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myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people3 months ago

Friends,it's summer vacation now,and it just begins,i know it't the hardest holiday for me,every second,every day,i'm struggling to live,oh,don't worry,i'm not meaning to do that,i just want to tell you,i'm a person,a single person,parents is parents,brother is brother,in the world,just i myself is belonging to me,i want to lead a life with myself,i don't admire big house,cars and money,i will depend on my self,why i'm now like that,mainly because i can't feel any warmth from the relationship in the family,if they love me,why they always don't consider of my feeling?They have their own benefits,it's not love to me,i'm so weak and thin,they just can't read me....that's ok,parents is nothing.

 
 
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tags:  parents, family, love, relationship, life
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. salonga (2393)   ranked 1,748 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

I'm saddened by you thoughts. I could not picture what kind of family you belong to that you seem to live alone by yourself and even considering your parents nothing. There is nothing like a happy family where children are feeling the warmth of love in a home filled with care and sweet fellowship. But maybe you have reasons and I'm not in the position to judge you. All I could do the most is to pray that in the end you reunite with your family and patch up all the differences and feel the real sense of having a family.


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. MizukiZHR (508)   ranked 7,699 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

Hey,friend.I don't know what happened between you and your family but I can't agree with you.To a person family is the most important thing and parents are the most family members before you get married.Parents love their children and raise up their children.You may lack comunication with your family and you should tell your parents what you really think and I think they will understand your feeling and change their ways of treating you.


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

Indeed,my family is a family lacks exchange and communicating
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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. gemini_rose (7982)   ranked 385 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

I have seen a couple of discussions from you recently in which you seem to be really down about things, I hope that you are OK. I am not sure what you are trying to say here but I am guessing that there has or is some trouble within your family. If there is then I am sorry to hear it, being part of a family can be extremely hard and stressful, spend much of life trying to please them. But sometimes we can only please ourselves and be happy for ourselves and not do things just to make others happy, take care xx


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. vanities (7796)   ranked 1,165 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

sadohh..im speechless my dear friend and cant understand why you had such sentiments on your parents or family...why not try talking it out to them on whats really bugging you about? just remember you will not be here in this world if not because of your parents..


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. neildc (1874)   ranked 4,370 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

I know what you feel. But you must remember that family is still family. You can never be a person without your parents. And you can never be a better person without their guidance and care. You can live your life alone, but in the end, you will still go back where you once belonged. And it is your family...


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. honeydew82174 (1245)   ranked 419 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

sad I understand you do not think your parents give a rip about you. If that is the case then you are right you can only count on yourself. Do you have anyone eles in your life that is their for you? Another person you can call mom or dad? I had some terriable parents to and I met this woman and she has been my mom now for 10 long years. She is their for me no matter what even if I need to just talk. You need to find someone like that. Everyone needs sometie of gudiance. I would talk to your parnets and ask why your feeelings do not matter. good luch my friend!


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. neilchua (273)   ranked 5,704 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

don't say that. though i don't exactly know what happened between you and your parents. they are still your parents. someday, somehow you will be reconciling with them. sometimes you will need to go through difficulties in life alone. can't argue with you if you feel that way. life is hard, and to some even harder. there will come a time when they will realize how important you are. and you will also realize that whatever happen to your relationship with your parents is for a reason. don't give up. proving that you can do it on your own actually is good. but someday you will need them or they will need you. someday you will both need each other. have a good day ifglan.


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. ctrymuziklvr (4473)   ranked 149 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

I didn't look at your profile for your age but I'm sure you must be young to say that parents are nothing! Did you ever think it could be your fault that you feel no warmth from you family? Take my word for it ...one day when your parents are gone you will miss them.


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

I know what you mean,and i also know my parents love me,but i want to say in my family we children don't have any right to choose a life of myself,everything they must let me follow them,i feel my life is not mine
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9. myLot reputation of 55/100. meiyeec511 (343)   ranked 6,674 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

For me, my parent are very important to me. They grew up me nicely, educated me well, take care of me frfom time to time. I wouldn't forgot their goodness to me.

So if possible, I hope to be with them all the time and take care of them like the way they take care of me sincee I was young.

May be different family different case.


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

It's not like you said,indeed,my parents love me,and love me deeply,so the problem will occur,cause they love me so everything they want me to listen to them, i feel my life is not mine,maybe you can't feel for
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10. jzxin77 (2)   ranked 25,616 out of 26,796 in people   3 months ago

imagine every time when i tell someting to my parents,they just can not understand me,or even deny all of my thoughts,maybe i would own the same ideas as u . maybe not every time,but even one time can make one down.
i can share your feelings. finding a good listener is not a easy thing,even they are your parents.
For your feelings,i think they are very nomal.And for your relationship with your parents, try to comunicate,or find someting else to do and let it be.


myLot reputation of 97/100. ifglan (323)   ranked 1,070 out of 26,796 in people  3 months ago

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