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myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships3 months ago

I am talking about men in a relationship and still goofing around. I am not generalizing but so far, the men I have met all have done this. I just don't understand since I knew all the women that are connected to them. Is it a need to have a different mate? Different taste? Different style? Or there is juts no love at all? Or there is no chemistry or fun in it? All are welcome to give a view about this confusion of mine. Thank you in advance. Take care=)

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 172 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Let's say I will agree that its a man's nature but can't man control it and just makes their woman happy. Women can control, why not do it for her too? I am glad your husband is good. Maybe...as what you've said...you are perfect. Thank you so much for repsonding. Take care happy


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 172 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Your very welcome..

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. mEisky (542)   ranked 3,922 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

well maybe his not contented at all..Hmm..Or maybe he's into gaming.,playing with an innocent girls.,ughh..soo irritating.I hate those men who actually doing this!!


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Contentment is really hard to cure since we are all not contented if we are not happy. We want to change because we are not satisfied. Maybe, its satisfaction that is not there. Gaming or having fun toying women??? That is not good. Women are precious creation of God. I hate these men too. Thank you so much for responding. Take care=)


myLot reputation of 80/100. mEisky (542)   ranked 3,922 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

yea..we cant blame ourselves for being uncontented with what we have.,But it's still important to keep those what we have now..Well..yea..women were not supposed to be treated like that.although men would say as well as them..youre welcome dear^_^ its my pleasure.. Goodluck..


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

People that I know say I am a strong willed woman, so I will probably not blame myself if it happens to me. I can't hang myself up high just to satisfy or make him happy. Right?


myLot reputation of 80/100. mEisky (542)   ranked 3,922 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

well.its good for you..Really.?what do you mean by strong.?hmm.ohh..i think its when you could still stand and never let other people bring you down.?isnt it.?wow.:) im soo proud of you.:) you're like my mom.:D


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Well, I'm not in the reality yet, if it happens it will still be a mystery what will I do. I can say I do because they see me like that. Maybe, if I become a mom too, I can say I am. My mom is a strong woman too.


myLot reputation of 80/100. mEisky (542)   ranked 3,922 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Its cooL!:) our moms are always strong!:) sometimes they're stronger than their hubby:) haha.Ahm..where you from anyway.?


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

I am from the Philippines. What about you?

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3. myLot reputation of 45/100. GloomCookieLex (2127)   ranked 2,919 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

I honestly have no idea. I've never known a guy like that, much less been with one. Maybe it's just wanderlust? They just can't commit.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

I guess you're right. These men can't or doesn't want to commit. Or its because of lust. The need to satisfy the need. Thank you so much for responding. take care happy

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4. myLot reputation of 61/100. Ciniful (1150)   ranked 2,879 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

Right off the bat, it should be mentioned that women cheat too. This behavior is NOT confined to men. It goes both ways.

As for why men cheat, many reasons and it's impossible to know which one is the right one depending on the guy. Biology and natural instinct does play a part. Men instinctively have a need to mate with as many people as possible, to spread their seed around and create more offspring, to keep the species going. At the end of the day, we are just animals with natural instincts. While the man might not even recognize this as his reason himself. it does play a part in it.

However, a man who's committed to a monogamous relationship has made a promise to STOP doing that, and he does have the willpower to turn away from those temptations .. but refuses to do so. Then you have the other reasons.

- Bad relationship
- Wife doesn't satisfy him sexually
- Wife doesn't satisfy him emotionally
- The need for variety
- He's a jerk.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

I do agree with you that women cheat too. But man does it more than woman. Yes, it can prevented by a strong will power and love. Your reason are all accepted. Definitely these kind of men are jerks. You get a positive rate. thumbup Thank you so much for responding. Take care happy


myLot reputation of 67/100. amrishkj (237)   ranked 6,715 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

I liked the last one "Hes a jerk"...haaahaaahaaa.


myLot reputation of 61/100. Ciniful (1150)   ranked 2,879 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Where is your proof that men cheat more than women? All studies and statistics prove otherwise. I'm sorry if you've had bad experiences with men cheating, but it's absolutely wrong to claim that men cheat more. It's simply not true. Men are simply more OPEN about it, while women are better at hiding it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

I know women cheat too. I don't have the statistics. Do you have any?

