I miss my wife so much

As they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. You sound like your heart has really grown fonder for your wife.
How much longer will she be gone? My husband has only been away from me for maybe the most 4 days. It was rather lonely without him. Just like you, we would talk every day, of course it is not the same as being there with each other.
Plan something really special for her when she gets back. Maybe you and the kids, can cook her a special meal.
Hopefully she will back with you soon.

I know the feeling. As you know my husband is in Arizona, and I'm in Canada. We talk to eachother on the phone many times a day, but we miss eachother so muh. We've only been married about 10 months, and quite a bit of our relatioship has been long distance, but when we are apart, we miss eachother so much!!!! We talk on the phone twice a day (in the morning and at night) and we are in constant communication on our computers.

I wrote about this on MyLot the other day.

http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1598263.aspx

I have been married for fourteen years and we have never been away from each other more than a night or two at one time. If we ever were i don't know how i would handle it.

Hi alkurishy,

Is is nice to hear how a man love his wife so much ansd miss, not many men in our country will voice their feelings but you so loving to your and the same with your who loves very much. Don't worry too much she maybe back very soon. My husband and myself only been away from each other for 3 days that all.


Tamara.

Hi,alkurishy,i understand your feeling.
Pls patient, your wife may come back soon.
Take care of yourself and your kids.

I wish I had a good answer for you, but I don't. I am an American, my wife is Canadian. 11 days after we were we married, my wife had to return to her country because of our immigration laws. She came back several months later, but could only stay 6 months. She's bee gone almost two months now.

It doesn't get easier, it gets more painful. I don't have the additional worries that you do, I only have the loneliness that I know you are experiencing right now. You, your children, and your wife are now constantly in my thoughts and prayers because I am going through exactly what you are.

May I suggest that you start writing each other daily letters telling your feelings. They are tangible and you can always save them. And when things get rough, as you know they will, you can re-read them and remember why you loved each other.

A letter is nicer then a phone call.

In the meantime start planning a special activity that you will do when she comes home, by then you will be an expert cook, cook something special and have a wonderful evening with her.

my husband and i ususally texted each other, chat with her with webcam, it will ease your longingnes, i'm sure when she comes home you will have to lock the house and tell the kids to play all day because mom and dad will stay at your room for days

its very nice to know taht you love her so much. when she will be coming back? hope at that time you can really get good time. there are hgardshiops in life at times. we have to live with it.

I have been in that situation when my wife had to leave for two months leaving me with my two sons one of which was just 2 years old. We managed fine and it was she who missed us sorely and she cried when we talked on the phone. I told her it was her choice and she had to do a good job so she can go back home as soon as her training was over.