world. Half the adventure in life is finding the perfect mate. Life is to short to spend unhappy with someone who doesn't respct you. Good luck finding your special someone.

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. tamarafireheart (2621)   ranked 3,285 out of 17,442 in relationships   2 months ago

Hello olisae,

No not all women are like that men can be too, you are young are you not? and maybe too young to be getting married untill you meet your true love? Please do not take afence but I do think she is not right for you when she is unfaithful to you so if you do marry her she may be unfaithful again to you. can you live with that?


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