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myLot reputation of 72/100. angelface23 (1880)   ranked 374 out of 8,836 in friend6 months ago

so you guys know I left my husband a few weeks back. Well I connect with an old guy friend. Just that, a friend. He calls me on Friday and we edn up going out. He had moved to AZ and just got back about 7 months ago. We go out and get drunk. I didn't flirt with him or vice versa. So next day he sends me a text saying he wanted to kiss me. I don't know what to say so I didn't respond. Then later he texts again asking why I didn't reply. I replied saying I didn't know what to say. He says "Whatever". I tell him that I am still married and I have to focus on myself and my daughter. He says he is looking for someone to date not someone who wants to hangout. So I say. wtf, I thought we were friends? He says that he hasn't talked to me in how long so how are we friends? I just don't get it. He didn't respond after that. I really don't know why he is being an a$$ about it.

 
 
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tags:  friends, wtf, kiss, confused, leve him
 
1. myLot reputation of 89/100. snowbitz (315)   ranked 1,218 out of 8,836 in friend   6 months ago

maybe he is just taking advantage of your situation right now being separated to your husband and he thinks you might need some company specially at night.maybe he pick up a wrong signal when both of you got drunk that's why he is assuming you like him being around.


myLot reputation of 72/100. angelface23 (1880)   ranked 374 out of 8,836 in friend  6 months ago

I like being around him, as a friend. We have been friends for so long and when I was with my ex boyfriend we would hangout just the two of us all the time and go to movies and the mall. so I really don't know what his problem is. I think its kind of rude to assume that I am going to just jump into something with you when I just left my husband three weeks ago, I have a daughter to take care of and things to figure out. I can't just go jumping into another relationship even if I was into him in that way.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. ladysakurax (497)   ranked 1,739 out of 8,836 in friend   6 months ago

Well it sounds obvious that he doesn't like you as a friend. You should talk to him and make things clear about you and him. He is acting this way because he thought that you don't like your husband anymore so yeh, he is taking this oppurtunity to get you. I think you should make it clear and simple. I don't know why you left your husband but since you told your friend that you still have one, maybe you should go back to him or just move on if it's defenitive.

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3. myLot reputation of 70/100. notlistening2 (5183)   ranked 1,872 out of 8,836 in friend   6 months ago

The guy is a jerk, and he doesn't need to be with any body, but himself, he sounds like he just want to use you, he's not a friend he is a jerk, jerk's like that don't need friends.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. rmuxagirl (5645)   ranked 2,316 out of 8,836 in friend   2 months ago

That is really odd. I mean how could he think that just reconnecting would mean that it would mean you are dating? I have reconnected with friends after several months not talking to them or seeing them for a year or so. But we still consider each other friends and wouldn't just jump to kissing if one of us had feelings for the other.


myLot reputation of 72/100. angelface23 (1880)   ranked 374 out of 8,836 in friend  2 months ago

he called me a few weeks back out of the blue. I was like why are you calling me? We are cool now, he apologized but we dont talk on a regular basis or anything.

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