Have you been in love with your friend

I think I felt that same way too. But I think that feeling you have is caused by habit. You have been so used to being with him. You like hanging out with him. And you love just being with him. He becomes a habit that you cannot escape. You cant keep yourself from thinking about him because you trained yourself to think of him for a long time. You feel envy because you tend to become possessive of him. That's not good. I can't really tell if it is love or what. But I think you can consider him as someone you want to be with for the rest of your life.

I used to have a crush on this guy from my highschool, he was 2 years my senior. We weren't close but since we moved in the same circle, we considered each other as friends. We parted ways when I transferred to another school but I've never really forgotten him. We met again after almost 17 years and the old feelings just came back. That's when I realized I was inlove with him and have been for the longest time. When we got to talking, it turned out he used to like me, too. We're now on our 8th month as a couple.

hehehe yeah i felt the same way too. i had a relationship way back 4 years ago, we're really good friends then suddenly he told me about what he feel towards me, that's why i told him that i also like him. but our relationship didn't work out well, coz of the third party (his ex always bothers him, she told to my bf that she will commit suicide if he will not leave me, she is begging to come back) so we decided to part our ways so that she will not bother anymore. my ex leaved philippines for his work in the middle east then his crazy ex gf went to australia to have a new crazy life lol but me & my ex are still good friends now..:) btw, goodluck to you!

Maybe only mutual affection.
Not that really "love" thing, since I still try to control my emotions if I would be going into that kind of situation.

If you have nice friend then you got a partner, friendship is very near to lover life, you know one things love starts from friendship, we meet boy and girl the says each other "can we are friends?" then after starts the real story, it may happen with many people who got love married, so friendship is every thing, some people keep this relation as friendship like a brother, some people convert into lovers, these 2 things are very different. I made friend but never express my words to her, because I was very much care about our good friendship relations, after that I got married and she got married with different persons. That story ends with friendship.

Hi, I think it's love. Yeah, I am sure it's love. Based on my life experience and dealing with guys, and also as an outsider, I can tell yr feeling is not just a commom friend.
Love makes you jealousy...

When I was studying in high school,I was also fell in love with someone.While I am not sure if she love me too,so I haven't told her what I thought.Some months later,she sent me a message,saying that she love me.How excided I was when I saw the message.Now,we are fell in love with each other.Having experience this,I think we shouldn't be shy,don't afraid failure.

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Do you feel that way when it is just you and your friend or just when he is with someone. Do you want to kiss him?
If you feel like that only when he is with someone else it may just be envy otherwise you would always feel that way.

I have been in a similar situation except for a little twist, I had a crush on her before she became my friend. I saw her once at a local tv station and she was absolutely the most stunning thing I have ever seen. A few years later we became very good friends and saw each other almost everyday and sometimes she would ditch her boyfriend to be with me on some occasions. I never told her how I felt all that time until she moved away and I wrote her telling everything about my feelings for her.