Dealing with Life

I have had to deal with a lot of problems during my life and I guess what helped me the most was the belief that one day things would improve. Of course, I also took steps to make my siutation better and to be able to stand on my own two feet.

Dealing with the death of a loved one is extremely hard and it takes time to get past the pain of the loss but eventually happy memories of that person will replace the sad ones. And, no, I don't think that people deserve the bad things that happen to them such as sickness or death. I think that they deserve help and understanding. I don't know of any specific places to look for information on life's choices but you could do a search on the web for websites that deal with those issues or you could visit your local library.

I hope I've helped.

I go to the word of God(the Bible)for all my answers. I believe that God can use anything to be a blessing not only to the sufferer, but to others also. I have a mental illness and I am not exactly happy about it, but I can see how God has used it and the other things that I have suffered to be a blessing to others. For instance, my mental disorder does not affect my intelligence. But it has caused me to be more emotional and compassionate than the average person.
So much so, that I am actually able to feel what others are feeling. I live in a board and care for the mentally ill and God has allowed me to advocate for them. It brings me so much joy to be able to speak for those who are not able to speak for themselves. If I did not have the illness I would not be here. And I do not feel hopeless, because I know that God can heal me from the top of my head to the souls of my feet at any given time.
Sometimes it can take a lot of hard and painful work, but you grow as you allow the bitterness of the experience to make you better.

Everyone lifes problem is normal, because it is abnormal to a person with no probelem at all. Base in my experience when i have a big probelem that it seems that nobody can help me, i locked my room, i kneel down and pray hard. I will shout to the Lord all my probelems it seems that you are talking to God as a person. Sometimes i questioned God about life, i will pour out my hesitations, questions and bad feelings toward Him. But you know after that, i felt good, i mean when i'm doing it, it will lighten up my burden towards my problem. And on my way to my daily work its only to find out that there's a solution to my problems. Now, in dealing the death of your loved one is not easy, but the only thing that you can recover that is to accept the reality that it a will of God because we are not in control once life, so its all that Gods permitions. You know the best advice that i could share to you about education in life choice is to go to your church leader or a pastor, priest or any religious organizations, because i believe that only God can solve our problem.

Dealing with life and it's problems is not always easy of course. I have had my share of dealing with life's traumas. I just have a way of accepting things and going on. I really don't think there is anyone who deserves what they get, whether it be a bad sickness, etc. Things just can happen to the best of them.