What do you do when a friend hurts your feelings?

i do nothing but make my work right way . do not any thing per mouth but but job i can say the thing what want to say her/him . of course not hurting him

Hi Beautyqueen, I always confront the situation head on though it happens rarely, once a friend sent me a text saying someone had got married. I phoned her immediately and told her that I thought she had been very insentive to send me a text as she knew I still had feelings for him she immediately apologised profusely saying she just hadn't thought. We all do this at times to people we are close to without realising a lot of the time. I don't wait for them to realise and apologise ever and if I have ever done anything to upset someone I would expect them to confront me too. If I realise before they have called or told me that I have upset them I will say sorry immediately. Ellie:D

It would depend on whether or not it was deliberate.
Most times I just keep to myself for awhile and just work it out in my head and then just let it go.
I have never had a friend purposely hurt my feelings.
Most times I am just being overly sensitive and I have to work it though myself.

If I am te offender I think that I should be the one to apologize, ut if I am the offended, then it is not up to me to apologize. Why should I apologize for something that I did not do? I will explain to the person how I felt, ad why I felt that way. If we ca settle it, good, but if not, that that's one test our friendship could not pass. My friends and I really don't have this problem because we all know eachother well enough.

I have a hard time with this. I hold grudges. If they do something wrong to me I just retreat. I guess I am just to stubborn to be the one to solve the problem.

If a friend hurt my feelings then I am damned if I go crawling to them, I used to, I would do it all the time. But then I learnt my lesson because I would just be going back for more of the same. Now I let anyone come to me, if they do not then that is the end of it.

If I feel like it is there fault I wait for a few days to see if they will call back if not then I might try to call to work things out. If it is a fight and I realize I was the one at fault then I will call and apologize. Which I am proud to say I can't remember the last time I got into a argument with a friend. I hate arguments and fights although they do happen.

Well, about 3-4 months ago, I said something to someone who I considered a Good friend to where she was really mad at me, and did not want to even talk to me. I felt really bad, and tried to apologize right away, but for me, it has taken a little time for her to want to really even talk to me. Now she is getting a little more friendlier and I can joke and talk again, but I still miss the old times of getting together once in a while with her and her 2 boys, and having a Fun time. I still get hugs from her boys from time to time, and I am sure they have wondered what is up as well. I am still hoping somehow we can at least gain some of the Good friendship we once had back, but if it never comes, then I have learned something from this as well.

My best friend probably would never know she hurt my feelings. She did hurt my feelings in April, and I have never told her or called her on what she said. I just let it fester within me until I let it drop. It doesn't bother me anymore. I know what she said, she didn't say to be mean. She said "you're still a dunce" that hurt.. that implied to me that she always thought I was stupid. I never said anything about it to make her feel bad for saying it.

I actually have no offlines friends.
Of the ones I did have a few did hurt my feelings.
They never ever did come back and apologize,
So as far as I am concerned they are no longer friends.

Of all the online friends I have,
Only one has ever hurt my feelings.
I do not think they even realise what they have done.
So I just let it slide and carried on as normal.