How do you handle rudeness here in mylot?...  |
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 Well how do you actually handle a rude response to your discussion... or a rude comment to your response?...
I have experienced both... and i sometimes ask myself why people can be so rude... when in fact i am just voicing my own opinion... i believe we are different in every way... but i think politeness and tolerance is a universal value inherent among human beings... so why can't we just exercise that...
Whenever i encounter rudeness here in mylot... i try just to ignore it... and still give that member a positive rating... i just say to myself... "maybe i am just being too sensitive about the matter?"...
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 aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | I would certainly do the same thing if someone uses foul language to respond to my discussion... that is so un called for... and i think that is the best example of rudeness... i don't think what you did is mean... that is the best reaction anyone can make... thanks for the response... | |
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2.  roysville (190) | 3 months ago |  that's very considerate of you. fortunately for me, haven't had such experience here so far. Although it is not something new to me, since I've been to other forums as well and have encountered rude forumers. Most of the times I try to ignore them, thinking that they're not worth the waste of time. Although there are sometimes they get on my nerves and I try to respond, not on their level of course... oftentimes, it only makes them worse.
Makes me wonder too, why do they have to be rude? Definitely there's a better and more polite way of saying or contradicting an opinion. I understand we don't have to agree all the time, but we definitely don't need to punch each other.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | You are quite new here in mylot... so you still have a lot to encounter... but in my experience... those rude mylotters do not stay long... it is like they stay just to reak havoc among those who are loyal users of mylot... and like you i try my very best to just ignore them... even though sometimes... they do get in my nerves too... thanks for the response... | |
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3.  XoyyoX (304) | 3 months ago |  rude? what do you mean by the word "rude"? can you give me some exact examples? they use some dirty words or just talk in quite a different respective? i have never encountered any rude responses, coz i think i respond to any post in a polite way, if someone feel my post is kinda annoying, it's me that will say sorry first.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | I think the main reason why you have not encountered such is that you are a fairly new mylot member... judging by the number next to your mylot name... i have been here for more than 1 year... and have encountered members who try to make people feel bad...
I was called dumb twice... and that was because i voiced out my opinion... or responded to a topic that i know i am very familiar with... thanks for the response... | |
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| 4. mimpi1911 (5670) | 3 months ago |  This is a nice discussion, I must say. Even I have been coming across some rude comments here. I just ignore those and say thanks and move on. However, it feels sad!
I guess, I am like you, try to give benefit of doubt to the respondent.
Thanks.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | I know people are diffent... but sometimes i wonder why they can't seem to accept that others have their opinion too... but then... i guess that is how they were brought up in their own world... so i will continue on ignoring them... to the point that rudeness will never bother me again... thanks for the response... | |
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| 5. drannhh (5188) | 3 months ago |  I don't quite follow you. Do you mean you give someone who deserves a minus a plus? I would never do that. I do not agree that politeness and tolerance are universal values. Maybe they should be, but in reality, my observation is they are not, and so when people are polite to me I am generally polite back,but if they are rude I either vote with my feet or tell them where they can put themselves.
You and I probably agree though that people should put their best foot forward when they are guests on a social networking site such as myLot. We find, though, that a few people disagree.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | I made a personal rule that i will only rate minus when the response contain curse words or are racially prejudice... but the rest i rate positive... because i always consider the time and effort spent by the member in responding to my discussion... you are quite a tough person... to be able to tell people their place... i can be like that... but only when i have reached my limit... thanks for the response... | |
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | I agree with you... rude people usually want to start an arguement where they can show more rudeness... so it is best to comment in a polite way... i also do that... then whatever they comment back... i usually just ignore... thanks for the response... | |
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7.  everlasting (10037) | 3 months ago |  Let them do it and just skip the offending response. There are many rude persons out there and here also and we can not ban them, unluckily!
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | Yes, i agree... these are the people who can exercise their rights at the expense of others... there is nothing in the mylot rule that say... never be rude to other members... but there is a statement which say always be polite... so there is a loophole there... thanks for the response... | |
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| everlasting (10037) | 3 months ago | There is a rule here that prohibits us to be ruse to others..
Post to “flame” other users! Being mean to others is just not fun. Anything derogatory that is directed at a myLot user is strictly prohibited. Just be nice and have fun!
So, if that user is so mean, report him citing this rule! | |
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| 8. alpha7 (809) | 3 months ago |  Just ignore it.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | I certainly will... but i have a personal rule to comment on all those who respond to my discussion... so if the person comments back in a rude way... that is the time that i will igore the rudeness... thanks for the response... | |
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| 9. elmiko (1056) | 3 months ago |  I deal with it because more than likely it will happen some time or another. I can take it as long as its no way over the line.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | Well, if it is way over the line... the response will get the! rating... and i will ask the mylot admin to delete it... good thing it has never reached that level... thanks for the response... | |
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| 10. Goodie123 (7204) | 3 months ago |  It is not often I get rude responses,
But when I do I get upset,
As I was bought up not to be rude,
I tend to ignore the rude responder and move on.
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| aseretdd (4037) | 3 months ago | Yes, it is not often when we get rude responses or comments... and everytime that comes... we usually get upset... since we always try to be polite to all mylot members who we interact with... so the best we can do is to just ignore them and move on... thanks for the response... | |
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