when was the last time?

hi dear chechuva
lucky are the people who are able to spend time with their friends.
i have yet to plan one good meeting with my friends. i just shifted so i was frantically busy with that affair and got some time yesterday which i was on mylot, and colecting thec lost threads here and there.
obviously after i settle down i will invite all of them to my place and hjave a big blast.

That sounds so nice! I'm so glad that you got the time to spend with your friends! I know how hectic life can get and it's always good to be able to just go out and relax. I wish you could do it more often with your friends!

I have one good friend left who lives relatively nearby. The rest live too far away now. When my friend and I get together, it is always so nice! She lives about 100 miles away, so we don't get together too often, just a few times a year. Both she and I have health issues, so we can't do too much like we used to, but just spending the day together, going to one of our favorite shops, cooking, talking about "old times", it's always such fun!

When my sister was alive, the three of us would go out and do all sorts of things together. We called ourselves "The Three Muskateers". My sister passed away 5 years ago and it was very hard when my friend and I would get together at first because there was such a big empty space where my sister used to be. But then my friend and I started to fill in that empty space with good memories of my sister, and talk about the things the three of us would get into together. It's much easier now. We know that my sister is still with us in spirit.

Enjoy your youth, chechuva! It really sucks getting older! LOL

It was long time ago. that too atleast 6 montyhs ago. Most of my friends are not in my city. due to some problems in my family with dad's health and all, i am not able to indulge into much of it. i think gaaian i should ask them to meet.
its nice to spend some time with friends and eat together, shop etc.

we hanged out with my high school friends last saturday after the youth fellowship in our church. we went to my married classmate which now have her one daughter.. it was really nice to talk and chat together.. though we didnt have the luxury of time because we have to go home. but during that time, we recall each day we had together. and it was really fun. we also asked her about how her life is doing right now. of what it is to have a family.. we learned from each others experiences.. and after all, my classmate teased me with my friend that i should be her boyfriend.. and we had fun, remembering the good old days... hmm..

It's really a joy to hang out with dearest friends, just sharing, joking, reminiscing the good old days and all these and all that. Due to tight schedule, it's really hard to get them all together in a one night get together. Well, last July 9, it was birthday and there was no excuses allowed for anyone. They all have to come to my house and stay late feasting on the the food, joking and singing and reminiscing the good old days. Friends really are treasures to me. They make me feel I am loved not just by my own family but by other people as well. So in a way, I consider them my family. We pray for each other, we help solve each others problem, We share with each other's burden, we can shell out money from our pocket to help one friend in need and we can keep secrets among ourselves. It's only a pity that we have our own businesses to look into and spending time together more frequently is really not possible. But during birthdays, then we have to really do something to make time for the celebration.

Hi chechuva,

Wow, Talking about this makes me miss also my dearest friends but we are too far from each other now..The last time we were able to hang out was like 4 years ago....Most are married and living in a different places...It's great that we can email and text or call to update about our love but I know everyone is looking forward to be having a common time to be with each and everyone!

Wow, that's great. The last time that me and my friends hanged-out was 6 years ago. Some of my friends migrated abroad. Me and my sister-in-law (I married my bestfriends' brother) were the ones who were left behind. I regularly see my sis-in-law. The last time I saw her was 2 weeks ago during my stepdaughters' birthday.

My husband is my dearest friend and I guess you could say that we hang out every day of the week. We both work seven days per week but we work the same shift. We are always home together when he is not working. We do everything together. I am glad that my husband is my dearest friend also.

You are very lucky to have such friendships. Believe it or not I don't have any human friends who live near me. My pets I guess are my dearest friends right now so I'm lucky enough to spend time with them daily. Other wise all my friends are either in other states or just online friends.

It must be nice to have the chance to hang out with friends and just totally chill out. I do not have any friends that live by me that I can do this with, I have my friends on myLot and a couple that I email and thats it.