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myLot reputation of 89/100. jennifer611 (2037)   ranked 926 out of 17,334 in relationships1 month ago

Tonight we decided to go out for dinner since it's so hot outside, I just didn't want to cook.
so we went out to a little chinese restaurant.
It was myself, my husband and the 3 kids.

there were these people sitting at the table to the side of us, an older couple with what may have been there adult daughter and another girl with them who had a son.
the whole time these 2 ladies just kept staring at my husband.
sometimes I can just feel eyes looking our way and thats how it felt, sure enough I'd glance over and eyes were definitely on him!
I am just thinking how rude that is, you see a man with his pregnant wife and their 3 kids sitting to have dinner and you have to stare at him? obviously he isn't single!

he gets up to go get a plate of food (it was a chinese buffet) and when he was on his way back I looked to see what their looking at and yep, still him.

I just find this absolutely rude.
I guess my mother raised me better then this or something, I don't know..
but I would never sit there checking out a married guy who has a family sitting with him enjoying dinner..get your own man! lol

anyone else find this rude?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. baileycows (1652)   ranked 3,118 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

Well upon first noticing I would say man I must have a good looking husband. If they kept on I would say something to my husband. Then if they just kept on I guess I am ugly I would have asked if they had a problem or would like to take a picture or stare right back. I do find it rude and very very disrespectful to you.


myLot reputation of 89/100. jennifer611 (2037)   ranked 926 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

lol.
usually that's my attitude if I feel like someone is staring a little too much. but I guess I am trying to keep from being in a bad and crappy mood today.
I didn't really want to let it get to me, but I just find it rude.


myLot reputation of 90/100. MsTickle (5738)   ranked 979 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

LOL...well, I guess to know they were staring at your husband so much, you must have been staring at them... lol

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. valeria1 (1181)   ranked 3,560 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

Is not just rude but completely out of any decency. I do not have your patience I would say Can I help you in something? You are too nice. Some woman cannot find a man that is the problem. They are jealous and stupid! Very low self steem and very sad women, no men in earth want them. So, of course I share with you the same feelings. Question: What did your husband do?


myLot reputation of 89/100. jennifer611 (2037)   ranked 926 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

I said something to my husband and he just got a dirty look on his face and looked over at their table and said "YUCK!" which I found pretty funny. they still didn't stop looking though.......
usually I have no patience so I don't know how I found any today, lol.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. cobrateacher (921)   ranked 1,269 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

This really was rude. Be flattered, though, about your good taste. After all, he wasn't doing the looking! Even if he had been, he's definitely with you and his kids, where he ought to be.

Let 'em drool!


myLot reputation of 89/100. jennifer611 (2037)   ranked 926 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

LOL.
I'm flattered people think he is good looking, but hate that we are out to dinner and people want to stare.
he definitely didn't give them the time of day, and as I stated in one of my responses, he did look over at their table one time to say "YUCK!" which to me was priceless.


myLot reputation of 92/100. cobrateacher (921)   ranked 1,269 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

Ignore them. You have yourself a keeper!

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. sudalunts (1211)   ranked 2,629 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

That was very rude and tactless. Even after I am sure they realized that you knew they were looking at your husband, they should have had the decency to stop the staring. Your mother really did raise you right, because you handled it very maturely, without making a scene.
good for you, you must really have a great looking man. wink


myLot reputation of 89/100. jennifer611 (2037)   ranked 926 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

Thank you!:)

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. vanities (7473)   ranked 794 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

not really rude i guess.. but you must be proud of your man..hes hotloleven if taken..kidding ...well i guess women now really dont care on the status of the male they want..and as wife we must always be cautious and observant to our partner who knows? but i guess your man is a good guy..

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. desertdarlene (5523)   ranked 3,672 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

Are you sure they were staring at your family because of your husband, or could there have been something else they were reacting to? Were you visibly upset when they looked at him? I've had people do things to specifically aggravate me when I happened to be looking their way for a second and they thought I was staring at them or watching them. Maybe these women saw you keeping an eye on them and were just being jerks. Either that or you've got an extremely handsome husband and those women were very low class. I notice good looking men and I will look at them a little, even if they're married, but I try not to stare even if it he's really hot.


myLot reputation of 89/100. jennifer611 (2037)   ranked 926 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

no, it was obvious they were checking him out..
from the time we walked in til the time the people left.

I think it's rude, honestly.
if someones with their family I don't think it's right to just sit and stare, he obviously isn't single.


Thanks for responding:)

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. magojordan (1397)   ranked 269 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

Although I'm a guy I honestly find it rude too. Because it makes me feel uneasy when a girl keeps on staring at me. I don't know what that girl is thinking of and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. Also I think that staring at people without telling the reason is really very rude.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. Vladilyich1 (693)   ranked 3,385 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

I agree, it is rude. However, guys do it all the time (there's even a commercial on American TV for T-mobile that shows the same thing).

In a warped way, you should almost be proud that he's yours and somebody else is admiring him.


myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (13738)   ranked 2,430 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

Walker!!!

If someone ever looked at you that way and you didn't flash your wedding ring at them, I'd make you get "I'm Married To Leah" tattooed on your forehead!!!!

I think the biggest compliment in the world is when the person notices the person staring and tells them how HAPPILY UNAVAILABLE they are.

Remember when I saw a certain gorgeous guy at the cafe here in Guelph? The first thing I did was let him know I was married, and flash my diamond ring at him!;)


myLot reputation of 93/100. Vladilyich1 (693)   ranked 3,385 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

I'm going to see if YouTube has the newest T-mobile commercial online yet. It's about exactly this same thing!

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. wallstreet (272)   ranked 4,214 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

Maybe they thought they knew him??


myLot reputation of 83/100. wallstreet (272)   ranked 4,214 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

still rude though. - its not polite to stare

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. angelwhispers30 (1622)   ranked 89 out of 17,334 in relationships   1 month ago

Not only is it rude, but it shows a complete lack of respect. Having people stare while you're trying to enjoy dinner is one of the most off putting things I've ever encountered, and I definitely would have asked them what they thought they were staring at. After staring right back at them for a while of course.

One thing I have noticed is that if you catch someone staring at your partner, stare right back at them. once they notice that they've been caught staring, they quickly look away, and blush, then keep their eyes averted for the rest of the meal LOL! A dose of the same behaviour they're employing usually does the trick.


myLot reputation of 83/100. fwangaa (776)   ranked 7,763 out of 17,334 in relationships  1 month ago

yes,you are right,be in rude,is not wise way to resolve things. we will choose a clever way to dose the trick.

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