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myLot reputation of 95/100. moonlitmagikchild (2266)   ranked 284 out of 26,448 in life3 months ago

i have noticed that with every ex boyfriend or ex friend i have carried something from that relationship with me.. whether it be a tv show, habit or hobby i seem to keep having them from a lot of people.. most people arent impacted by friendship or relationships at all and quickly forget people..

do you think that every relationship leaves something behind? or do you think only certain ones do? do you find the things you carry on good or bad? what do you think about the people that never are impacted from people? are they strong individuals or not attentive?

 
 
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alokn99 (1500) response was accepted on 7/18/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. fwidman (1820)   ranked 678 out of 26,448 in life   3 months ago

I think every relationship gives you something that carries onward with you. I think it is all good, myself. I wouldn't want to be dragging something bad along with me.
I don't know how anyone could not be impacted, unless they weren't really into the relationship at all.


myLot reputation of 95/100. moonlitmagikchild (2266)   ranked 284 out of 26,448 in life  3 months ago

thats true maybe they werent all there to begin with to get to where they care enough to pay attention

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. benhilo (130)   ranked 1,805 out of 26,448 in life   3 months ago

Most certainly all relationships leave some residule impact but to varing degrees. Some we keep willingly and others are forced sometimes by traumatic events like breaking up! But remember it is our experiences and how they impact us that make us who we are.


myLot reputation of 95/100. moonlitmagikchild (2266)   ranked 284 out of 26,448 in life  3 months ago

makes you wonder if you were to delete a relationship in your past and never had gone through it if you would still be the same as you are now


myLot reputation of 83/100. benhilo (130)   ranked 1,805 out of 26,448 in life  3 months ago

The answer to that is you WOULD be different. You will less that experience which could has been some kind of lesson that you have not learned yet or some charactor flaw that needed to be developed. Remember this life here is but a school and you keep learning lessons. If you dont a learn a leason the first time you repeat it. You know when you learned a lesson when your actions change. Example: you walk down the street you fall in a hole and you cant get out but after sometime you do. Next day you go down the street and you fall in again this time you get out a little faster. The next day you took a different street. Get on with life. Learn from your mistakes dont continue to live it!


myLot reputation of 95/100. moonlitmagikchild (2266)   ranked 284 out of 26,448 in life  2 months ago

i agree

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. alokn99 (1500)   ranked 539 out of 26,448 in life   3 months ago

Relationships do leave an impact, and most of the time we unconciously carry something from those relationships. We may do it sometimes to value those relationships . Some of the things we carry forward because we accepted those during the relationship and now have become a force of habit.


myLot reputation of 95/100. moonlitmagikchild (2266)   ranked 284 out of 26,448 in life  2 months ago

makes me wonder if i am leaving imprints on others that are positive or negative sometimes

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. pheonixstar1982 (507)   ranked 741 out of 26,448 in life   3 months ago

I believe we do leave impacts on our ex friends and ex relationships. And i think those who are not impacted are in denile. We always learn something from a relationship gone wrong rather we act on the lesson or not decides how are future relationships go. Question is if our friendship goes bad what are you taking away from me. I seem to adapted all you bad internet habits. LOL


myLot reputation of 95/100. moonlitmagikchild (2266)   ranked 284 out of 26,448 in life  2 months ago

hey!!! what habits are you talking about?? haha..

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