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. swirlz (1082)   ranked 11,587 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

Ugh! I know! I've been wondering the same thing. Although I know a lot of guys who aren't like this, but compared to those who are, it's like five times more... I really don't get why they have to do this... I guess only a man could answer this question.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Indeed you're right. Only a man can answer this. I hope there would be an honest man who would share his inner thoughts about this discussion so that women will have something to ponder on to prevent cheating from happening. Thank you so much for responding. Take care happy

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. currykai (227)   ranked 15,991 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

Yes.. I have this same questions as well. I am a lady and I get disappointed with some of the men who cant stay long with one woman. In my opinion, i think some men is not contented with just one woman, they like to venture out and try new relationship with different women. The 'visual' factor is very important to them and that is why is really hard to resist beautiful women. But somehow, more mature guys who have had enough fun and thrills tend to be able to stick to a relationship longer and is committed to settle down with the one he found is right!


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

So you're saying that a man has the right to collect then select. All these collection and selection process involves sexual activities. With the growing possibility of being infected by disease, what is the worth of a man now? Nothing. I know some man too who has gone matured thats why they sticked to one woman now ... but there are older older men who still look for another...maybe for the thrills. Thank you so much for responding. Take care happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. currykai (227)   ranked 15,991 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Hi, Dont get me wrong. Obviously they have no right to "collect" and etc. I am just stating based on my observations and opinions. Well, i certainly do not have respect for such men. and to older men who still seems to flirt around, goodness sake..they will never learn I guess.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

lol Nah, I didn't get you wrong there. I just want to make it clear if they have rights. Yeah, they have no rights at all. I am giving you a positive rate for a valuable opinion you have shared. happy

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7. myLot reputation of 69/100. Lucky_strike (417)   ranked 4,060 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

I don“t know why.
But I know,that even a woman who have a man,look on other men


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Yes, women who are in a relationship look for another man too, but in most cases its a man thing because a man is so courageous of not being pregnant. And basically there are born polygamous. Thank you so much for responding. Take care happy


myLot reputation of 69/100. Lucky_strike (417)   ranked 4,060 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Thanks for writing back.
Have a nice Monday


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

You're welcome. I plan to support every respondents that I have. It may be good or bad, I wish to acknowledge the opinion they shared. Have a great day! Take care happy

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8. myLot reputation of 67/100. amrishkj (237)   ranked 6,715 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

I am married and look at other females when they dress well or when i see a female whos is got a great body. But that does not mean that my love for my wife has gone down a bit. God has created beautiful object to be admired that doesnt mean that coz you look at them you are cheating on the one girl that you already have. But if yes you crossed the line from looking to going and laying somebody other than your partner is wrong.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

Yes, we were all created beautifully. I'm not saying you can't even look at woman. What irritates me is the fact that you are already in a relation and still you make out with other woman? What for? Thank you so much for responding and being a good and responsible man. Take care happy

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9. myLot reputation of 79/100. notlistening2 (3375)   ranked 5,441 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

Men just like to cheat, and they won't admit it, they like to be with other women, to see if they can get away with it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

lol I can say, men really like adventures. Basically you will know a man's character when he does things that he knows he'll never be caught. Maybe it satisfy a man's competitive side whenever they get away with a one night stand with another woman. Thank you so much for responding. Take care happy

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. tamarafireheart (4796)   ranked 3,389 out of 18,189 in relationships   3 months ago

Hi leateagee,

Don't you know? men are a strange creatures, they find a mate and happy for a while they get all the comforts and then get bored, then they are thinking can I still find one for a change and see what is like? I am still young and handsome? and they answer yes to themselves away they go and after they come back to their own mate. Men only have brains in one place and its not in their head, I know because my husband tried many years ago.



Tamarafireheart.


Ahsansajid_student (1)  3 months ago

i dont agree that men are strange creatures.....it actually varies from person to person.....the guy u faced must be having some cruel intentions or something.....if a person gets satisfied with one he never wants to go fr another girl provided that there is damn sincere relationship...so chk that out...


myLot reputation of 99/100. leateagee (873)   ranked 1,085 out of 18,189 in relationships  3 months ago

lol A strange creature huh. But there is a reaction with that. Men can't really be satisfied. There are a few that are exceptional because their control and love for their mate is extreme but most often men are really brought to this situation to prove to himself or the others what he is worth after a few years older. Thanks so much for responding. take care happy

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